How to Know He’s Wildly Craving Only You
Whether you’ve got a husband, a long-term boyfriend, or you’re just dating, chances are good that some of your main relationship goals are to…
- Be the best sex he’s ever had
- Know for sure that you completely satisfy him in bed
- Make him only pant with desire for you
But it’s hard, right? I mean, how can you ever know for sure?
We all wonder whether or not we’re truly satisfying our partners in the bedroom.
Even while we’re in the throes of what we think of as passionate sex, we’re wondering, “Is this really what he wants and needs?” “Am I really what he desperately desires in a woman?”
We want to be her — whoever she is in his mind.
Unfortunately, this anxiety…this constant nagging worry that comes in many forms…ends up being part of our downfall. It was for me…at first.
But then I started to break down the issue. Why was I so nervous about whether my partner was head-over-heels having sex with me? There had to be specific anxieties that my mind was coming up with.
I found these specific anxieties in myself…and in many other women I asked.
Here they are. Maybe you’ve been facing them too:
Anxiety #1 – I don’t have a good enough body.
Here’s a big male/female difference for you: Women are constantly thinking about how their bodies look during sex. Men…not so much.
As a result, women become immensely more self-conscious about every inch of themselves: their weight and shape, rolls, body hair, cellulite, stretch marks — and the way their vagina looks, feels and smells to their man.
As you can imagine, anyone who has all of this criteria rattling around in their brain during sex…will quickly get out of the mood. And this is the danger of dwelling so heavily on thoughts like:
- “No way! This position gives me the worst tummy rolls.”
- “My vagina looks so weird.”
- “Ugh, when I’m in this position, does he think my boobs look terrible?”
These aren’t exactly…sexy…thoughts.
So here’s what you do: you’ve got to squelch those thoughts and make yourself feel sexier. Try these ideas:
- Buy yourself some hot lingerie that makes you feel beautiful
- Put your focus on how you feel
- Remind yourself that he isn’t having pity sex with you; he wants you…exactly the way you are
- And finally, remember that confidence is sexy
Anxiety #2 – I’m just not good at sex.
Lack of confidence about your body can often coincide with lack of confidence about your skills in the bedroom.
- “Was that a totally stupid position I just tried?”
- “Ack! I think I just got ‘him’ with my teeth.”
- “I hope this feels good for him.”
Let’s take a step back, however. You are busy reprimanding yourself for not being a goddess in bed. But what’s he doing? He’s enjoying having sex.
So do yourself a favor. Try to go with the flow more. Think about what you truly like, and do that. Then do what he likes (ask him what he likes). Then go back to what you like. If you try a position or move that doesn’t work, brush it off.
Also, accept imperfection. You will probably not have passionate sex akin to that of Kate and Leo in that car in the basement of the Titanic. That’s okay.
Anxiety #3 – He’s getting bored having sex with me.
Have I got news for you! You may think that married couples and long-term relationships end up creating two people who are essentially sick and tired of having sex with each other.
Not so. In fact, sexual satisfaction tends to go up over time with long-term committed relationships.
And if someone does start to get bored? It’s usually the woman, not your man. Fortunately, there are things you can do for this too. After all, you want to have sexual desire for yourself, and he certainly wants you to want him sexually.
This is where it’s important to try new things to spice things up:
- Purchase some sex toys
- Experiment with performing a striptease
- Turn the heat up with some new positions (and locales)
So far, you know the basics — your anxieties, and a few tricks for loosening up and having more fun in bed…giving him more pleasure.
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