How To Truly Reach His Heart
by NICK BASTION
Are you driving yourself crazy trying to reach your man’s heart? Would you give anything to break through his shell and get him to open up to you?
The secret to cracking through a man’s shell and getting him to see you as having girlfriend or relationship potential is much easier than you would expect.
You may have a guy you are interested in or you might be dating someone now. But no matter what you do, he just won’t seem to commit to you.
You have a great time together and you want something more but you’re at a total loss on how to get him to see that you are the woman for him.
Everything you do is an effort to prove to him how great you are, how wonderful it is to be around you, and how he would be stupid to not want to lock you down.
Unfortunately, most women go about this in the completely wrong way and can even harm their chances in getting the guy to commit.
See, what most women don’t understand is that you focus on the wrong things when trying to take a relationship to the next level. You focus on things that actually don’t matter while completely ignoring the things that are going to really make all the difference to a man.
Magazines and society fill your head with all sorts of tricks and gimmicks to prove to a man that he should choose you.
This is completely twisted backwards and sends you down the wrong pathway when trying to get the man that you want to commit fully to you.
Things like leaving notes in his jacket pocket, acting like a challenge, or cooking him dinner and pulling out crazy tricks in bed are all terrible advice that is sabotaging your shot at a solid relationship.
Sure, you can do all of these things and a guy will appreciate it for a bit but any woman who tries hard enough can do these same things just as well if not better. There isn’t much to separate you from someone else.
You can jump through all the hoops you want and still not get your man’s heart. You bend over backwards for him only to be taken for granted or find yourself still shut out.
It’s not about being a challenge or even trying to prove how great you are.
It’s about having your own life and own interests going on that are ultimately going to attract a man to you and make him want to be a part of your life and lock you down.
Believe it or not but men actually love it when you don’t give up your own life just for them and the sake of the relationship.
This might seem counterintuitive but it will make sense in a minute.
Let’s look at it this way. You give up your hobbies, your interests, your nights out with friends, and your weekly activities all to dedicate yourself to your guy and the relationship.
Any time you hang out you ask him how his day was, what he’s been up to, what he does when he’s not with you, how things are going in his life, etc. He answers your questions but when he asks about your day and what’s going on in your life you don’t have any answers for him.