How to get your ex boyfriend back and make him ready to commit
Get your ex boyfriend back and ready to commit…
by avoiding these three mistakes
By: Brad Browning
So let’s get the bad out of the way first (I swear the good news is coming) – your boyfriend dumped you and it feels awful. You miss him. You call him and text him all the time, but he doesn’t seem interested in talking to you. Or worse, he simply ignores you.
If only you could show him how much you love him, he’d come sprinting back into your arms, eager to spend a lifetime with you and only you. Admit it, you’re thinking it, right?
Thing is, if you really want your ex boyfriend back, it isn’t about showing him how much you love him. It isn’t about confessing to him how much he means to you. And it isn’t about how much you beg, plead, and promise to change.
Believe it or not, if you want to win your ex boyfriend back (and have him ready to commit to you for the long haul), you need to do the opposite of all of the above. I’ll get into that juicy stuff in just a minute…
But first, I need to tell you about three brutal mistakes that most women make that ruin any chance of getting back together with their ex boyfriend…
Mistake #1 – Showing too much interest in getting back together.
When you’re feeling desperate to get your relationship back, you tend to act in ways you never thought possible. But never, ever put all your cards out on the table by telling him how much you want him back.
Remember, men don’t just want a challenge – they NEED a challenge. They thrive on it.
Even if you’re in a committed relationship right now, boredom will kill interest faster than you can say, “Men are so weird.” In order for you to re-attract the man of your dreams, you need to show him that there’s so much more to you than meets his eye. You need to show him that he is losing out by dumping you.
If you become too readily available for him, the less he’ll respect you…and the less he’ll want a romantic relationship with you ever again.
Mistake #2 – Trying to talk it out with their exes.
Women think that if they could only talk things out with their ex boyfriends that eventually they’ll come running back to them.
Often times, trying to convince your ex boyfriend with words will drive him further and further away…
See, when you try and use logic to win your ex boyfriend back, you’re only speaking to the rational side of his brain (the left side of his brain). In order to remind him of how it felt to feel passion and emotion for you, you need to speak directly to the emotional side of his brain (the right side of his brain). I’ll tell you how to do this in just a second.
Mistake #3 – “Online stalking” their ex boyfriends.
Admit it. You’ve been on his Facebook or Instagram since you’ve broken up… too. Many. Times. Not only will visiting your ex boyfriend’s social media make you feel WORSE about yourself, but you’re putting him on a “mental pedestal”. You fool yourself into thinking that he’s better than you when HE ISN’T. You trick yourself into believing that his “new girl” is better than you. If you really want to win back your ex boyfriend, then you need to stop thinking that you aren’t good enough – because you are good enough.
Now that we have those mistakes out of the way, here’s something you CAN do to get your ex boyfriend to drop everything, rethink ever breaking up with you, and take the step to open up dialogue between the two of you to work it out and get back together again…
Ready to Take The Next Step?
If you really want to get your ex boyfriend back and make him ready to commit to you again like never before, then you need to watch this free video I made for you.
I’ve been a breakup expert for the last decade and I know exactly what makes men “tick”.
Even if he’s cold to you, doesn’t want to talk to you, and swore on his life he’d never get back together with you, then you need to click here to watch this video.
In this video, I’ll reveal my three step process that will ensure you get the man of your dreams back into your arms (and I’ll teach you how to keep it that way, too).
I’ll also share with you a story that might sound quite similar to yours…
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