How To Make Him Choose You Over Other Women (Even If They’re Prettier)

How To Make Him Choose You Over Other Women

(Even If They’re Prettier)

by Simone Myers

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Are you stuck with a guy who has the ‘shifty eye syndrome’? Or maybe you’re in a relationship with a man whose neck would break to get a peek at anything with legs; meanwhile you feel like you’re collecting dust over in the corner, wondering if he’ll ever see you that way again.

You might not realize it just yet, but when it comes to love, men are actually pretty straight forward.

Heck! I’m sure by now you’ve found that men can be pretty darn predictable, especially when it comes to intimacy. It’s this predictability, actually, that I’m going to show you how to use and harness today to have him going almost wacko just to get a peek at you, and to be near you.

It might sound impossible right now, but there’s only one thing you need to remember when it comes to men and love:

Simplify, simplify, simplify.

It’s often when a woman tries to make things too complicated, or when she tries too hard that men lose interest or become too confused to know how to react or respond. It’s this reality, actually, that has many marriages ending in divorce, and many more women unable to find a man or even get a date.

At the end of the day, when asked, many men admit that their ideal relationship is one that involves simplicity. No crazy desperation, or intense mind games, or never-ending arguments. Just the basics….with a little bit of edge to keep things interesting.

So how do you add that fine line of edginess into a relationship, without overcomplicating things?

Well, it’s simple.

You use the Mouse Trap Method.

I bet by now you’re sitting here going “huh….what the heck is that?”, but I’m glad you’re asking, because this technique is about to completely revolutionize and simplify your love life.

The Mouse Trap method is simple, because it can be applied to any stage of a relationship, and it does one thing, and one thing only: it makes a guy go completely ‘ga-ga’ for you.

I’ve literally seen guys turning down supermodel type women, just to rush home to a woman who has used this technique on him.

I’ve even seen extremely dry relationships go from dead, to bursting with intense passion within the span of just a few short weeks, under the same premise.

So to say that this technique will help you, is putting it lightly. It will SAVE you.

So I bet you’re wondering how it works?

Well, when a guy is checking out other women, or when your man loses interest in you, like most women, you probably thrust yourselves toward him, practically begging for attention…right?

Like most women, you likely don’t realize when you’re doing that either, or to what extent, but I can guarantee you’ve done this numerous times, if you’re dealing with a man who has the Shifty Eye Syndrome.

In cases like these, where a man’s attention is not solely on you, or where he has withdrawn from you emotionally (he’s become an emotional ghost), it actually can completely ruin your chances of ever having a man love you like you desire if you push yourself toward him.

Men, simply put, don’t want that.

That’s the ‘over complication’ I was talking about earlier. A man wants to feel free to make his own choices about how he feels, and when he is feeling how he feels.

Men absolutely HATE it when a woman tries to take control of his emotions and of his attention forcefully, especially if he’s already communicated that he wants his distance.

In that moment, he’s simply not hungry. Like a little toddler who refuses to eat even just one smaller mouthful, much to a parent’s frustration, a grown men works similarly when it comes to love.

If he doesn’t want it, he’s not going to take it.

The key, therefore, is to make him hungry for it. Wait it out, much like you would with a mouse trap and a piece of cheese.

If you try to bring the cheese to the mouse, he’ll run away.

But if you leave it for him, when he’s ready, and hungry enough….he’ll come get it.

He’ll even come get it from dangerous locations, if the hunger is strong enough.

And that, ladies, is the key to the Mouse Trap technique.

Leave the bait, allow him to become hungry for it, and let him take it.

It doesn’t have to be extremely complicated or confusing. It’s as simple as that, because men want to be in control and want to be the deciders, especially in a relationship or when attraction is involved.

Their natural instincts make them desire the chase, and the hunt; which men ultimately find rewarding. Remember if you are trying to push or force his attention on you, he’ll have nothing to chase, because the reality is you are the one chasing him.

It’s as ironic as trying to catch a mouse by running around with 100 chunks of cheese and throwing them at the mouse.

So, I bet by now you’re wondering how this whole Mouse Trap technique works?

The process is simple.

Here is how the Mouse Trap process works:

Step #1: Wait.

When he becomes an emotional ghost, or withdraws from you (even if you’ve just met recently, or have known him for a long time), WAIT. Don’t hurdle your cheese at him, hoping he’ll come around just because you’ve got a treat.

Be patient. This quality is actually one of your biggest allies when it comes to winning in a relationship, because a man cannot block or run from a patient woman. When a woman doesn’t fight what he’s doing, there’s nothing for him to force back in retaliation, so he gives in.

This is true especially if you’re dealing with a man who has shifty eyes, or who often appears to long for other women whether outwardly or in secret. If you’re not forcing yourself, there’s nothing for him to fight…there’s no reason for him to find now to ignore you.

Step #2: Set up the cheese.

The cheese, obviously, is you. You’re the bait. But you’re not going to throw yourself at him. You’re not going to break into little pieces to try and see if this or that would get his attention. No.

You simplify it. You wait, then you bait.

How do you bait?

That’s simple too, and I’ll talk about that in just a little bit, but for now understand just this one simple thing: your job is to wait for him to become hungry…which he will…if you allow him the opportunity.

Step #3: Let him take a bite- but make that bite so deliciously tempting that he’ll want to come back again and again.

This is where you show him what he was missing, which sounds complicated as well, but I promise you it’s actually pretty simple. Now that he’s told you he’s hungry for you, it’s actually very easy to tempt him and keep him hooked.

The key, is to use an open loop of attraction to do that.

What’s an open loop?

Well it’s essentially a never-ending wave of emotional buildup, wherein a man continuously builds up emotional excitement toward you, until he feels he can’t take it anymore, and explodes that excitement unto you. This loop then repeats again, just like a wave coming back and forth to the shore.

So now you must be wondering how to set up the cheese, and make him take the bait?

Earlier I mentioned that I was going to show you how to bait him, and I bet you’re also probably wondering how to open a loop that’ll keep him hooked.

The ‘how’ is actually very simple.  You do it by using secret little love spells.

No, these aren’t those corny ‘voo-doo’ spells you’re probably thinking of; but rather these are carefully crafted hypnotic lines. Follow this link right now to see what I’m talking about- => CLICK HERE. 

Wishing you a lifetime of love and passion!

Simone xo

How to Lose a Man in 5 Easy Steps

How to Lose a Man in 5 Easy Steps

by Rick Wall

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Sometime it seems that men and women are completely on different planets, and that it is absolutely impossible for either gender to understand the other. This can be seen clearly when observing some of the common causes that drive men out of relationships with women (and vice versa, of course). It is often times the result of behavior that is considered appropriate by some women; however, men view it in a negative light.

 

Following are five steps that will pretty much guarantee that you will lose your man. Keep in mind that these steps don’t have to be in consecutive; as few as one will do.

 

1. Overanalyzing Certain Situations

 

One of the most common mistakes that women make that end up driving men away is overanalyzing situations through an emotional lens.

 

Men will typically say or do things without giving much thought to what they are saying or doing. On the other hand, a woman will spend hours discussing the specific nuances of the same statement or action with another female.

 

When you overanalyze the actions of a man, it will typically lead you to a conclusion that is absolutely opposed to what he intended. I know that it is hard to believe, but while you are analyzing 20 different reasons why he did it, he actually just did it because he felt it needed to be done. There are no ulterior motives.

 

2. Become a Drama Queen

 

If there is anything that a man loathes it is drama. Men want peace, and they really prefer their partner to be the source of their peace.

 

Although a woman may be coaxed or riled up by those who are trying to show support for her, a drama queen is on a fast track to driving away the man in her life.

 

There are some women who have no problem bringing drama to their man’s life by doing things such as showing up to his job unannounced and causing a scene or having a public meltdown with a large audience to witness it. This behavior takes a man to a place that he is most uncomfortable, and it will end with him walking away.

 

Instead of confronting your man when you are worked up, firstly take a moment to calm down and clear your head.  Taking any action while your emotions are high is a bad idea.

When you have had a chance to breathe and think about what you’re angry about logcially, arrange a time to speak with him calmly so that you can sort out whatever you are having an issue with. It will work to your benefit no matter what the result is.  There is no better substitute for keeping it classy.

 

3. Spewing Perpetual Negativity

 

The only thing that a man seeks more than the affirmation of a woman is the respect of a woman. Relationship expert, James Bauer, actually calls this The Respect Principle (click here to learn a lot more about it).

 

Research has shown that men actually prefer being respected over being loved, whereas for women, if they had to choose, they would prefer to be loved.

 

Yes, men want to be loved too, but they need respect and affirmation the same way that you need to be loved.

 

When a woman is consistently negative, it slowly eats away at a man’s soul. One of the most negative statements that I have heard aimed at a man by his woman is, “Why don’t you love me anymore?” There is nothing more despairing for a man than to have a heart for a woman and be accused of not loving her.  He feels as though she doesn’t believe him when she makes these kinds of statements or asks these kinds of questions, and when a man feels as though you don’t believe him, he consequently feels as though you don’t respect him.

 

Further, there is no man or woman alive who wants to be with someone who perpetually has a dark cloud over there head.  Make a conscious effort to identify when you are being negative and do your best to work through what is making you unhappy so that you can be happy and positive in your relationship, too.

 

4. Constantly Trying to Change Him

 

Let’s get this clear right up front. When you meet a man, he is who he is. He will grow and mature, but his personality and his style will be pretty much fixed.

 

There will be certain things he will change to please you; however, hounding about things that he does not want to change will eventually wear thin with him, and he will push back. In the most extreme situations, he will push back by leaving.

 

5. Moving Things Along Too Fast

 

Becoming too emotionally attached or too physically clingy is another way to push a man away. It is understandable that you are excited about this new guy in your life; however, most men have learned that when a woman becomes too clingy too soon in the relationship, it typically leads to other issues later on.

 

Give him the space he needs to miss you and desire you. You also need space to ensure that you don’t lose yourself.

 

Men are actually very simple creatures, which means they are significantly different from women, and approaching a relationship with them the same way that you approach relationships with your female friend will almost certainly lead to problems in the long run.

 

 

Ready for more insights into the surprising things that men crave?  After reading this article, I hope you have started to realize that it’s not what you think. 

 

For further reading on The Respect Principle and so much more, make sure you check this out.

 

Respect matters to men in ways women just can’t see (without a little training in male psychology). If you’d like to learn how to implement this concept in your own relationships, follow the link below for a more in-depth explanation of The Respect Principle.  It can literally change EVERYTHING for the better in your current relationship, or in preparing you for a new, healthy relationship.

 

Click here to learn more!

 

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Top Mistakes Holding Women Back With Men (Marni Kinrys on The Social)

Top Mistakes Holding Women Back With Men

(Marni Kinrys on The Social)

If you want to be the kind of woman who holds the attention of EVERY man in the room…

And have the kind of effect on a man that he will do almost ANYTHING to please you..

You need to watch this video of our friend Marni Kinrys, world-renowned dating coach and author of “That’s Not How Men Work”, on “The Social”…

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Having worked with thousands of men all around the world, Marni has A TON of insights that have helped thousands of women better understand men, what men really find attractive and unattractive in women (hint – it’s not what the magazines are telling you), and secret tips on finding the man who is the right fit for you.  

Click here for more and to get started!