Is Your Voice Sexy? Tips to Make It Irresistible

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What do you people hear when you speak? You hear yourself all the time, but do you really know what you sound like to others?


It’s sure that you’ve heard people speak and been turned off by their voices … too whiny, too soft so you can’t hear a thing, too bubbly. But most of the time, if you like the person, the voice isn’t that much of a problem.


When it comes to sex and romance, though … if you want to attract someone of the opposite sex, it’s important that you cultivate a sexy voice. This really matters to men.


And let’s just say it right here, a sexy voice doesn’t come naturally to everyone.


So if you’re looking for a way to improve the sexiness and attractiveness of your voice (and you can literally make it irresistible to men), then read on. The info’s all here.


Common Types of Voices


If you think you should improve your voice (and especially if you want to make it sexier), your voice will likely fall into one of the following categories. You’ll need to work on these forms of voices to make them both stronger and more becoming, and you’ll find the tips for that below.


  1. The Nasal Voice – Think Fran Drescher. This voice resonates from the nose instead of from the diaphragm or even the chest or mouth. In this way, the voice can sound piercing and annoying.


  1. The Soft-Like-a-Mouse Voice –You might notice that individuals with this type of voice don’t annunciate, and they only open their mouths a bit when they speak. Additionally, these individuals don’t appear mature because they sound very young.


  1. The Mouth Voice – This one’s just plain hard to hear. The mouth does not produce enough sound for a voice, and it certainly doesn’t have enough air to support a lot of talking, so you end up sounding very quiet and meek.


  1. The Deep Masculine Voice – This voice has potential, but it’s often very manly in that it’s sort of matter-of-fact and not at all melodic. If you’re trying to sound feminine and sexy, you’ll want to change that.


  1. The Croaky Voice – This voice is sometimes natural and other times the result of smoking. It’s gravely and rough, but despite that, you can use this huskiness to sound sexy and enchanting.


Essential Tips for Making Your Voice More Sexy


  • Speak from your diaphragm.


At first, if you are a mouth or chest speaker, speaking from your diaphragm will feel bizarre. It will feel like you’re trying to speak like a man. But speaking from your diaphragm is actually essential for getting a more attractive voice because it adds warm overtones to your speech and gives you a much sexier appeal.


  • Try using your “hum”.


To add even more warm overtones to your voice and to sound even sexier, try humming for about 3 seconds. Feel the hum vibrate your nose, then slip seamlessly into your speech. Speak from the place where you felt the hum. This will make your voice louder as well if you tend to speak quietly like a mouse.


  • Mix a whisper in with your speech.


It’s important to have a strong voice with lots of overtones, but when you’re in the bedroom, you don’t want to sound like you’re giving a speech. In this way, try speaking directly into his ear and mixing your normal (slightly softer) voice with some whispers. For example, start each word with your normal voice and end each word with a whisper.


  • Smile with your eyes while you speak.


Of course, you need to look the part, so when you’re speaking sexily to him, smile with your eyes. This means you let your eyes do what they would do normally when your mouth is smiling but you don’t actually show the smile on your mouth.


  • Make sure the words you say are conveying the sexiest possible message.


Speaking sexy is not just about how you say things but what you say. Yep, we mean dirty talk. It’s not too difficult of an art to learn if you know what you’re doing, but if you, like many women, feel that you need a bit of work in this area, just try … The Language of Desire.


The Language of Desire has taught hundreds of women the fine art of dirty talk. For example, learn the “Verbal Viagra Method” to (literally) get a rise of your sweetie.


Of course, that’s not all this important program offers.

You will also learn techniques to help make sex never be boring, how to upgrade your relationship status, and how to tap into his brain chemistry to unlock the secrets of what he’s thinking.


In the end, just remember that there are tons of things you could work on to become sexier and more attractive … but in a scientific survey conducted in 2006, it was actually found that opposed to having an attractive face … having a sexy voice was more attractive to both women and men. So get to work ladies! Trust us, he’ll notice and it will be worth it.

10 Things Every Guy Wants to Hear in Bed

10 Things Every Guy Wants to Hear in Bed

(How to Keep Him Sexually Obsessed With You)

By: Faye Roberts


10 things every guy wants to hear in bed

Let’s get one thing straight:


Guys love being in bed with you … period.


This is a widely understood fact among men. But sigh … women continue to worry and fret over the pooch in their tummy, the shape of their nipples and that mole on their back.


Just cool it darlings: He’s really happy to be there.


Ok, now that we’ve got that set, we can talk about making his (and your) experience even better.


Yep, dirty talk.


But not just any dirty talk. You want to know the things he dreams about you saying when you’re not there. The things that will drive him wild and keep him fantasizing about you when you’re not there.


The things that will make him sexually obsessed with you for days, weeks, months to come …


For some women, dirty talk is a breeze. Others of us need a little nudge in the right direction!


So here we go:

The Top 10 Things All Men Would Die to Hear in Bed


  1. “You’re sooo big”


Bingo. Guys like compliments, it’s true. And this is just about the best one they can get when you’re rollin’ around with each other. Be enthusiastic about it, and make sure to use your hands (or otherwise) to show him just how impressed you are. Trust us, he’ll go crazy for you.


  1. “Shall we change positions?”


This one’s great because it lets him know you’re into being creative, and you’re excited about sex! (Some women aren’t as many men will sadly tell you.) It’s also good for when you’re just not digging the current position.


One note: Make sure to say it in your sexiest voice, maybe even whisper it in his ear. Otherwise it might come across that you don’t like the current position (and even if that’s true, it can be a buzz kill if you know what we mean).


  1. “I want ______ so bad.”


This is a primal statement that can work for a number of positions and moves. When you put “so bad” on the end of any phrase, it just makes it that much more exciting for both him and you. The urgency in the utterance tells him you need him, and that alone may push him over the edge!


  1. His name


Saying his name in the midst of a passionate romp helps him know that it’s him and only him that’s making you feel this way. You’re not with just any guy—you’re with him and you know it. Don’t belabor this, but sprinkle it in amongst some of your dirty talk to make your session in the sheets more passionate and personal.


  1. Exactly, particularly … whatever it is you want from him


Men want to please. When they know they’re making you feel good, it turns them on even more. So it makes sense that they’ll most definitely be into whatever it is that gets you off. Tell him, and not only will he go wild … he’ll do it!


  1. “Your ____ is/are so sexy…”


Another good compliment line here, but you can use it for anything: muscles, arms, chest, back, stomach …


Now one point here: Be specific. Don’t just throw these lines out like you’re reading a script. Really think about what it is that truly turns you on—even if it’s something a little different, like his hands, legs, chest hair or voice. Chances are he’ll be very interested in hearing about it …


  1. “I love when you tell me what you like …”


This can be a helpful phrase for when you feel a guy might be clamming up a bit. After all, sex can be stressful on men, especially if it’s one of the first times you two are in bed together.


When you tell him that you love to hear what he likes and wants in bed, it might help him open up and get a little more chatty. It lets him know you’re interested … very interested … to know how to please him.


  1. “Right there.”


Use this when he really is doing a great job at … whatever it is. This encourages him to keep doing it! And it will probably arouse him to no end. Again, he loves making you feel good.


  1. “Do whatever you want.”


Get ready for this one … he may take you up on it right away. Of course, remember to use this with a guy who will take things only as far as you want to go. In other words, you probably won’t want to try this line with someone the first time you’re having sex.


  1. Moans and “oh!’s”


Finally, do not underestimate the power of a good moan or sigh or … “oohhaahhh!” They want to know you’re into it! Little sounds and “oohs” and “aahs” tell them they’re doing a good job, and this makes them feel awesome. Hey, those little noises can also help get you in the mood too!


Interested in more?

Click HERE for an entire arsenal of key phrases to use in every situation you can think of with a man. You’ll also learn about the science of how men react to certain things women say so you can understand the way that these phrases actually work.
To find out more and to read the guide, go here!


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Mistakes That Partners Make When Trying To Dirty Talk

5 Mistakes That Partners Make When Trying To Dirty Talk

from Michael Webb’s “Dirty Talk Secrets”

Okay, so you’ve agreed to give talking dirty to your partner a go. You may be a little nervous but you love them so much and only want to make them happy.

Like you, many people have the potential to fall into the trap of these 5 mistakes. Avoid these mistakes at all costs to save yourself the embarrassment of a dirty talk attempt gone horribly wrong…





Mistake 1: Emulating the Dirty Talk in Porn Films

A good deal of women are turned off by porn, so try not to emulate what you’ve seen during some of those movies. Lots of them have cheesy lines and actors that aren’t up for academy awards for a very good reason.