7 Amazing Oral Tips He Wishes You Knew

 

 

It’s happened to all of us. You’re in bed with your man, and things are heatin’ up. Maybe he’s your boyfriend, maybe your husband … or it could be the first time with a guy you’ve been dating for a while. Doesn’t matter—you know the signs.

 

The slight raise of the eyebrows.

 

The gentle push downward.

 

He lifts the covers for you and smirks.

 

It’s obvious what he wants. But do you know what you’re doing down there?

 

Working magic with your mouth can be daunting to some women. What feels good? Do I use tongue? My hands? Does he even like this? We’ve got no idea! We don’t have one of those things.

 

But don’t panic. Fortunately for the women of today, I’ve got a canon of tips, tricks and advice for you so that you can give your guy the time of his life tonight.

 

But first, let’s get one thing straight. This isn’t advice for women to be at the beck and call of men’s sexual desires. This is advice for women who have an important man in their life that they would like to make happy in bed. After all, it goes both ways.

 

Remember, oral is a healthy part of intimacy. Men love it (we all know that), and women love it to, but right now … we’re up, ladies!

 

Okay, let’s get started!

 

1. Start Slow

Wrapping your lips around his shaft from the get-go will definitely get a reaction from him, but remember, you’re taking this thing to the end, so start slow.

Give kisses down his chest until you arrive at your destination. Graze your mouth on key areas. Use soft fingers. Then, when you go for it, take things one inch at a time.

 

2. Use Those Hands

The hands add more warmth and stimulation to the experience, so use them! Circle the thumb and fingers around the shaft right against where your lips are, and put the other hand on the shaft as well, or use it to touch and massage other places.

 

3. Then Take Them Away

Oral is about sensation, but it’s also about what he’s seeing. If you’re on your knees in front of him, for example, try dropping your hands for a while so he can see just your mouth around him. The key is to switch things up.

 

4. The Wetter the Better

We know your mouth is already wet, but we’re talking really slippery. Try gathering some moisture in your mouth and depositing it as you take him in. Do this a few times, and use your hands to massage the wetness down his shaft.

 

5. Show Him You’re Into It

Show your guy you’re into what you’re doing. He’ll love it, and it’ll get you more into it for real as well. For example, he’ll love to hear you moan, plus the vibrations will feel good to him as well.

You can also look up at him every once in a while, or take a break with your mouth and use your hands while you whisper a phrase or two of dirty talk.

 

6. Switch Positions

If oral is a common part of your routine, don’t always just sneak under the covers to do it.

Try throwing off those covers to let him watch. You could also get on your knees in front of him while he sits on the couch (if no one else is home!), or try laying on your back with your head at the edge of the bed. Have him stand at the side and take him in that way.

 

7. Don’t Forget the Boys

As you build a rhythm and take him to the brink, try expanding your territory. There’s more than just his penis down there, and those other two are definitely part of the pleasure center for men. Try massaging his boys with one hand while you use the other on his shaft, for instance.

 

These are just a few tips to get you started, but there are many more where that came from right here.

 

On his site, Michael Webb, The Oprah Winfrey Show’s relationship and sex expert gives up everything guys are dying for you to know about giving him THE BEST oral of his life in his amazing lessons series.

 

Check it out—and your man will love you for it!