3 Tips for Finding Your Soul Mate After 40

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All in all, dating is something that can be so exciting and fun!

 

And it can be the bane of your existence.

 

It’s both, that’s it.

 

In your 20s, it’s mostly a game. You’re relaxed, not worried about finding The One so soon. “You have plenty of time to find your soul mate!” Plus, you have So. Many. Options.

 

In your 30s, things get a little more serious for many people. Maybe you decide to start online dating because you’re “really serious about settling down” or you do get into a long term relationship or two.

 

In your 40s, let’s be frank: Dating to find your soul mate can definitely be more of a challenge. It’s a time when many people have settled into who they are, and the dating pool is just smaller. This presents a few upsets for 40-something-daters, but finding love in this decade also comes with its advantages.

 

Namely, you know who you are AND you know what you’re looking for. These are two extremely important pieces of knowledge that 20 and 30-somethings definitively lack.

 

With that being said, getting out there and being active about looking for love can be somewhat of an art form. So we’re offering a few tips and tricks that any 40-something can use to make sure they find their true soul mate in good time.

 

#1 See This Journey to a Soul Mate as an Adventure.

 

In other words: Go out into the world every day. Be positive. Don’t be timid or scared or afraid to try new things. Take risks. Don’t turn back when things get hard. Be patient. Have fun.

 

Because it is a pretty epic journey. So why not be excited about it and make it adventure? You’re heading into the unknown, quite literally. That’s okay, though. When it comes to “adventures,” this one’s pretty safe, and fortunately, it can also be thrilling.

 

Just don’t give up when you go through a rough patch. And know that there will be rough patches.

 

To combat that … have a sense of humor.

 

You’re going to kiss some frogs along the way. You’re going to have awful dates, and you’re going to mess up stuff. It’s all part of the game. Be enthusiastic and passionate, but don’t take anything too seriously. When you finally take the pressure off yourself and just have fun …that’s when you bump into Mr. or Ms. Right when you least expect it.

 

#2 Write Down Who You Want … and Become That Person.

 

Many men and women in their 40s are looking for someone successful, responsible, kind, loving, fun, attractive and ready to commit. Seriously, you wouldn’t say “no” to any of those traits, right? They’re all good ones.

 

With that being said, they might put themselves out there with no regard for these basic traits. Let’s take “fun” and “kind,” for example.

 

Let’s say you want someone fun and kind, but you are shy.

 

That’s fine. But keep in mind that no one is going to know that you’re fun and kind if you don’t talk or make eye contact because of your shyness.

 

You’ve got to personify who you would want to date.

 

But you might say: “When they get to know me, they’ll see that I’m fun and kind!”

 

Well … that’s not how it works, and we’re sure you know that. Don’t assume potential dates are psychic. You’ve got limited time to show off.

 

Take attractiveness as another example. You might think before a date or event: “Screw that, I’m not getting all dolled up! Take me as I am!”

 

But don’t you want to date someone who is attractive?

 

Listen, you don’t have to have washboard abs and long flowing blonde locks. Just take care of yourself. Become a person you would want to date. (Yes, of the opposite sex. You get it.)

 

Try it. It works.

 

#3 Lacking Confidence? Go to the Professionals.

 

Have you ever wished you were someone else when it came to trying to attract a mate? Do you always end up being “the friend”? Are you confused about what the opposite sex is actually looking for in your sex?

 

These issues really come down to confidence.

 

Confidence is absolutely necessary when it comes to finding love in your 40s. You need it in order to hold yourself properly, show your true intentions (that you’re looking for a mate, not just casual sex or a friendship), and seduce the object of your attention with authentic conversation, an empowering attitude and an attractive presence.

 

But just trying to be more confident won’t cut it. In order to attract your mate, you must learn the Art of Seduction from a professional, quality source. Women can learn this with The Ultimate Attraction Transformation.

 

The Ultimate Attraction Transformation is a comprehensive course on understanding and attracting your ideal mate. It’s worked for thousands of women already, and you could be next on the list. The program starts you from the beginning no matter where you are in your journey toward love.

 

So. Do you already have your eye on someone? Are you right now in danger of the person you know is your soul mate slipping away? Or are you completely brand new to the dating-in-your-40s-game? This is the program you need.

 

Remember: Your soul mate is out there. That’s a sure thing. You just have to go and find them! With these tools and resources, you’ll be armed with the best possible tools to do so. Good luck on your road to a life a love!

 

Do THIS And He Will Say You Are His Soul Mate

Do THIS And He Will Say You Are His Soul Mate

by Nick Bastion

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My name is Nick Bastion and I want to talk about the #1 factor that determines whether your relationship is effortless, easy and filled with love… or if it feels like every step is a struggle…

And it feels like your man is emotionally withdrawing.

Or you’re chasing his love.

Or you’re walking on egg shells, just waiting for things to fall apart.

 

Here’s the key question: does he see you as “the one?”

 

Now, don’t get me wrong, he might find you attractive, enjoy spending time with you and say loving things. He might even talk about the future.

The thing is, despite all these things, unless he sees you as “the one,” your relationship is headed for heartbreak. It’ll always feel like you’re desperately chasing his love but never actually have his heart.

If you’ve ever seen relationships where a woman literally does nothing yet her man is bending over backwards to please her, proposes to her and does everything in his power to prove how deeply and completely he loves her… then, you know what it looks like when a man sees a woman as “the one.”

The problem is, no one has ever found a way to predictably make a man see you as “the one” until now…

The truth is… it’s actually shockingly simple to make your man see you as “the one,” by never judging him and instead letting him have the freedom to be himself.

The thing is, even though it’s simple, you can only make him see you as “the one” when you know how to flip his “soul mate switch.” There are 3 key parts of flipping his “soul mate switch,” which I will reveal in just a moment.

The best part is once a man sees you as “the one,” literally no other woman will ever compare.

If you don’t know this, you will forever be dealing with a life of men who lead you on only to abandon you when you think a real future is on the horizon.

Avoid this loveless fate by doing this:

 

Key 1) Listen to him (really listen)

What this means is when he talks to you, actually listen to the words he is saying. Don’t think about what you want him to say or what you hope he says. Instead, abandon all your thoughts and expectations. Simply listen.

Let him reveal his true thoughts and feelings to you without judging. If you don’t judge, he will feel encouraged to keep talking to you. Men are lonely and desperately want to spill their hearts out to a woman who is truly willing to just listen to him talk.

This makes him feel accepted and understood because he feels like he can talk to you. When he feels like he can talk to you, he will feel an intense connection with you. When he feels an intense connection with you, it makes him feel an overwhelming feeling that you are his soul mate.

 

Key 2) Do not focus on negativity

Bring positive feelings into your interactions with him. Focus on spending good, quality time together. Men are attracted to happy women. It’s biologically programmed into men to love a woman who can smile. It’s shockingly simple, right?

You would be shocked if you knew how different a man views a woman who is scowling with her arms crossed versus one who is genuinely smiling and enjoying her life. Seriously. I know this sounds easy and simple, but it’s so effective it’ll shock you.

So if you go about your life in a way that’s fun, positive and happy… you will make him love being around you.

If you dwell on any kind of negativity, it literally kills his attraction to you. This does not mean you have to fake being in a good mood. What it does mean is you need to internally accept that dwelling on bad, negative things will only create more negativity.

If you are upset because he didn’t call you back, don’t dwell. Don’t shame him, accuse him and blame him. Instead, focus on being happy when you are around him. Be in as good of a mood as you can be and he will want to be around you more and more.

Another benefit of not focusing on negativity is that he will feel like he can talk to you about anything without you having a bad reaction.

 

Key 3) Do not try to “CONVINCE” him

What this means is to simply not try to force it to happen. Do not try to do certain things and say certain things to convince him that you and him are meant to be.

When you try to convince him, it makes you have an agenda. If you have an agenda or a certain outcome you need to happen with him, it automatically puts you in a frame of mind where you are likely to judge.

This isn’t something you are doing on purpose. It’s not your fault. It is simply a product of this flawed mindset (trying to convince him). Trying to convince him to do anything will sabotage your relationship and guarantee he does not do it.

This also connects to the second key. When you do not focus on negativity and instead enjoy the quality of your interaction with him, this makes him feel good around you.

 

Ready to take the next step? And Have Him See You As His Soul Mate?

If you’ve ever seen relationships where a woman literally does nothing yet her man is bending over backwards to please her, proposes to her and does everything in his power to prove how deeply and completely he loves her… then, you know what it looks like when a man sees a woman as “the one.”

The problem is, no one has ever found a way to predictably make a man see you as “the one” until now…

The truth is… it’s actually shockingly simple to make your man see you as “the one,” which you’ll see in this short video.

= > CLICK HERE FOR VIDEO

The thing is, even though it’s simple, you can only make him see you as “the one” when you know how to flip his “soul mate switch.”

The best part is once a man sees you as “the one,” literally no other woman will ever compare.

This “soul mate switch” is something that 99% of women have no idea how to flip.

You can become part of the lucky 1% of women who have everlasting love with a man who sees them as “the one.”

See it here: = > SOUL MATE SWITCH

 
Now, I have to warn you… once you flip his “soul mate switch,” he will be like a lost puppy in a world where living without you is terrifying. So don’t just go around using this on any man if you aren’t serious about commitment with him.

This works on even the most cold, distant and emotionally withdrawn commitment phobic man. He will think about you before he falls asleep at night.

So go on. Free yourself from a life of constant worrying, confusion and fear that things are on the verge of falling apart.

This video talks about how to flip his soul mate switch predictably every time, so he sees you as the one and showers you with so much affection it’ll send warm tingly butterflies through your body.

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You owe it to yourself to have the man you want look at you as his soul mate forever. You will look back on this moment with tears of joy in your eyes.