Why Men Ignore Your Text Messages

The 10 Second Text That Will Make Him Smile For Hours

In my work as a relationship coach, one of the most common questions I get is “Why doesn’t he text me back?”

I’ve found that the women who ask this question are always making one of these four mistakes.

That’s right. There are four reasons why men ignore your texts. They have to do with why you’re texting, what you’re saying, and when you’re saying it. You need to stop doing these things immediately if you want men to text you back.

Plus, I’m going to share with you a foolproof way to get him to text you first.

  1. Boring texts

If you’re texting him “Hey, what’s up?” you’re not going to get a response. You need to give him something to respond to.

Before you send a text, ask yourself, “If he sent me this, how would I respond?” If you don’t know what to say back, chances are that he won’t either.

If he has to think about his reply, he’ll get distracted and forget all about your message. Pretty soon, when he sees a message from you he won’t even want to bother.

Make it easy for him. Think about what you know about him and make sure your texts are relevant to his interests and personality so he knows what to say. When in doubt, memes and jokes almost always get a response.

  1. Not asking questions

More often than not, when a guy stops responding it’s because he thought the conversation was over. And if he’s asking you questions and you’re not asking questions back, he probably thinks you don’t even want to talk to him!

This is why the best way to get a response is to ask a direct question. Something that he can’t answer with one word.

It’s easy to get fixated on making the perfect response to a text but asking the right questions is even more important. Every man wants a woman who is interested in what he thinks and feels.

  1. “I miss you”

This is a big mistake I see again and again. Texting is supposed to be a conversation. Keep it light, fun, and funny. This means no guilt trips!

I know that’s not what you’re trying to do but it’s difficult to read tone in a text message. If you text him “I miss you” or even a playful “hey stranger”, he may take it the wrong way.

He’s not going to want to text you (or date you) if you make him feel bad, even if that’s not your intention. Texting should give, not take.

  1. Always texting first

Texting is a part of courtship. He needs to feel like he has to chase you a little bit or he won’t be interested.

That’s why less is more. Don’t text him unless you have something to say or a question. I often recommend only texting to make plans.

Talking in person is always going to be easier and more natural. Plus, if you’re someone who agonizes over texting then focusing on the face-to-face is a much better way to go. The less you reach out via text, the quicker he’ll be to try to make plans.

You also shouldn’t always be texting him first. Let him send the first message.

You’re probably asking, “how do I make him text first?”

This can be tricky. That’s why I’ve put together a free video presentation that will show you how, when, and what to text him to have him chasing after you.

The Stupidly Simple "Attention-Pulling"  Text Message That All Men Are Powerless To Resist

My method is super easy and it works on any guy. Plus, he won’t even know you’re doing it! He’ll just feel an uncontrollable urge to text you, call you, and chase after you.

And the women that guys want to text are the ones they want to date. So click here to watch my free video and up your texting game!

The One Secret Text Message That He’s Dying to Hear

The Secret Text Message That He’s Dying to Hear

 

Do you want to learn the one secret text message that almost every man needs to hear? Once you send a text like this, don’t be surprised if he comes crawling back to you for more and more…

 

It’s something that a man desires more than anything else in the world and almost no women really know about it. Do you know what kind of text message it is?

 

I call it the “Respect” text message.

 

So, here’s the deal. The misconception is this: most women think that the only thing men want is sex. While this is true to a certain extent, that’s not exactly what he CRAVES in the long term. Sex is a transient experience…

 

But respect? It has the ability to last forever in a relationship or marriage.

 

So, before you text your man something… consider texting him something that shows you give him the kind of respect he deserves.

 

Here are a few examples…

 

You could say something like… “I appreciate how hard you work – you’re such a hard worker and I find that extremely sexy…”

Or you could text him something like, “I know I don’t say this enough to you, I appreciate how sexy you are… please don’t stop!”

 

These two examples sound pretty tame and innocuous to women, but in a man’s world, this is EXACTLY the type of thing he craves… more than anything else! And think to yourself – when was the last time you sent your man this kind of text message? I bet it’s been awhile… if at all!

 

Here are a few other text messages that you ABSOLUTELY must try with the man that you’re with (or trying to be with). I call this text the “Imagine Text”

 

You could try and say something like, “I always used to imagine what kind of ideal man I’d want to be with… and you have so many of those qualities!”

 

Or you could say something like…

 

“I’ve always fantasized about the type of man that I’d be with when I was a little girl… and definitely, you share a ton of the qualities I’ve thought about!”

 

If you send this to a man at the right time, don’t be surprised if he begins chasing after you harder than before. Don’t be shocked if he begins calling you, texting you, and wanting to be with you more and more.

 

Why?

 

Because you’ve given him something that the vast majority of women don’t give him. And it’s this respect dynamic that he’ll become psychologically addicted to you… and once he becomes addicted to you, you’ll be the only woman in the world that he becomes drawn to. This is how you fuel his desire to be committed and devoted to you like no other. Don’t believe me? Then you obviously haven’t tried sending a man these kinds of text messages.

 

At the end of the day, this idea that respect is the most important part of a relationship is absolutely one of the most crucial ideas in a relationship. Whether you’re in a marriage or you’ve just started dating, respecting your spouse is one of the keys to a longer lasting and happy relationship… and science has totally backed up that claim!

 

And the thing is… texting is one of the most powerful ways you can convey your man that you respect him. It’s simple, easy, and it barely takes any time to do. So, if you want to learn MORE ways you can make a man feel an undying love and devotion for you… then I encourage you to watch this free ‘how to’ guide on text messaging by my friend Amy North.

 

Click Here to Watch This Video

 

 

In it, you will learn the secret text message that makes a man feel a level of commitment to you like no other. Again, click here to watch this video – I promise that you won’t regret it!

 

In case you don’t know, Amy North is one of YouTube’s top relationship experts. Her channel has now over 400,000 subscribers and she releases some of the most ground-breaking relationship advice content on the internet.

 

And she’s been doing this for about 8 years… so she knows her stuff!

 

So do yourself a huge favor and watch that short video RIGHT NOW and really pump up your texting game. You and your man will be better off for it!

My Biggest Anxiety: Am I Really Satisfying Him When We’re in Bed Together?

My Biggest Anxiety: Am I Really Satisfying Him When We’re in Bed?

 

How to Know He’s Wildly Craving Only You

 

Whether you’ve got a husband, a long-term boyfriend, or you’re just dating, chances are good that some of your main relationship goals are to…

 

  • Be the best sex he’s ever had
  • Know for sure that you completely satisfy him in bed
  • Make him only pant with desire for you

 

But it’s hard, right? I mean, how can you ever know for sure?

 

We all wonder whether or not we’re truly satisfying our partners in the bedroom.

 

Even while we’re in the throes of what we think of as passionate sex, we’re wondering, “Is this really what he wants and needs?” “Am I really what he desperately desires in a woman?”

 

We want to be her — whoever she is in his mind.

 

Unfortunately, this anxiety…this constant nagging worry that comes in many forms…ends up being part of our downfall. It was for me…at first.

 

But then I started to break down the issue. Why was I so nervous about whether my partner was head-over-heels having sex with me? There had to be specific anxieties that my mind was coming up with.

 

I found these specific anxieties in myself…and in many other women I asked.

 

Here they are. Maybe you’ve been facing them too:

 

Anxiety #1 – I don’t have a good enough body.

 

Here’s a big male/female difference for you: Women are constantly thinking about how their bodies look during sex. Men…not so much.

 

As a result, women become immensely more self-conscious about every inch of themselves: their weight and shape, rolls, body hair, cellulite, stretch marks — and the way their vagina looks, feels and smells to their man.

 

As you can imagine, anyone who has all of this criteria rattling around in their brain during sex…will quickly get out of the mood. And this is the danger of dwelling so heavily on thoughts like:

 

  • “No way! This position gives me the worst tummy rolls.”
  • “My vagina looks so weird.
  • “Ugh, when I’m in this position, does he think my boobs look terrible?”

 

These aren’t exactly…sexy…thoughts.

 

So here’s what you do: you’ve got to squelch those thoughts and make yourself feel sexier. Try these ideas:

 

  • Buy yourself some hot lingerie that makes you feel beautiful
  • Put your focus on how you feel
  • Remind yourself that he isn’t having pity sex with you; he wants you…exactly the way you are
  • And finally, remember that confidence is sexy

 

Anxiety #2 – I’m just not good at sex.

 

Lack of confidence about your body can often coincide with lack of confidence about your skills in the bedroom.

 

  • “Was that a totally stupid position I just tried?”
  • “Ack! I think I just got ‘him’ with my teeth.”
  • “I hope this feels good for him.”

 

Let’s take a step back, however. You are busy reprimanding yourself for not being a goddess in bed. But what’s he doing? He’s enjoying having sex.

 

So do yourself a favor. Try to go with the flow more. Think about what you truly like, and do that. Then do what he likes (ask him what he likes). Then go back to what you like. If you try a position or move that doesn’t work, brush it off.

 

Also, accept imperfection. You will probably not have passionate sex akin to that of Kate and Leo in that car in the basement of the Titanic. That’s okay.

 

Anxiety #3 – He’s getting bored having sex with me.

 

Have I got news for you! You may think that married couples and long-term relationships end up creating two people who are essentially sick and tired of having sex with each other.

 

Not so. In fact, sexual satisfaction tends to go up over time with long-term committed relationships.

 

And if someone does start to get bored? It’s usually the woman, not your man. Fortunately, there are things you can do for this too. After all, you want to have sexual desire for yourself, and he certainly wants you to want him sexually.

 

This is where it’s important to try new things to spice things up:

 

  • Purchase some sex toys
  • Experiment with performing a striptease
  • Turn the heat up with some new positions (and locales)

 

 

So far, you know the basics — your anxieties, and a few tricks for loosening up and having more fun in bed…giving him more pleasure.

 

But I know you’re ready for a precise formula wrapped up in a free video I just discovered. Learn tips that will nip your fears in the bud and make it out-of-the-question that your man would ever not be passionately, freakishly obsessed with you — and only you.

 

This formula is something that only a few women know about. The secrets I found here are what made my man become obsessed with me. And in turn, this erased all my worry and anxiety concerning whether or not I excited him in bed. (Now I’m sure that I do, and it’s amazing).

 

This free presentation shows you exactly what to do to ignite insane passion in your relationship. Your man won’t know what hit him. Go check it out now right here.