Lip Service Question

Got a situation with a girl who I fell head over heels for, put up with her messing around with someone else then realised that I was what she wanted.  Now she is not ready for a relationship as she has issues she has to sort out,  wants to spend time with the kids and get her head sorted.  But, she doesn’t want to lose the close friendship we have as she feels we are destined to be together.  I am her soul mate, but not just yet.
SO what do i do?  Sit and wait, grin and bear? Or just cut of the emotion and make a judgement call.  Because the way I feel, I can’t do any more heartache with her…or am I kidding myself?  ~ Anonymous