10 Non-Sexual Things You Do That Drive Him Wild

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Most women are under the impression that when they are sexy or attractive to a man, it’s when they’re doing something sexual … maybe even overtly sexual.


In that way, if a woman wants to appear sexy to a man, she might do something like this:


  • Wear a push-up bra with a very low cut blouse
  • Wear a very short skirt
  • Speak in a sexy voice
  • Make sexual innuendos in conversation
  • Give a flirtatious smile or wink


Ok. Not bad.


But if you’re really interested in turning a guy on, you may try something a little more subtle. Even though you might not know it, there’s plenty you can do to get a man’s motor running—and not all of it is obviously sexual.


Lucky for us, some men have spilled the beans about little things women do that really turn them on.


If You’ve Done These Things in Front of a Man You’ve Probably Been Driving Him Wild

By: Faye Roberts


  1. Taking your hair down from a pony tail or bun.


Who knows why, but this drives men up the wall. They say it’s something about you reaching up and sort of casually changing your appearance all in one motion.


(By the way, putting up your hair seems to create the same sexy vibes for men. And bonus if you twist it up with a pencil … Hello, sexy librarian!).


  1. Yoga pants.


Men love our current era of yoga pant obsession, and why wouldn’t they!? These pants are snug and huggy in all the right places. Black seems to be the favorite among guys, especially if you’re looking to slim your hips.


Tip: Choose a thong or underwear with very thin edges to wear with your yogas. Panty lines kind of ruin your perfect curves.


  1. Putting on lotion.


You’re rubbing yourself. With lotion.


Anywhere, anytime is great. For example, if you’ve got your eyes on a guy at the office, keep a hand lotion in your purse and do a little moisturizing mid-meeting. He’ll notice.


Bonus: Choose a lotion with a luxurious, sexy smell (lots of men love vanilla).


  1. Reading books.


What’s not to love about a woman who reads? Especially if the guy’s a reader himself.


Choose a book that interests you, but if you’re looking to make an impression, don’t choose a cheap romance from the grocery store checkout line, and instead, pick up something with a little more weight.


  1. Making a quick and clever comment.


Contrary to some women’s beliefs, for long term relationship goals, guys don’t dig dummies or pushovers. Especially if he’s fairly witty and clever, he’ll be impressed if you can dish it back.


There’s no real way to work on this, but it might help to pretend like he’s your best friend or sibling when you’re talking. That way, you won’t filter your responses to sound “nicer” or “more pleasant.” Be real. Say what you mean and mean what you say. The wit will reveal itself.


  1. A random swear.


Guys love this. They think it’s cute.


And again, remember there’s no need to be a goody two-shoes. If you swear with your friends, swear around him.


One caveat: Peppering swears into every sentence may be a bit overboard. But it’s okay to throw one in during a conversation about something you’re feeling extra zealous about. This is hot to men.


  1. Glasses.


Glasses. Thick (librarian-esque) frames. Sexy, messy hair. Beware of man drool.


  1. Reaching for something up high.


This one is sort of weird, but it’s definitely a thing. Guys love when women reach for things, aka, when you stand on your tip toes.


They say it’s something about you stretching and elongating your body. It reminds them of you in a sexual setting, i.e. In bed. And bonus if you’ve got tight pants on.


So the next time you’re looking for something in the office closet that’s right across from his desk … why not check out the tippy top shelf while you’re at it.


  1. Being passionate about something he doesn’t know about.


If you read this and said to yourself, “Ugh, I don’t have any passions!” think again.


There’s always something you know tons about that he doesn’t know about. A “passion” doesn’t have to be oil painting or opera singing. Maybe for you, it’s history, movies, cooking, baking, writing, weaving, fishing, or a sport.


If you really can’t think of something, find something! It’s never the wrong time or too late to start a new hobby or get a new passion.


When you do find something, talk about it. Be into it. Your complete indulgence in something other than him is a huge turn on.


  1. Confidence.


Finally, confidence wins a guy over every time. And in fact, this one goes both ways. In other words, confidence in men probably wins you over too. Have you ever met a guy you liked who you would never be attracted to on a normal basis? He was probably super confident.


There’s just something about someone who can be kind and helpful and sweet but who gives zero f@#&$ about what anyone else thinks.


This could be you.


So flaunt yourself! Be bold and charming and sweet. And use these subtle tips above to drive him wild when you’re not even at first base with him yet! Just make sure to always hold your own as well. Be confident in you.


Believe us, he’ll notice.


3 Things You Can Say To Drive Your Man Wild

3 Naughty Phrases that Will Drive Your Man Wild

by Felicity Keith

3 things you can say to drive your man wild

Words that turn a man on trigger a specific response in him, both physically and emotionally. What matters to most guys is that his sexual prowess is validated. He wants to know that you love what he’s doing and that his masculinity is arousing you. There is an almost universal male archetype of the strong sex-god rock star who is able to magically seduce and satisfy women. Yes, even your brainiac math whiz-type has a fantasy of being THAT guy. When you say these phrases, it’s like you’ve crawled right into his sexual imagination.

Here are a few phrases you can say to him that can give him that feeling of sex-god rock star he craves.


You feel so incredible.

Or you can fill in the blank with any kind of adjective there: amazing, big, good, fantastic, hard, huge, awesome. Add in the f-word for a more explicit effect if you feel comfortable with that. You get the idea. When you are having intercourse, telling him just how great he feels to you is the ultimate compliment. This validates his prowess and physicality in real-time. And you’ll learn in my program Language of Desire just how much importance most guys place on their penis.


Don’t stop!

It could be any command really: harder, right there, give it to me. Again, feel free to add in curse words and explicit language. Giving him a command during sex to keep doing exactly what he’s doing to you is confident and hot. It’s hot because it shows him just how much you are enjoying it. Men say the number one thing they love during sex is an enthusiastic partner!


I can’t get enough of you OR I’m so turned on by you.

This phrase speaks to his ability to arouse you. That he turns you into a sex-hungry vixen who wants his body all the time. Is that an exaggeration? Sure. But think about how often we unwittingly turn our partners away because we are tired, or have a headache, or just aren’t in the mood. This doesn’t mean you have to be ready to go at it 24/7. However, when you feed his ego that he has the ability to drive you wild with desire you make him feel amazing, especially when you say this phrase outside of the bedroom. The idea that his woman is distracted in the middle of the day by sexy thoughts of him? Rawr.


If you want over 200+ ideas, phrases, and text messages to drive your man wild with desire for you, make sure to check out my new program, Language of Desire (click here for the video version with sound and click here for the article version without sound – Please be aware that these are NOT safe for work!) I give you step by step instructions and tons of exact words to use to get exactly what you both want in and out of the bedroom.

Here’s to building intimacy and making it hot!


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