Sex tips come in all shapes and sizes, but let’s face it: What women really want to know about when it comes to what to do in the bedroom is what men say they want.
Honestly, one reason for this is because this will be the most accurate information. But also, women find that when their man gets turned on, they get turned on.
Of course, this goes both ways (guys love it when you get excited!).
But hey, if you’re just feeling like an awesome girlfriend or wife right about now, and maybe like you really want to give your guy the greatest sex he’s had in a while you might be lookin’ for some advice.
And for that, you’ll need these red hot tips straight from the mouths of men …
The Top 8 Red Hot Sex Tips from Men
By: Faye Roberts
- Don’t overlook the attire. These little numbers get him every time.
The lingerie section of the department store is full of different outfits and getups, but that’s just what these companies want to sell.
What do men really like when it comes to lingerie? Here are the top features to include in your sexy outfit for him.
- A thong. No matter what, a thong. Never granny panties (duh), and also avoid the boy shorts. These just don’t seem to do it like thongs do it … lace is always good.
- Thigh high stockings. These things are gold when it comes to men. They love the look they give your thighs and hips, and bonus if they attach to your panties underneath your …
- Babydoll. Babydolls are sheer in all the right places and short so they can see most of your legs and some of your butt. Don’t worry about a bra underneath, or get one with a built-in bustier if you’re a little self-conscious.
- As for colors, men prefer red and black and sometimes pink. While other colors might be available, stick with these 3 if you really want to wow him!
- Tie in some kinky foreplay.
Get it? Tie in …
Yep. We’re talking about tying up (not too tight!) your guy’s hands with either his tie, a fun set of fuzzy handcuffs, or even a sexy silk scarf of yours.
Men say they love this because it turns the tables for once. Usually, they are in the dominating role, but it’s nice to feel dominated every once in a while. They love when you take charge and really handle them in this way.
- Get him to come home early with this text.
Guys are visual creatures, so what you need to do is set the scene for him. Of course you could always just take a picture, but what’s better is sending him a text like this:
“Just thought you might want to know, that right now, I’m lying in bed with nothing on … thinking about that time we ______ …”
Fill in the blank with something you know he loves in bed.
You’ll hear him pulling in the driveway a few seconds after you press Send.
- Get motivated on your own while he watches.
This one has two benefits. First off, he will go gaga over watching you pleasure yourself. But also, he might get some tips for later (bonus!). After all, you know what you like.
To ease into this if you’ve never done it before, tell him he’s making you want to touch yourself and go for it. Or put your hand over his and guide him. He’s going to watch. That part’s easy. And while you’re doing it, you can either invite him to do the same or just let him enjoy the show.
- Don’t forget his other sensitive parts with this key tip.
Guys are always saying that they love basically anything having to do with your mouth + his shaft and head, but their balls often go ignored.
Many men have said that when they’re getting a blowjob or hand job, if you give their balls attention with the other hand or even use your mouth and tongue on them, it drives them wild!
One technique that men particularly loved on their balls? Blow on them. They go crazy over this!
- Totally surprise him by doing this.
Right before bed.
Get in your birthday suit.
Get into bed.
Under the covers.
Pretend your sleeping.
He gets in.
You know the rest.
- Increase your mouth talents with this move.
Anything with your mouth is golden, but he’ll go crazy if you try this:
Use your hands and mouth until he’s close to finishing, but right before he does, take your mouth off him and squeeze with your fingers at the base of his shaft. Then go at him again with your mouth.
Do this 2 or 3 times for the greatest effect. It maximizes his pleasure and according to men, feels amazing!
- Say this and he’ll literally lose his mind with lust for you.
Finally, want to know what to say to get him instantly hard? Ok …
Randomly, lean over and whisper in his ear: I’m thinking about your ______ (body part) and it’s really making me ____ (excited in this way).
He’ll be after you in less than a second.
Of course, this is just a phrase to start things off, and then you’ve got to keep it going. Hopefully, he’ll give you a little something to play on in return, and then it’s just like playing catch—back and forth (it’s sexy catch).
Dirty talk is all about confidence and keeping the ball rolling.
If that still sounds pretty tough to do, you’re not alone. A lot of women struggle with what to say and how to say it when it comes to dirty talk.
The phrasing above will start you off and to learn more, you can go here: The Language of Desire.
This is a program that was designed especially for women to help them learn more about what men want sexually in a relationship.
How do men want to be treated? What do they like in terms of dirty talk, touching, and sexual positions? Blowjobs?
It’s all in The Language of Desire.
If these are tips and advice that could benefit your relationship, take a look!
And keep in mind that dirty talk is just the beginning. Expect a whole new universe to your sex life once you unlock these secrets. Your man won’t know what hit him!