She must create it herself.
How wrong it is for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it herself. ~ Anais NinPart of a human being’s self-confidence , self-esteem, and self-worth comes from how well they can assert their independence and take care of their own lives. Depending too much on another diminishes these qualities. It is essentially a mistake for a woman to depending on anyone else to create her world for her – she must create it herself so that she can live in it the way she wishes. ~Gia