3 Most Irresistible Traits of Cleopatra (Do you have these?)

Irresistible Cleopatra


Marilyn Monroe…


Audrey Hepburn…


Rita Hayworth…


Over the decades, these women have been known for their magnetic aura and to-die-for looks.


Simply mentioning their names will already make you think of traits like class, sophistication – and of course, undeniable beauty.


But there’s another name that stands the test of time.


Turn the clock a couple of thousand years back, and you’ll find one particular lady who epitomizes qualities like grace, femininity, and irresistible charm.


You could even say she set the bar for what it means to be truly drop-dead gorgeous inside-out.


She was so irresistible, in fact, that powerful men literally went to war and handed her the keys to their kingdoms just to have the pleasure of her company.


And that woman was none other than Cleopatra.


Only she had the power to seduce the likes of Julius Caesar and Marc Anthony. When these guys walked into a room (or battlefield), they commanded respect from their comrades – and petrified their enemies with fear.


It didn’t matter though – they were defenseless against Cleopatra’s feminine wiles.


For the longest time, NO ONE knew what she really looked like. There have only been accounts of the dalliances she’s had – and how it shaped the course of human history.


Her actual appearance was a mystery – until archaeologists made a jaw-dropping discovery, that is.


You see, after they unearthed an ancient bust carved with Cleopatra’s name, it turned out that the most reveled name in seduction wasn’t some flawless goddess.



For all the hype surrounding her, Cleopatra didn’t look like a dolled-up celebrity or impossibly good-looking movie star. In fact, she’s really rather plain.


So how did she do it? If it wasn’t her beauty, then how did she pull it off?


How did this average-looking woman outfox the competition and turn the world’s most powerful men into clay in her hands?


Was it some ancient Egyptian spell?


– Drugs?


– Mind control?


– All three???


Not at all.


The secret behind Cleopatra’s irresistible charm had to do with certain personal traits that made it IMPOSSIBLE for men NOT to fall for her.


It was her authentic, dyed-in-the-wool personality which made her the legend she is today.


In particular, she had THREE traits that made it dead simple for her to attract ANY man she wanted:



Cleopatra Trait #1: Understand How Attraction Works


Think about the last time you fell for a guy.


Did this hottie check off all the boxes in your detailed list of qualities you want in a guy?


Probably not, because no one really puts that much conscious thought into it.


When you saw him, your subconscious already told you he’s attractive.


It had nothing to do with logic – you JUST knew.


End of story.


So how do you flip the switch in a man’s brain that triggers his instinctive desire for you?


Well, it starts with one word: VALUE.


Getting a guy interested in you boils down to this simple concept that most women take for granted.


What do I mean by this? When you have this simple trait, people will actually experience a teeny tiny bit of PAIN when they’re not near YOU. That’s right, men found Cleopatra’s mere presence INTOXICATING. They knew her VALUE and couldn’t bear to be away from her.


To create this value for yourself, you first need to cultivate a lifestyle where you’re firing on ALL cylinders.


You’re not just working on one aspect of your life, but seeking to improve yourself on multiple levels. This includes your career, hobbies, passions. The same goes for the relationships you have with your family, friends and colleagues.


All of these form the bulk of your attractive lifestyle, so it’s wise to nurture this part of you.


On the surface, it might not seem to have a direct effect on dating men. However, all of this adds up to the passionate, authentic and magnetic personality that guys CRAVE in a woman.


More importantly, this sends a very clear signal to guys that makes them think this one feeling:


“Hey, this woman is pretty interesting. Being around her adds VALUE to my life. I should hang out with her.”


Saying that out loud doesn’t sound like the most logical statement, does it?


But THIS is what guys are unconsciously thinking when they meet a woman they like.


(Like I said, logic and reasoning go out the window when it comes to dating and attraction.)



Cleopatra Trait #2: Win Him With Confidence


Yes, I know that “be confident” is one of the most worn-out phrases in the history of dating advice. I can sense your eyes rolling…


But let me offer another angle to this all-important ingredient to attraction…


The kind of confidence I’m talking about is the lack of FEAR around men.


You might be thinking that you’re not afraid of guys, but I don’t mean it in the physical or immediate sense. The reality is that a lot of women are afraid of not being approved by men.


They’re worried that deep inside, they’re not worthy of a guy’s time and attention. This is where a lot of problems start when it comes to attracting guys.


If you feel that, on some level, you need to PROVE your worth to a guy, then you’ll undermine the value you’re trying to create for yourself.


Here are some of the things women do that create this effect:


– Doing things for the purpose of making him like you…


– Being nice to the point of compromising your time, well-being and life balance. I call this being OVER-nice…


– Changing your opinion or something about yourself just to please him – and not because it aligns with your values and principles…


So confidence is really about being secure in the fact you don’t need to manipulate or play games with a guy just to make him commit to you. You know for a fact that you’re already a WHOLE person without him.


Having a relationship isn’t meant to fill an emptiness in your life. Striving to create an engaging lifestyle is the best way to fill those gaps without a man’s approval.


Ask yourself – what would I do if I knew that I would be single forever?


Oh, I know, it’s not something you want to think about, and the reality is that it’s EXTREMELY unlikely. But if adopt that attitude, you’d be surprised how it would attract men.


Healthy and stable relationships are built on a mindset that says, “My life is awesome right now. However, you’re pretty fun to hang out with because you’re the kind of guy who enriches my life.”


Women who operate the other way often find themselves desperately chasing after guys. They end up turning off men because they’re perceived as needy and emotionally insecure.


On the other hand, Cleopatra had that confident vibe about her, and men were COMPELLED to try to win that “Cool Guy” position in her life. (I know, hard to think of Caesar and Marc Anthony trying to be cool, but you can bet they were chumps for her.)


And that leads us to:


Cleopatra Trait #3: Be a Woman


You’re probably thinking, “What?? OF COURSE I’m a woman. What are you getting at?”


After all, it seems like a no-brainer, right?


All you have to do is be a member of the female species and any red-blooded male should come knocking at your door.


But allow me to peel back the layers here…


Here’s the thing: If you don’t embrace your femininity, then you’ll NEVER show up on his radar.


This won’t be the most politically correct thing you’ll hear from me, but bear with me and keep an open mind.


As far as attraction is concerned, there IS a reason why men and women ARE different. Men are biologically hardwired to seek the yin to their yang, if you will.


He wants something he DOESN’T have, which is your soft, sensual and feminine side.


This does NOT mean that you shouldn’t be yourself. Or that you shouldn’t be strong or tough or that you shouldn’t show him that part of you.  He loves that, too.


But there’s nothing wrong with being a woman, and it doesn’t make you LESS of a woman to stop trying to be like one of the guys. We feel SPECIAL and ACCEPTED when we get to see the softer and more vulnerable part of you.


For example, it may sound silly to you but we get a kick out of using our manly strength to move your huge flat screen TV for you – or kill that spider in your garage. When you get a case of the sniffles, we’ll swoop into action and get you warm soup and a blanket.


It’s in our blood. We won’t tell you, but we LOVE the feeling of being able to do those little things for our partner. Men won’t ever complain about having to be a man for you.


Sure, you can do this for yourself, we know that. Yet, if you LET US do it anyway, then you’re giving us the feminine woman we’re crazy about.


Now, these three irresistible Cleopatra traits we just covered will push you in the right direction. When you start showing these traits, you’ll know the secret to Cleopatra’s allure…


But what if you could take it to the next level? How would you like to POSSESS her charm and magnetic power over men?


What made Cleopatra the “complete package” to the men of her time was her ability to get them to drop their guard. She could get the toughest, battle-hardened guy to drop that defensive wall and open his heart to her.


She did it WITHOUT playing mind games or being dishonest with men.


Cleopatra did it with INTEGRITY and remained true to who she was.


And they LOVED her for it!


The good news is that she didn’t take this secret with her to the great beyond. Even today, some women know her secrets. They’re applying this life-changing magical magnetism to get the guy of their dreams.


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What to Do When Your Guy and Your Best Friend Are Flirting



You’re out with your boyfriend and your best friend is there. Sure, you hope they get along … but are they getting along a little too much?


Is he touching her arm … Is she touching his thigh? Are they laughing and gossiping and sharing funny stories? Do you feel like the third wheel instead of her?


If these are the initial reactions you’re having, it might be cause for concern. But taking action needs to be done carefully and cautiously. Follow these guidelines for the best outcome, which is that you retain your relationship and your friendship, and no one feels awkward.


How to Approach Possible “Flirtations” Between Your Guy and Your Friend


First, are you just jealous? Make sure they’re actually flirting.


In a situation like this, you have to make sure that you aren’t just being jealous. In order to ensure that, first take a look at your past. Have you ever had this scenario happen to you before with nothing to come of it? If so … this might be a running theme.


If it helps, (in a secure place), write down all the things that have made you feel like your friend and guy have been flirting. If it includes things like them laughing at the same jokes, talking, and making eye contact, try to take a beat and realize that that’s just two friendly people interacting.


If the list includes things like them meeting to hang out without you, touching each other a lot, and completely barring you from their conversation when you’re all together … take this seriously.


Sure they’re flirting? Talk to your guy.


Alright, if it’s cause for concern, you need to bring this issue up with both your best friend and your man. First, talk to your man. This is because you two are in the relationship that you are worried about. Of course, you’re worried about your friendship too, but a line has been crossed that should be especially firm within your romantic relationship. So take the plunge and talk to him about it.


Make sure you approach it gently, and just be honest. Tell him how much you care about and love him and your friend, but make it known that you think their interactions have been a little weird … and you’re uncomfortable.


Now, if necessary, talk to your friend.


If he is generally saying that most of the flirtations are coming from your friend’s end, you’ll need to talk to her as well. Make sure that isn’t just pushing it all on her though. Use your noggin. You know what you’ve seen between them.


In some cases, however, girls can be a little more flirtatious than is welcome (men can too), so if your boyfriend says that he actually feels uncomfortable too, bring it up (again, gently) with your friend. Be casual about it, but make it known that it makes you feel uncomfortable. Don’t bring up that you’ve talked about it with your guy. And definitely don’t have a three-way conversation about it. You don’t want to build this into a drama.


In the best case scenario, both your guy and best friend will acknowledge what’s going on, beg your pardon, and make an effort to tone down the flirting.


But you have some work to do within your relationship as well.


Identify the “Gap”


Almost all relationships will develop the dreaded Gap at one point or another. In fact, most relationships have this Gap for most of their relationship, and it just keeps widening and shrinking as the months, years and decades pass.


It’s the communication Gap, and it becomes glaringly present whenever you two are feeling like you’re not connected on that intense romantic level. When you feel deep in your heart that your guy is actually, truly flirting with someone else? Your so-called friend? That’s the Gap getting wider … and wider. Let it get too wide, and it’s over.


To bridge the gap, you need to know what your man desires deep down. And this is where you need a program, such as Be Irresistible. There are many programs women use to bridge the Gap and get super close with their men again, but Be Irresistible is constantly number one on the list, so we’ll only mention this one.


With this program, you can enjoy a rare sort of relationship, one that is exciting, romantic, passionate and incredibly vivacious.


But remember, it all starts by taking the proper course of action. If you are seriously worried about your man with another woman (your friend, no less), you need to take these action steps now. That is, unless you are prepared to see those two walking down the aisle in a few years.


No one ever criticizes someone who going after what they truly want in terms of career or financial goals. So why should you hold back on what you want romantically?


If your relationship is in jeopardy, go out there and get him back, girl! Make him crazy about you again. It’s possible. He’s worth it. And so are you.