How Do I Know If He Is Really In Love With Me?

9 Ways He’s Trying to Tell You that He’s in Love with You

By Rick Wallace

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A common question asked by women all around the world is: How do I know if he is really in love with me?

The truth is that men are not that hard to figure out. They are designed to express their state of mind and emotional state through their actions. They are not always the best at verbal expression, and many times they are judged a little too harshly for this.

The best way to evaluate and assess if your man really and truly loves you is to observe his actions and behavior.

Following are nine signs that are indicative of authentic love. When you experience this behavior in your relationship, you have found someone worth building with and fighting for.


  1. He Respects You


This is extremely important, and as a woman you may be able to understand this from a superficial perspective; however, it is much deeper and more powerful than it seems when you initially read it.

You see, men value respect above all else, including love. While conducting research for her book, Shaunti Feldhahn, the author of “Inner Lives of Men,” posed a question to male participants of her study: “If you had to choose, would you rather feel alone an unloved in the world, or would you rather feel inadequate and disrespected by everyone?” A whopping 74 percent said that they would rather feel alone and unloved than be disrespected. So, a man who respects you is honoring you in the greatest manner possible from his perspective.  


  1. His Actions Match His Words


This speaks to his intentions and his character. A man who does what he says is a man who can be trusted, and it lets you know that if he is saying it and doing it, then he actually means it.  


  1. He Takes Interest in Your Life


Love has a way of draining selfish inclinations for the soul of a person. It has the capacity to drive a person to be concerned about more than their self-interests. When a man takes an interest in you, it is a reflection of concern in knowing and understanding what makes you happy.


  1. He is There for You


Having someone there when you need them is an essential element in a relationship. It provides the security and confidence that is vital to creating stability that provides peace-of-mind, even when peace may be elusive.  


  1. He Fully Involves You in His Life


Men are not generally inclusive, so when they completely involve you in their lives, the motive is relevant. Men who compartmentalize their relationship with you, have not completely opened their heart to, but when a man invites you into his life completely, he is saying, through his actions, that you belong there.  


  1. You Don’t Have To Chase Him


Never chase a man. First of all, it is not appealing to him. Secondly, when you have his heart, you will not have to chase him. He will naturally make himself available to you. Men have the ability to be emotionally detached, until they actually reach the point of love, and then there will be no mistake that they want to be with you.  


  1. He Consistently Speaks of Your Future Together


A man who speaks consistently of your relationship in the future tense, or he often mentions future plans that include you, has allowed you into his heart, and he loves you. This means he sees you as more than a present fling or event. He sees you as a significant part of his future.  


  1. He Compromises


Compromise is another component of a relationship that is expressive of a heart that is no longer selfish. When he is willing to compromise, he is saying that you matter enough to him to inspire him to be willing to give up something in order to ensure to happiness.  


  1. He Values Your Opinion


That point at which a man gives significant gravity to your opinion is the moment that he begins to trust you, and he considers you. It means that he is not functioning within the vacuum of narcissism, and he believes you have his best interest at heart. Additionally, he also feels that what you think matters.


A man’s actions will always be the greatest indicator of whether he actually loves you or not. This actually makes him very easy to read. Start reading your man’s actions immediately!


If you have ever looked at a man you were dating or were even married to – a man you’ve given your heart to 100% – and found yourself anxiously, desperately wondering . .

“Does he really love me?”


If you have (and I know you have), you need to watch the special video my friend and colleague put together for you that teaches you 7 Simple Questions to reveal if a man REALLY loves you right now before it’s too late.

How To Know If A Man Really Loves You

How To Know If A Man Really Loves You

Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want, it doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all their being. ~ Gabriel Garcia Marquez

Love.  Is there a more basic yet complex emotion in the lives of human beings? It can change our very existence, make our lives worth living, send us into the depths of sorrow, and everything in between. Perhaps it is so complex because love means different things to different people, which can leave us perplexed as to whether the feelings of the people we love are mutual. Or maybe, we just don’t have the tools to understand how others love us.

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So, how do you know if your man really loves you?

Sometimes it’s hard to tell, especially if you don’t know what signs to look for. His behavior may be confusing to you but bear in mind that he may also be confused about his emotions, or he may know exactly how he feels but his feelings may not be coming through clearly to you if you and your partner show love a little (or a lot) differently.   He also just may not feel the same way you do.  But how can you really know?

Yesterday, I was watching a fantastic video presentation by Michael Fiore (renowned relationship expert) on this very subject with a ton of great, useful information, and couldn’t wait to share it with you as well. I was impressed by the utter volume of amazing information in the video and in his program. He touches on many questions he’s been asked by women and provides the answers based on a survey he did of 50,000 men asking them what they really want in a woman, and so much more. Questions like:

Why does he look at other women?
Why do men lie?
Is he cheating on me?
Why doesn’t he open up to me?
Why does he get so quiet?

And, of course, the question that he says is by far the most asked by women: Does he really love me?

He also talks about how to empower yourself in your relationships by addressing topics such as:

The fundamental mistake women make which makes it impossible to ever have a truly happy relationship with a man. (Hint: One of the reasons is because far too many women choose men who don’t deserve them)

How to have a relationship where you feel truly loved and adored the way you’re supposed to with a man who really gets you, loves you, keeps you safe, and celebrates you.

How to tell the difference between a man who just wants a warm body beside him as opposed to a man who is truly in love with you.

What toxic thing you’re doing that is killing his feelings for you.

How love means something different for men and women.

Michael also goes through a 7 question quiz in the video that will help you tell how he really feels. Questions include:

Does he make you a priority?
Does he care about your pleasure in bed?
Does he respect and encourage you in life?

I’ll stop writing about the video and program here or else this post is going to get extremely long (so much to say!), so I’ll just leave it to Michael to enlighten everyone with his wisdom.

Watch Michael’s video by clicking here or on the image below.

Michael Fiore

Please be aware that Michael has built an entire program around his findings which he’ll tell you about in the presentation as well but you do not by any means have to buy it. I hope you simply enjoy the video on its own and if you feel that you could benefit from his program, please do sign up. I have both spoken to Michael and looked through his program personally, and can say with all certainty that I think it’s FANTASTIC and empowering.

Please do enjoy and I hope the video provides you with tools that you can take away with you to use to make your relationships so much better! ~ Gia