Have you ever known a woman who just had that spark that men couldn’t seem to resist?
There are certainly women who have this—dare we say, Super Power.
But the thing is, there are different types of these women. There are some who seem to command the love of men with their wit. Others who do it with their bodies. And still others who just have that sweetness or grace or badass-ness or whatever it is … to charm men into adoring them.
Think of her: She walks into a room, and things seem to get quiet. Men turn their heads. It’s almost instinctual.
Well, we’re here to tell you that that’s not divine intervention. It’s not just luck. Yes, some gals have special charm, but most of this is cold, hard learned skill.
Below, we’ll take a look at the top 8 types of women who fit the can’t-resist-em profile, and then we’ll dive into how you can learn from these women and employ their ever-so-coy tactics to snag the man of your dreams too.
8 Simply Irresistible Types of Women
- The Cutesy Silly One
This girl has a high voice and a sweet demeanor. You can’t imagine her being upset or frustrated because she always seems so lively and happy. She wears cutsie clothes and seems much younger than she actually is. She might be a little naïve.
- The Doesn’t-Know-She’s-Hot Bookworm
This girl lives in the library, and she loves to read and learn. These aren’t bad things, and it often makes her a little aloof to what people think about her—even the good stuff—which makes her even sexier.
- The Fun Social Butterfly
Everyone knows this girl. She walks down the street and has to say hi to 10 people. She’s always going to parties and events, yet she seems to have your life together pretty well. How does she do it?
- The Kind-Hearted Mother Figure
This woman always knows what to do. She randomly has her CPR license and can help you fill out any legal form. She’s very sweet and helpful, and even though she reminds guys of their 5th grade teacher, it’s in a good way that makes them attracted to her kindness.
- The Straight Up Badass
The badass girl rides a motorcycle and wears leather. She never worries about anything because she’s not scared of anything. This is both intimidating and amazingly attractive to men.
- The Free Spirit
She makes men feel good because she’s always giving out positive vibes. Her clothes and hair are long and flowing, making man wonder what’s underneath. She’s a hippie at heart and just wants free love.
- The Fast-Talking Witty One
This girl makes guys’ heads spin. Think Katherine Hepburn or Rosalind Russell. She’s got the looks and the smarts, but what really gets to men is her fierceness and quick wit.
- The Mysterious Sexpot
Webster’s dictionary defines Sexpot as: A conspicuously sexy woman. You already want to be her right? She pretty much has every guy’s number. But you don’t know anything about her. She’s every Bond girl, every silent femme fatale in every film noir. She’s gorgeous, and she walks on air.
How to Become Irresistible Yourself
If you’re looking to “improve your romance game,” it can be super difficult to know where to start. As you look at this list of sexy, confident, alluring women, you may be asking yourself which one to choose to emulate.
But that’s not where you should look for help.
Sure, these archetypes of women are attractive to men. But if you’re more like a silly fun girl and you’re trying to act like a sexpot, it’s just not gonna work for you. You need to first be yourself and then …
Take a little advice from each type of lady.
In other words, if you feel confident about your body, look to the sexpot for some sexy clothing advice. If people have complimented you on being sweet and kind, maybe that’s the image that men find most attractive in you. If you’re naturally sociable, play up that part of you.
You’ve got to value what you’ve got and not try to be someone you’re not.
Once you have a hold on your own “type,” what now? Well, you have to know how to act on a day-to-day basis. In other words, if there’s a guy out there you’re into, how are you going to communicate with them with these new talents you’ve acquired.
This is key. No matter what image you have or what type you are, you need to be able to communicate with your man and do it in a way that men find romantic and attractive. We recommend you start by reviewing what your man in particular craves.
What are his fantasies? What does he lust for? Getting to the bottom of this requires knowledge that you don’t have right now. But a lot of women have found they can get this information with Felicity Keith’s The Language of Desire for this.
Felicity takes you through the world of men’s fantasies, the best types of dirty talk to attract certain men, and most important of all, men’s inner psychology. If you are interested, check Language of Desire out to see how it works. Keep in mind that just as with any other social situation, knowing what someone wants needs to take place before you can hone your “skills” or knowledge in that area. It may seem odd to study for romance, but that’s what the ladies above have done … and it’s been working out pretty good for them!