3 Tips for Finding Your Soul Mate After 40

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All in all, dating is something that can be so exciting and fun!

 

And it can be the bane of your existence.

 

It’s both, that’s it.

 

In your 20s, it’s mostly a game. You’re relaxed, not worried about finding The One so soon. “You have plenty of time to find your soul mate!” Plus, you have So. Many. Options.

 

In your 30s, things get a little more serious for many people. Maybe you decide to start online dating because you’re “really serious about settling down” or you do get into a long term relationship or two.

 

In your 40s, let’s be frank: Dating to find your soul mate can definitely be more of a challenge. It’s a time when many people have settled into who they are, and the dating pool is just smaller. This presents a few upsets for 40-something-daters, but finding love in this decade also comes with its advantages.

 

Namely, you know who you are AND you know what you’re looking for. These are two extremely important pieces of knowledge that 20 and 30-somethings definitively lack.

 

With that being said, getting out there and being active about looking for love can be somewhat of an art form. So we’re offering a few tips and tricks that any 40-something can use to make sure they find their true soul mate in good time.

 

#1 See This Journey to a Soul Mate as an Adventure.

 

In other words: Go out into the world every day. Be positive. Don’t be timid or scared or afraid to try new things. Take risks. Don’t turn back when things get hard. Be patient. Have fun.

 

Because it is a pretty epic journey. So why not be excited about it and make it adventure? You’re heading into the unknown, quite literally. That’s okay, though. When it comes to “adventures,” this one’s pretty safe, and fortunately, it can also be thrilling.

 

Just don’t give up when you go through a rough patch. And know that there will be rough patches.

 

To combat that … have a sense of humor.

 

You’re going to kiss some frogs along the way. You’re going to have awful dates, and you’re going to mess up stuff. It’s all part of the game. Be enthusiastic and passionate, but don’t take anything too seriously. When you finally take the pressure off yourself and just have fun …that’s when you bump into Mr. or Ms. Right when you least expect it.

 

#2 Write Down Who You Want … and Become That Person.

 

Many men and women in their 40s are looking for someone successful, responsible, kind, loving, fun, attractive and ready to commit. Seriously, you wouldn’t say “no” to any of those traits, right? They’re all good ones.

 

With that being said, they might put themselves out there with no regard for these basic traits. Let’s take “fun” and “kind,” for example.

 

Let’s say you want someone fun and kind, but you are shy.

 

That’s fine. But keep in mind that no one is going to know that you’re fun and kind if you don’t talk or make eye contact because of your shyness.

 

You’ve got to personify who you would want to date.

 

But you might say: “When they get to know me, they’ll see that I’m fun and kind!”

 

Well … that’s not how it works, and we’re sure you know that. Don’t assume potential dates are psychic. You’ve got limited time to show off.

 

Take attractiveness as another example. You might think before a date or event: “Screw that, I’m not getting all dolled up! Take me as I am!”

 

But don’t you want to date someone who is attractive?

 

Listen, you don’t have to have washboard abs and long flowing blonde locks. Just take care of yourself. Become a person you would want to date. (Yes, of the opposite sex. You get it.)

 

Try it. It works.

 

#3 Lacking Confidence? Go to the Professionals.

 

Have you ever wished you were someone else when it came to trying to attract a mate? Do you always end up being “the friend”? Are you confused about what the opposite sex is actually looking for in your sex?

 

These issues really come down to confidence.

 

Confidence is absolutely necessary when it comes to finding love in your 40s. You need it in order to hold yourself properly, show your true intentions (that you’re looking for a mate, not just casual sex or a friendship), and seduce the object of your attention with authentic conversation, an empowering attitude and an attractive presence.

 

But just trying to be more confident won’t cut it. In order to attract your mate, you must learn the Art of Seduction from a professional, quality source. Women can learn this with The Ultimate Attraction Transformation.

 

The Ultimate Attraction Transformation is a comprehensive course on understanding and attracting your ideal mate. It’s worked for thousands of women already, and you could be next on the list. The program starts you from the beginning no matter where you are in your journey toward love.

 

So. Do you already have your eye on someone? Are you right now in danger of the person you know is your soul mate slipping away? Or are you completely brand new to the dating-in-your-40s-game? This is the program you need.

 

Remember: Your soul mate is out there. That’s a sure thing. You just have to go and find them! With these tools and resources, you’ll be armed with the best possible tools to do so. Good luck on your road to a life a love!

 

Top 8 Things Quality Men Are Looking For In Their ‘Soul Mate’

Top 8 Things Quality Men Are Looking For

In Their ‘Soul Mate’

by Adam Gilad

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Confused about what men are looking for in their ‘soul mate’. In women in general?

 

Not surprising!

 

I get that it can seem like men want everything – or that different men want enough different things that it FEELS like men want everything.

 

But I’ve got good news for you.

 

There’s no woman who truly ‘has it all’ – and you don’t have to figure out how to be everything he wants to become his soul mate.

 

There’s a much easier way – but more on that later.

 

The truth is – if you want to find the man of your dreams, you have to know what kind of man you’re looking for first. What qualities make him unique. What qualities you’re looking to have in your life and by your side forever.

 

And that’s what real men are doing too. They’re figuring out what qualities they want in a woman – qualities that will support them through good times and bad and make a true and lasting difference in their lives.

 

So now the question becomes: What qualities are the “quality” men looking for?

 

That’s a MUCH simpler question. Don’t you agree?

 

Here’s a list of the top 10 qualities that men are looking for in a woman they want to be with forever…

 

Supportive

Men are looking to be supported by the women by their sides, just the same as women want their partners to be supportive of them.  It might sound old fashioned, but it’s still a strong idea that’s VERY relevant in this day and age.

Men want women who support their dreams. Who support their choices. Who support their work, and their passions, and goals. Men want women who care, who are in their corner all the way, and who want to help improve their lives together.

 

Trustworty

Men are looking for a woman they can trust. This is something that goes both ways, and is just as important to both parties.

He needs to know that you’ll follow through on your promises, that you won’t break your word. There are too many flaky people out there today – and a man looking for a life partner doesn’t want any part of them. A true soul mate knows how valuable real trust is.

 

Compatibility Between the Sheets

Every man wants a woman who he’s sexually compatible with. A woman who can surprise him in the bedroom, can sometimes take the lead in the bedroom, and most importantly – makes him feel like a man.

Successful men are most often turned off by women who carry sexual shame – and when it comes to sex, men are looking for women who are generous and up for trying new things – as long as they’re not totally offensive or dangerous.

 

Playfulness

Who doesn’t want to laugh and have fun with their mate?

Men are looking for women who can be playful with them. Without playfulness, neither men nor women can relax and loosen up – which is hard to come by out in public or at work. When a man is with a woman who can delight him with her silliness or spontaneity, that’s a woman he wants to keep.

 

Ability to Forgive

Men are looking for a woman who can forgive… because a man knows that he’s GOING to mess up – and he wants to be forgiven.

Any long-term relationship needs the ability of both partners to forgive and understand each other, even when they mess up. Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect – so a relationship that doesn’t include forgiveness can never last.

Note that this doesn’t mean that you should forgive the unforgivable.  If your partner hurts or harms you or your relationship in a way that you feel is a deal breaker, it is time to walk away.

 

Having Self-Confidence

Confidence is sexy and attractive to both genders.  Men desire confident women. Innumerable relationships have been destroyed because of self-doubt, insecurity, and lack of confidence.

When a woman shows a man that she has no confidence in herself – what she’s really telling him is that she’s not going to carry herself in this world – and that he’s going to have to carry her.

And that’s the last thing men want. Men feel burdened by expectations all around them in the world – and they’re NOT looking to add another burden to their lives at home. If he sees you as a woman who can carry him sometimes – just like he carries you sometimes – he will see you as his soul mate.

 

Intelligence is Sexy

Men are attracted to women of intelligence. After all – if you’re going to spend every day together for the rest of your lives, you’d better be able to talk to each other!

Men truly value women who can help them navigate through life together and make the right decisions in difficult spots. No longer are men looking for women who pretend to be incompetent so that he can “save” them… men are looking for a woman who can hold her own and help brighten each other’s lives for years to come.

 

Capacity to Love Deeply

At the end of the day, men are really looking for women who can love deeply, wholly, and truly, with their entire hearts.  For a woman who can give him affection and support when he’s feeling down, who can go out of her way to brighten his day and make him smile, who can go the extra mile to make him feel loved.

When a man finds a woman like that, he will be inspired to do all that and more to see her smile – and to give her love.

Those are the 8 biggest qualities that men are looking for in the women they love. Chances are, a man is going to want to see at least 5 or 6 of those qualities in his soul mate.

But even if you know exactly what qualities he’s looking for – if you don’t have all of them, you’re not going to be able to cultivate them in yourself overnight.

 

That’s why I think you’d be interested in something I recently discovered. Have you ever heard of “Love Words?”

 

Well, there are very specific secret words that ignite a whirlwind of mind, body, and soul consuming love deep inside any man.

 

What are they? Find out by clicking right here: Love Words

 

The unusual thing is, these are the SPECIFIC words every man needs to hear from you.

 

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