How can I help her stop dating losers?
I’ve recently made friends with a woman 35, I’m 48. We get on well and are so comfortable together, we recently stepped over the friend boundary and had sex, the loving was amazing, we both thought so. I like her a lot , but she doesn’t know what she wants. She was in a 20 year relationship and she’s starting to live a little and have some fun. Thing is, she’s getting through guys likens, looking for that spark and I’ve tried to tell her that she should stay single for a while now and grow, learn and develop a little and have some fun. She’s been separated for a year now and had two disastrous relationships in that time. She says she likes me and who knows where we’ll go, then says we’ll only ever be friends but keeps moving the goal posts. I’ve told her ill still be there when she’s ready, how can I help her stop with the losers? Her ex partner was 50. Age isn’t an issue to her, she kinda likes older guys.
He Has Shut Me Out of Our Relationship
It’s been a year that I have been in a relationship with my bf, we live just one 35 minute plane ride away from each other. I had him in my community for 1 month, then he finally went home, and suddenly after a couple of days, he shut me out and he won’t tell me the reason why. I kept asking him what the reasons are, he said distance was one of them, and he wouldn’t tell me the other reasons. I gave him many chances to be with me, but I’ve got only very few chances from him. Is he worth the wait? Will he open up to me and everything’s back to the way it was? It’s been almost two weeks now that he has shut me out.
I’m a young woman and I have been having much trouble with love.
A friend of LSI has written to us asking for some advice. She’s young and feeling frustrated with her love life. Let’s help her out by posting replies to her message below! Here is her letter to us:
Hello. I’m a young woman and I have been having much trouble with love or relationships, period. It’s as if no matter how hard I try, I can never find someone. I always end up alone with my heart broken. I’m the only one out of my friends who has never dated. I know I have my whole life ahead of me and love is a silly thing at this age, but I always wonder how it feels. I just need something to give me hope. ~ Anonymous