The One Secret Text Message That He’s Dying to Hear

The Secret Text Message That He’s Dying to Hear

 

Do you want to learn the one secret text message that almost every man needs to hear? Once you send a text like this, don’t be surprised if he comes crawling back to you for more and more…

 

It’s something that a man desires more than anything else in the world and almost no women really know about it. Do you know what kind of text message it is?

 

I call it the “Respect” text message.

 

So, here’s the deal. The misconception is this: most women think that the only thing men want is sex. While this is true to a certain extent, that’s not exactly what he CRAVES in the long term. Sex is a transient experience…

 

But respect? It has the ability to last forever in a relationship or marriage.

 

So, before you text your man something… consider texting him something that shows you give him the kind of respect he deserves.

 

Here are a few examples…

 

You could say something like… “I appreciate how hard you work – you’re such a hard worker and I find that extremely sexy…”

Or you could text him something like, “I know I don’t say this enough to you, I appreciate how sexy you are… please don’t stop!”

 

These two examples sound pretty tame and innocuous to women, but in a man’s world, this is EXACTLY the type of thing he craves… more than anything else! And think to yourself – when was the last time you sent your man this kind of text message? I bet it’s been awhile… if at all!

 

Here are a few other text messages that you ABSOLUTELY must try with the man that you’re with (or trying to be with). I call this text the “Imagine Text”

 

You could try and say something like, “I always used to imagine what kind of ideal man I’d want to be with… and you have so many of those qualities!”

 

Or you could say something like…

 

“I’ve always fantasized about the type of man that I’d be with when I was a little girl… and definitely, you share a ton of the qualities I’ve thought about!”

 

If you send this to a man at the right time, don’t be surprised if he begins chasing after you harder than before. Don’t be shocked if he begins calling you, texting you, and wanting to be with you more and more.

 

Why?

 

Because you’ve given him something that the vast majority of women don’t give him. And it’s this respect dynamic that he’ll become psychologically addicted to you… and once he becomes addicted to you, you’ll be the only woman in the world that he becomes drawn to. This is how you fuel his desire to be committed and devoted to you like no other. Don’t believe me? Then you obviously haven’t tried sending a man these kinds of text messages.

 

At the end of the day, this idea that respect is the most important part of a relationship is absolutely one of the most crucial ideas in a relationship. Whether you’re in a marriage or you’ve just started dating, respecting your spouse is one of the keys to a longer lasting and happy relationship… and science has totally backed up that claim!

 

And the thing is… texting is one of the most powerful ways you can convey your man that you respect him. It’s simple, easy, and it barely takes any time to do. So, if you want to learn MORE ways you can make a man feel an undying love and devotion for you… then I encourage you to watch this free ‘how to’ guide on text messaging by my friend Amy North.

 

Click Here to Watch This Video

 

 

In it, you will learn the secret text message that makes a man feel a level of commitment to you like no other. Again, click here to watch this video – I promise that you won’t regret it!

 

In case you don’t know, Amy North is one of YouTube’s top relationship experts. Her channel has now over 400,000 subscribers and she releases some of the most ground-breaking relationship advice content on the internet.

 

And she’s been doing this for about 8 years… so she knows her stuff!

 

So do yourself a huge favor and watch that short video RIGHT NOW and really pump up your texting game. You and your man will be better off for it!

The #1 DIRTY SECRET That Men are Keeping from You

The #1 DIRTY SECRET That Men are Keeping from You

by Rick Wall

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There is no shortage of conversations in which women attempt to determine what it takes to win the heart of a man. There are numerous postulations that suggest that outer beauty is the key, and of course, there is the old adage: A way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.

 

While women, and experts alike, weigh in on the topic, it would do well to understand that dealing with men is much different than dealing with your girlfriend. Women are more complex and multilayered than men. At the end of the day, men are immensely simple, and easy to understand. There is one little dirty secret that men hide well, and that is the fact that more than anything, they want a woman who understands them — a woman that has the ability to communicate at the highest level with them.

 

At the core of what a man seeks from a woman is affirmation. A woman affirms her man in her speech, her response to his touch, and her ability to relate to who he is. In essence, in every form of communication, she is a constant reminder of who he is — one of the greatest sources of his confidence.

 

It is important to understand that communication is key here. While it is true that men are visual, far too much emphasis and gravity is placed on the visual components of a relationship. Yes, in the short-term, aesthetics have a place; however, aesthetics are not static, meaning that looks change with age.

 

This means that you cannot build a long-term relationship on something that is consistently changing. While your looks may capture his attention, it will be your ability to communicate with him in a manner that ensures him that you understand him, and that you will always have his back that will hold him.

 

According to relationship expert, Bree Maresca-Kramer, clear and open communication from a woman is immensely important to a man when he is determining the potential for a long-term relationship. As a general rule, men are not great communicators, especially when being compared to women. This means that a woman who is not concise and direct in her communication can confuse and frustrate her man to no end. Say what you mean and mean what you say, while leaving out all of the extras. Save the esoteric and convoluted conversation for the girls.

 

A man does not want to have to guess where he fits into the equation. He does not want to have to guess what it is that you expect from him. He wants a clear and concise message, and he will respond to that concise message promptly.

 

It is important to understand that a man’s need for direct communication is not indicative of any type of intellectual challenge, he is simply wired differently, so he responds to a certain type of communication.  This is vital because if direct communication from you is accompanied by a condescending tone, it will definitely not produce the results you are looking for. There is absolutely nothing a man hates more than being disrespected, and a condescending attitude will be perceived as disrespect.

 

Women are very intuitive — possessing an extraordinary sense of discernment. This is why women have no problem attempting to read situations and decipher codes; however, men don’t want to decipher anything. They want explicit details that are clear and concise. The extras are not necessary.

 

If a man loves you, he instinctively wants to make you happy, and when he fails in this category, it is not due to a lack of desire and effort, but most likely a failure in communication. When he knows specifically what is expected, he will deliver, or go to the end of the world in his attempts to do so.

 

Here’s what you can do to help facilitate the process:  To help him open up to you, so that he feels an overwhelming desire to be 100% open and honest with you, you need to communicate with him effectively.  Not just today, or for the next month, but ALWAYS.

 

Let me share with you the “magic words” that make it easy for you to get even the most “closed-off” guy to want to share his deepest desires, thoughts, and his life with you… You can get them by clicking HERE.

 

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