They say Valentine’s Day is a women’s holiday.
The girlfriend / wife / fiancée gets:
- Fancy dinner
And that’s all fine and grand. Right, ladies?!
But what if you’re the woman, and you’ve got a great guy in your life. Doesn’t he deserve something extra special for Valentine’s Day?
Surveys, questionnaires and polls have been asking men for decades what it is that they really want for Valentine’s Day. Is it a fancy watch? A day of golf? A subscription to the Beer of the Month Club? Clothes..?
Uh … well … not so much.
We think you can probably guess what guys always want for Valentine’s Day.
Yep! … Sex.
But not just any sex. Special Valentine’s Day Sex.
So for that special man in your life—the one you want to truly show your appreciation for and make the happiest possible—here are the details for the perfect Valentine’s Day gift … what he really wants in the bedroom.
The 8 Secret Sexual Desires Men Have for Valentine’s Day Sex
By: Faye Roberts
- Have Sex 2 (or More) Times
Most guys feel lucky to have sex once in a day, but why not make their true dreams come true and give them sex 2 (or more) times on Valentine’s Day? They just need a breather in between, really. Or you could bookend the whole day with both a morning romp and a hot session in the evening.
- Have Random Sex in a Hotel
Sex in a new place and sex out of the blue are two fantasies that men have. So this Valentine’s Day, you might think about getting a hotel room for the two of you.
You can either plan it all out in advance and decide together on the perfect place to spend the night … or, you can surprise him with a night away. Get in the car like you’re going to dinner, then drive to “a new place you’ve just heard of.”
He’ll be blown away. When sex is on the menu, real dinner can always wait.
- Have Sex in a New Position
Many couples get stuck in the same old positions when they have sex. He’ll love it if you spice things up! It’s not just the fun of the new positions. It’s the fact that you’re feeling frisky enough to try new things. He’ll feel more comfortable with you and be crazy turned on that you’re turned on to get creative in the sack.
- See You Wearing Sexy Lingerie
It’s certainly going to end up on the floor (often within 60 seconds), but yeah, they definitely want to see it. In fact, even if it’s got all those straps and pulley systems, they’ll love it—super hot (plus more of a challenge).
- Get More Mouth Action
Men love blow jobs. This is a fact. One of the top desires that men had when asked what they wanted out of Valentine’s Day sex was more blow jobs.
Really, we’re sure that any “type” will do, but to make things really pleasurable for your man, try different positions. Standing, kneeling, or laying on the bed will all make his Valentine’s Day more than just a treat.
- Build Up the Hype
Ok, let’s get one thing straight: guys love sex pretty much any way. But when do they really get excited? When the build up is almost too much for them to handle.
Just jumping to it the moment you hit the sheets is perfectly fine. But if you two will be apart this Valentine’s Day (for work or other obligations or whatever), it’s a great time to take advantage of the idea of the buildup. Texting is the best way to do this.
Try these lines for starters:
- Thinking about you …
- I had a really naughty dream last night, and you were in it.
- So what do you think we should do tonight after dinner tonight …?
- Care to guess what color underwear I’m wearing?
*Once things get steamy, a sexy picture never hurts if you’re comfortable.
- Extend the Pleasure
Again, men are pretty much into any type of sex, but why not draw out the pleasure of your romp by making him last as long as possible. This can be done by simply slowing everything you do way down.
For example, start out with some light petting in one part of the house. Then strip down to some surprise lingerie and maybe move things to the bedroom. Hand jobs, blow jobs and grinding are all things that will stimulate his desire and make the pleasure longer and better. This slow start will absolutely end with a bang … that he won’t forget.
- Have Sex Plus His Favorite Dinner
Last but not least, if you’re going to go the whole nine yards for your guy, be more than a bombshell in the bedroom and give him the full treatment with a great dinner as well as sex.
Men in this day and age are adapting better than ever to gender equality, so of course women are not the only ones who can make dinner! But that doesn’t mean that men still don’t love a home cooked meal from their sweetie.
Make his favorite dinner (steak, ribs, burgers on the grill?) along with all the extra fixings. Maybe that’s candles and cloth napkins for some men … and the football game on the big screen with a TV tray for other guys. After a little digesting … have a wild round of sex, and be prepared for a man who is very happy.
All of these ideas can be used separately or based on what you know your man loves in the bedroom. But just beware. If you’re thinking about using several or all of these ideas this Valentine’s Day, you might be spoiling him way too much for next year.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Can’t be with your Valentine? Say “I love you” with a text.
By: Faye Roberts
For a while, some people were “pooh-poohing” texting, saying it wasn’t a quality way to communicate with people.
“It’s too impersonal!” Everyone said.
But let’s face it …
Texting is here to stay.
And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. We can’t forget that talking on the phone was also criticized as being impersonal at one point in time …
So with that being said, we can agree that texting is actually a great way to communicate with your honey!
But! … The same old texts get worn out. And to keep things spicy and romantic, you need some new texting lingo. And this is especially true on Valentine’s Day when you want to say “I love you” in a special way.
As it is now, Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. So it’s really time to start thinking about how you’re going to make this day special for your sweetheart.
Sending a heartfelt, loving text has been shown to intensely amplify the connection between two people—whether you’re all the way across the country or the world from each other or just apart for the day before your big date in the evening.
So try these “I love you” texts on for size. Each one sends this eternal message in a new and unique way.
10 Unique Valentine’s Day “I Love You” Messages
- “I was lying in bed this morning, and I realized that I actually feel deeper for you now than I ever have before.”
Here, you’re setting your sentiment in a place and time, and that’s great for expressing deep adoration to your partner. They’ll be able to imagine you thinking this very thought, and it will make them feel very special … and probably drive them wild.
- “I know you’re at work, but it’s been crazy today … I just can’t stop thinking about you and how lucky I am to have you in my life.”
When the butterflies are everywhere in a relationship, it’s obvious that you can’t stop thinking about your partner. So you can only assume that it’s the same for them. Now consider if you got a message like this one—wouldn’t it make you feel just great?
- “We’re going to be together soon for our Valentine’s Day date, but I just have to tell you now … even after all these years, I still get nervous before I see you.”
It’s so cute and adorable for anyone to see someone they’re into getting nervous about them. “Nervous about me!?” you think to yourself … This sentiment will make your sweetie feel 100 percent special on this special day.
- “Sometimes I think about the fact that there is no way you will ever realize much I care about you.”
When you’ve been in a relationship for a while and maybe you have the house, the kids, the whole shebang life together … it can be hard to say “I love you” in a new way. But this text just admits the truth, and that’s really the best way to do it.
- “Honestly, what are you doing to me? I literally haven’t been able to get you off my mind for the past week.”
Again, this is a great one for new relationships. And most likely, it is seriously true. Those first few weeks and months of a new relationship make you feel … nuts! So don’t deny it. Tell them!
- “Every time I see you, I fall hard for you all over again.”
A great line for couples that have been together for a while, and if you’re still going strong, it’s probably very true. With that being said, sometimes we take feelings like this for granted and we shouldn’t. Tell your sweetheart how truly good they make you feel.
- “Even though I’m ___ miles away from you, I feel like you’re here … because I simply cannot get you out of my mind.”
If you won’t be together for Valentine’s Day, that doesn’t mean you have to forget the beautiful sentiments behind this holiday. Express your love in a raw and honest way, and it will easily travel the distance between you two.
- “I used to think that true love was just a fantasy, something you read about in books and see in movies. But the moment I met you, I realized all the hype was so very true. I can’t believe I found you.”
This is a great text for newlyweds or really anyone who has found their soul mate. It expresses the uniqueness you two have found in your union—something that was truly meant to be.
- “I don’t even know who I was before I met you. You’ve changed my life for the better in ways you can’t imagine.”
Life can be busy, messy and complicated. But when you can take the time to send a heartfelt message like this, it lets your partner know that you’re always thinking about how lucky you are to have them in your life. It lets them know you don’t take them for granted.
- “I know things between us have been rocky, but I realize today how desperately I want us to work out. You’re everything to me.“
When things are troublesome between you or you’re on the brink of splitting, it can be extra difficult to share Valentine’s Day together. But it’s also vital that you make the most out of this day so that you can patch things together.
It sounds crazy to a lot of couples at first, but it’s at this time—when there’s tension and fighting between you two—that text messages can make a gigantic difference for whether you make it or not.
You probably didn’t even know there’s a whole field of relationship counseling devoted to texting.
The specific program to teach this form of relationship counseling was created by a relationship expert named Michael Fiore who discovered that in this day and age, texting actually plays one of the most pivotal roles in getting rocky relationships back on track. It also simply helps bring any and all couples closer together.
Fiore has discussed this premise in the media as in his recent appearance on the Rachael Ray Show. And now you can actually go through the program yourself. It’s called Text the Romance Back, and so far, it’s helped tens of thousands of couples reignite the desire, passion, and true everlasting love in their relationships. You can get the program here … and take advantage of how it will literal transform your relationship life.
There are things you can’t do with texting like give an actual kiss or a real loving embrace.
But there are also things you can do through texting that you never thought were possible before. So don’t waste this Valentine’s Day text. Make it even more caring, even more heartfelt, and even more memorable with a unique “I love you” text.