How To Seduce Him In Under 5 Minutes

How To Seduce Him In Under 5 Minutes

by Rick Wall


How To Seduce Him In Under 5 Minutes


Here’s something that really needs to be said and, in turn, understood.  What I too often see in the women I counsel is that far too much thought is put into ways that women can turn their men on with their appearance.  

What I always explain is that despite men being visual creatures, seduction is a mental process. You seduce your man by stimulating his mind.

What you should keep in mind when thinking about what will turn your partner on is that a convoluted or complex process will probably serve to lose his attention.

Keep it simple.

Seduction is all about brain activation. This is why a 5-minute seduction is so powerful…and very possible.

We’ve all seen it before – a man engages in conversation with a woman for a few minutes and sparks fly.  Their chemistry is utterly palpable.  And before you get a chance to blink, he is putty in her hands.  Not just for that night but for months or years to come.

That thing that we know as “romantic chemistry” is actually intense attraction which comes from just the right combination of words and phrases uttered into his ear, and then boom! You’ve mentally and sexually stimulated his mind.

Here’s how it works:


The Law of Attraction

Despite the fact that men do love a great feast for the eyes, the process of seduction is definitely a mental process.

This does not mean that you don’t use physical appeal in the process of seduction; however, the more you are able to stimulate the part of your partner’s brain that responds in a sexual manner to being attracted to you, the more the seductive process will work.

Remember, a man does not respond sexually to every woman he is attracted to, although many women think they do.  This is a fallacy that most women buy into.  But why do you think a typically “hot” woman can easily be passed over for an “average” looking woman?   Quite simply, the latter has the mental goods to stimulate a man.

The goal is to mentally stimulate the sexual triggers in his brain.  Charm him.  Build tension between the two of you.  Appeal to his imagination and you’ll have him crazy with desire in no time flat. 


The Forgotten Element of Attraction

When it comes to the law of attraction, there is one element that possibly transcends all others  — confidence.

This powerful element of attraction transcends gender. In fact, there is nothing sexier than a person that is in their element so deeply that their confidence is oozing through their pores.

The confidence may be expressed in a certain look, gesture or spoken phrase, but it doesn’t have to be overstated because your partner knows you, so they are able to read every statement you are making.
Remember, true sexual stimulation is mental, so although your man is visual, he will reach a higher level of stimulation when you are able to create the image he sees in his mind. Flirt with him in a subtle, yet convincingly suggestive way. Use ‘trigger words” that will set off his mental senses.


The Instantaneous Bang of Absolute Attraction

Every last one of us has either experienced or heard someone talk about “love” at first sight. What they are actually explaining is the phenomenon of instant attraction.

The awesome thing about this is that it is not limited to a one-time occurrence per couple. This feeling can be experienced incessantly in monogamous relationships by simply identifying the triggers.

The brain is actually pretty good at viewing a person and determining in seconds the level of interest that person will command from them. The 5-minute seduction is simply a quick pull of the trigger that your man responds to.

Give this a try…

Go into another room to initiate the mental game. While you are in the other room, send him a text that clarifies the image you are trying to create. You know what he likes, so this should be easy.

Then re-enter the room and walk by him, close enough to give the impression that you are about to make contact, but don’t. Right after you pass him, turn and give the command. I will leave it up to you what that command will be.
Now watch how he responds.  I’ll bet you will be pleased by the result.
Physicality has the tendency to become common; however, the variations that can be achieved in the process of mental stimulation never allow for adaptation, so they will set your man off each and every time you use them.

Learn how to titillate his mind, and I guarantee that there will be no region of mental ecstasy that you will not be able to take him to at will.

Ready to learn how to make his heart race and become a Seduction Superstar?  
Check out this guide chock full of Attraction Triggers now by clicking HERE.


6 Surprising Secret Phrases Men Desperately Crave (He’ll Thank You For This)

6 Surprising Secret Phrases Men Desperately Crave

(He’ll Thank You For This)


6 Surprising Secret Phrases Men Desperately Crave


Have you ever seen a woman who can make any guy go absolutely crazy for her, and do the dumbest and sometimes even the most embarrassing things to please her?

And at the same time have you ever seen a woman who does everything right, yet she is never able to get the love or attention she desperately desires from her man?

Most women don’t get this; in fact, most women dress sexy, cook great meals and try to logically convince a man to like them.

But that doesn’t work because they’re missing the most important element of the puzzle.

That element is “EMOTION”.

If you ever want a man to have deep intense feelings for you, then you need to become emotionally in-tune with him.

What do I mean when I say emotionally in-tune?

I basically mean that you have to connect with the emotional part of his mind rather than the logical part.

But how does one do that?

Here are 6 emotionally stimulating phrases that will absolutely blow his mind and steal his heart in just one conversation.   And yes, he’ll thank you for this…


1. “I’m proud of you.”

Whether he is an amazing dad, works hard at his job, or he’s just an all around amazing guy, tell him how proud he makes you. Men don’t always get the credit they deserve.  Did he get that promotion at work that he’s been working towards all year, or does he take care of his elderly parents without fail every day?  Tell him how awesome he is; make this weekend all about him and show him what a great job he is doing with a night out or a surprise favorite meal and dessert!

When you show him how proud of him you really are, it not only makes him feel supported, desirable, and secure, it also makes him feel that you “get” him.  This is paramount in creating a connection between the two of you as every man deeply craves to feel understood.

Try the Whiz Bang Phrase and the Emotional Transparency Phrase (a subconscious bonding phrase) to show that you’re the woman who actually “gets” what he needs.


2. “I want you now!”

This single sexy phrase makes him drop everything (pants included) and start drooling over you.

Whispering almost any naughty line to a guy is the sexual equivalent of 3-D glasses – it heightens the entire experience for him. But after talking to a bunch of men recently, I learned there are four specific words every man longs to hear the most. The phrase that unleashes his lust? “I want you now.”  Why do these words yield so much seductive power?  Relationship expert Felicity Keith explains it in her article, “4 Reasons Why Naughty Talk Drives Men Crazy With Desire”

Men love suggestive comments; just like a woman feels more confident when her man tells her she’s beautiful, men feel more confident when their mate finds them sexy and strong. Notice your man’s muscles and flirt with him. Tell him he’s handsome. Let him know that he’s sexy. Your being suggestive makes him feel like he’s doing a good job being your man.

Try the “Secret Fantasy Phrase” to become the object of his deepest fantasies and watch how thinking about you turns him on in ways which can’t be described by words or the “Razzle Dazzle Phrase” to make every nerve in his body stir and tingle with attraction.


3. “I love you.”

Sometimes when we’re so comfortable in our relationships we don’t say “I love you”, as much as we should. These three words have so much meaning behind them, but we tend to just go about our day without saying them. So the next time you’re at work thinking of your guy, just send him a little text to show him how much you love him.


4. “You make me SO happy.”

We generally accept that men like to be successful in business. They also like to succeed with the ladies, so be smart and let your man succeed with you. Men are more driven to please women than most women realize.It was to win back Helen of Troy that King Menalaus sent the entire Greek army after her, which started the Trojan War, and eventually brought down an empire.

Letting your man know he is succeeding with you won’t spoil him or motivate him less; it will motivate him more. It feels good to feel like a winner. Let your man win with you and watch him start looking for ways to please you over and over again.


5. “You look great.”

Men have insecurities, just like women. And whether he shows it or not, sometimes he’s wondering if his shirt looks better tucked in or out, or if his belly is sticking out a little too far over his belt. This is an especially good compliment if he’s been going to the gym—why do you think he’s doing all that working out?

A simple phrase like “I love your [insert body part]” will do the trick!  Sometimes it helps to get specific.   “I love your you-know-what” (or whatever word you can say without laughing or blushing too much.) will drive him wild.  Men are sensitive about their manly bits and they want to know that you’re attracted to what they have.


6. “I love how strong you are.”

Since you’re already telling him how much you love how he looks, go a little further and say how strong he is as well. All guys, built or not, like to hear that they’re strong and can do something special for their partner.

Even more importantly, show him how mentally strong you think he is.  Men are no different than us, they like to feel wanted, needed, and that you can lean on them for emotional support, too.


So, do you now realize just how important words are in intensifying feelings of attraction and desire in your partner?  Saying the right words can literally make a man’s eyes  intensify with desire and make his body buzz.

There are certain phrases that have been researched for years and work because they sink deep into the emotion producing part of the human brain and spark up any emotion you want a person to feel.  These phrases create a feeling of euphoria in the human brain exactly like a drug and release something called the pleasure bonding chemical throughout his body.

Kelsey spent 3 years learning, researching and collecting every little detail, compiled it into a book called Obsession Phrases.  Watch this video to see how Kelsey helped hundreds of women at $300 an hour with one on one coaching and then turned it into a course for MUCH less than that!

It doesn’t matter if you’re married or single, what your body looks like, or how old you are – these obsession phrases work for everyone.  Phrases like:

The Everlasting Attraction phrase.

The Monogamy Awakener phrase for men who are commitment phobic.

The Attraction Spinner Phrase for men who only see you as a fling – use it and watch his mind open up to the idea of love for you and miss you.

The Emotional Transparency Phrase to make him feel that you’re the only woman who actually “gets” what he needs.

Plus, a man’s most secret desire that he craves in a woman.

Click here for more information on the above phrases plus many, many more.

Enjoy! xo