In Love? You’ll Never Be His Best Ever Until You Know This

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When you’re in love, everything is coming up roses. Spending time with him is all you think about. Everything seems to lead up to that. Other parts of your life that you used to be frustrated about—work, family problems, the state of the world … those things seem to just float away a whole lot easier now that love is in your life.

 

Even if your love is not reciprocated, you’re probably still going to be happy. He may never even look your way, but knowing that he’s there … knowing that he could be the one, it makes you a little crazy.

 

You know the feeling …

 

In the mean time, you find yourself taking more time with your appearance. Hair, makeup, better clothes. And of course, as you two (hopefully) continue to get closer and closer, as the love continues to get stronger … you think about …

 

Sex … and how to please him in his favorite possible ways.

 

Because let’s face it: You want to be the best he’s ever had. Love’ll do that to ya.

 

Which leads us to our main point: What you must know if you want to be his best ever … if you want to further foster feelings of intense love with your man. And make him love you even more.

 

Mind-blowing sex is on the menu.

 

Intimacy Needs to Be Both Emotional and Physical

 

Let’s start at the beginning with a simple lesson in love that every woman should know. Namely, that true love cannot come about from only physical intimacy and can’t come about from only emotional intimacy either. You must have a combination of the two.

 

Here’s how you do it.

 

Fostering Emotional Intimacy

 

Let’s start with the emotional aspect of things. In order to tap into any man’s psyche and find that heart of gold you know is there … that strength and yearning that you know he has … the thing you’ve been looking for desperately in your love life, you need to act like a gardener.

 

Sound sort of odd? It’s not. Think about it. A gardener does several key things to make their plants and crops grow: Water, sun, soil. You need certain ingredients to make your love grow.

 

The love you feel for him? It’s already there. But men are stubborn. The way to the hearts of men is a winding and twisty labyrinth that is hard for women to find their way in. It’s certainly possible, though, to navigate the emotions and feelings of a man if you only know what you’re doing. You need to be able to tap into him where no other woman has been able to. And sorry to say, it won’t exactly be easy.

 

A lot of it has to do with asking the right questions. We’ll talk about strategies later, but know this: One question or inquiry that he doesn’t like, and he could shut down forever. It’s important to know how to talk to a man who is emotionally closed off.

 

Fostering Physical Intimacy

 

Now we’ve arrived at the physical stuff. To men? Equally important.

 

Men are visual and need sex almost daily. They think about it constantly. But their likes and dislikes vary. It depends on their personality, but it also depends on how you present yourself.

 

Men want to be with strong women. They want a woman who can take care of him, who is intelligent and knows she is beautiful and capable. But at the same time, he wants to be a caregiver. Trying to figure out how to make both of these things happen in the bedroom is a challenge.

 

For example, dirty talk: Being too forceful—even saying things he might seemingly lust after in a porn he watches—is going to turn him off. In contrast, not saying anything or being too shy with your sexy talk is going to be turn him off for him as well. He’s going to become shy and feel awkward if he wants to talk dirty to you. He’ll feel like he can’t be himself around you, and that just everything else inside him completely down.

 

Knowing just what to say, and employing techniques that are tried and true with emotionally cut off men is exactly what you need to learn how to do.

 

Bringing Everything Together

 

What you have here are two strategies for reinforcing desire and love within the man you love—whether he is currently your partner right now or not. Have a partner who seems distant? Broken up with a boyfriend who you want back? These are the strategies that can help you fix things.

 

To actually bring everything together, though, you need one secret. And it lies within the Language of Desire.

 

This program is like the perfect teacher for any woman who wants to cultivate an indescribably heightened, intense love while also giving her man the best sex ever.

 

Felicity Keith, aka “the man whisperer” created The Language of Desire to help you unlock the desire in any man you want. Once you find this key that Felicity will give you, you’ll understand just how much you didn’t know about your guy. Without even touching him, you can create an intense lust between you so that he is constantly thinking about you, can’t wait to have you …

 

And just imagine what you can do when you get to the “touching” part of the program.

 

Try it and see if it works for you the way it has worked for countess other woman. We think you’ll love the results you get … and your man will too.

 

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3 Ways To Get His Full Attention

3 Ways to Create the Love, Attention and Affection You Deserve and Want with a Man

by Nadine Piat

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Perhaps you’ve been dating someone for a while, maybe you’re married or possibly single and looking for love…

 

No matter what stage of finding love or a relationship you’re in, it can feel terribly empty and lonely when your deepest longings and desires are not matched and reciprocated by the very man you desire or care deeply for.

 

I wonder how much time you spend worrying and stressing trying to work out how to get the man you want to care for you and love you in a way that feels heart connected and intimate?

 

Without realizing it, there could be a few things you’re doing that are standing in your way that can create an instant disconnection with a man…

 

We went to school to learn to read, write, to do math, science, art, etc., though most of us were never taught about communication, love, intimacy and relationships, which collectively happens to be the most important part of life, because everything we do is about relating to others and ourselves.

 

So, if you’re troubled in the area of love and intimacy, then know you’re not alone, and there are things you can do to quickly change your love success.

 

Here are three things you can do today that will create the love, attention and affection you deserve and want with a man:

 

1. Stop “trying” to be sexy!

Women can spend so much money, time and effort trying to make themselves more sexy for a man.  A woman who’s overly done up and looks as though she spends hours trying to look sexy and beautiful creates the opposite effect to what she was intending.  Sure, men like a woman that looks good and smells good, though many women take it too far and instead of attracting quality men, most men will think that you’re too much work or that you’re high maintenance.

 

A really short dress and lots of cleavage doesn’t make you sexier, nor does lots of make-up, pouting and hair flicking.  Trying to be sexy can come across as weird and off-putting.

 

A confident, self-loving woman who’s at peace with herself radiates true authentic sexiness.  This woman attracts the best men, the men who want real love and are ready for love.

 

2. Stop acting like you don’t care.

You’d be surprised how many women don’t encourage a man they like.  Many women worry about appearing too eager for fear of coming across as needy – and instead of this making him keener, she discourages him.  This is confusing to men.  Sure, the players might like the confusion, though relationship ready men will tend to lose interest in the ‘Miss Hot and Cold’ charade.

 

Don’t do it!  Be authentic.

 

Let him know you like him without being a doormat. And if it’s the early stages of dating, the truth is; you don’t know who the man really is, if you’re compatible and if he’s a man of character yet.  So be encouraging without putting the cart before the horse.

 

If you’re in relationship, then perhaps it’s time to show more appreciation and do some nice things for each other (more than you already do).

 

3. Overcome feeling nervous and anxious around men.

One of the quickest and most powerful things you can do to connect to a man’s heart is to shift your energy.  When a woman feels insecure and uncertain about a guy her energy screams it.  Nervousness can be cute in the early stages of dating, though not all nervousness comes from the same root source.

 

If you’re stressed about a guy, you might think that you’re acting cool and relaxed, though there’s a pretty good chance he can feel something’s going on.  People can normally tell when someone’s feeling edgy, anxious or dis-empowered.  When someone senses a level of insecurity, unspoken dissatisfaction or neediness most people will pull away.

 

Try this out:  When you’re speaking with a guy, or spending time with him face to face.  I encourage you to lighten your energy and connect with your own heart.  Breathe into your heart space and allow yourself to smile a little – not like a clown, a gentle loving smile, like the Mona Lisa, this will help you to instantly relax and feel peaceful. 

 

It doesn’t matter if you have things to work out with him, or if you’re feeling hurt and angry. That’s irrelevant.  Drop the ‘school teacher’, little girl having a ‘tantrum’, or ‘mummies upset’ with you vibe… men detest that and will shut down.  Communicate from the heart, not from a place of fear.

 

Try this heart energy and he’ll instantly feel more at ease with you. He will also feel safe around you and that’s something that men desire and need in order to open up to you.

 

So there you have it!  You now have a taste of three things you can do to bring a man closer that you can start doing right now.

Don’t give up!  Keep loving you and being a woman who draws in the best men.

Loving and connecting with a man is simple when you know how!

 

Ready for More? 

I’ve got A LOT more powerful insights and exclusive secrets for you that will not only connect you with the heart of your man, but will absolutely make him melt.  So if you’re looking for his full attention, here’s how to get it:  

Click here for the full scoop!

 

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3 Things You Can Say To Drive Your Man Wild

3 Naughty Phrases that Will Drive Your Man Wild

by Felicity Keith

3 things you can say to drive your man wild

Words that turn a man on trigger a specific response in him, both physically and emotionally. What matters to most guys is that his sexual prowess is validated. He wants to know that you love what he’s doing and that his masculinity is arousing you. There is an almost universal male archetype of the strong sex-god rock star who is able to magically seduce and satisfy women. Yes, even your brainiac math whiz-type has a fantasy of being THAT guy. When you say these phrases, it’s like you’ve crawled right into his sexual imagination.

Here are a few phrases you can say to him that can give him that feeling of sex-god rock star he craves.

 

You feel so incredible.

Or you can fill in the blank with any kind of adjective there: amazing, big, good, fantastic, hard, huge, awesome. Add in the f-word for a more explicit effect if you feel comfortable with that. You get the idea. When you are having intercourse, telling him just how great he feels to you is the ultimate compliment. This validates his prowess and physicality in real-time. And you’ll learn in my program Language of Desire just how much importance most guys place on their penis.

 

Don’t stop!

It could be any command really: harder, right there, give it to me. Again, feel free to add in curse words and explicit language. Giving him a command during sex to keep doing exactly what he’s doing to you is confident and hot. It’s hot because it shows him just how much you are enjoying it. Men say the number one thing they love during sex is an enthusiastic partner!

 

I can’t get enough of you OR I’m so turned on by you.

This phrase speaks to his ability to arouse you. That he turns you into a sex-hungry vixen who wants his body all the time. Is that an exaggeration? Sure. But think about how often we unwittingly turn our partners away because we are tired, or have a headache, or just aren’t in the mood. This doesn’t mean you have to be ready to go at it 24/7. However, when you feed his ego that he has the ability to drive you wild with desire you make him feel amazing, especially when you say this phrase outside of the bedroom. The idea that his woman is distracted in the middle of the day by sexy thoughts of him? Rawr.

 

If you want over 200+ ideas, phrases, and text messages to drive your man wild with desire for you, make sure to check out my new program, Language of Desire (click here for the video version with sound and click here for the article version without sound – Please be aware that these are NOT safe for work!) I give you step by step instructions and tons of exact words to use to get exactly what you both want in and out of the bedroom.

Here’s to building intimacy and making it hot!

Felicity

The Language of Desire