3 Ways to Make “The Big O” Even Better While Also Amplifying Intimacy

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Sex with your partner should be as good as possible the whole way through, but let’s face it … we’re all headed somewhere. And that somewhere starts with a big, fat O.

 

Right?

 

Ok, so that’s a given. But did you know that if you want to intensify your orgasms and make them even better, it’s actually not about the moment of the “Big O” itself?

 

Nope, it’s all about the other stuff.

 

More specifically, it’s about prolonging foreplay. How do you do this? Easy. Below, you’re going to find the best three ways to turn that usual dinky ‘o’ into a big ‘ole ‘O’ that will be extremely difficult to forget.

 

Not only will these strategies help you feel amazing, they’ll bring your lovemaking to a whole new level and make you and your honey even closer.

 

Let’s get started!

 

  1. Make foreplay last … and make it fun.

 

You need your foreplay to last for both of you. Forget that old saying that women love long foreplay and men don’t. Men can love it too, but you two just have to know what you’re doing.

 

Why is prolonged foreplay so vital to achieving an amazing orgasm? Think about it. It’s all about stretching out the anticipation. For example, if you consider what’s so exciting about some big event happening … the exciting part is the part leading up to the event. And when there’s lots of buildup and anticipation, things can get pretty intense!

 

So how to build things up? How to stretch them out?

 

Start by going slow. This might seem simple, but it’s actually hard—especially when you’re really turned on and ready to go.

 

You’ve got to learn how to play with your partner. And do some exploring too.

 

For example, try going down on them. And when you do, give them slow kisses as you move. Use your hands all over their body. Move in different positions. Use your mouth.

 

  1. Get creative with your techniques … and locations … at the same time.

 

Ok, obviously getting into a new position or trying a new technique is a great way to jazz things up. But you should also try to combine these new techniques and positions with new locations. In fact, it’s all about the combining. Really, think of how many more combinations of moves and positions you can do if you also change up locations, outfits, mood, time of day, etc.

 

One example of this might be heading outside for the day. Ever had sex outside? We didn’t think so.

 

But why not? All you have to do is pack a picnic lunch and go somewhere private. Then start getting into it. The excitement of being somewhere new and maybe even the possibility of someone seeing could be extremely useful for getting you two turned on.

 

  1. Put your game face on.

 

If you’re not already playing games with your partner, you should be! Remember, you have to stay creative and always be thinking about new ways to spice things up within your sex life. This is vital to maintaining a solid relationship.

 

Naturally, the same old routine gets old, and bringing new ideas to the table is no one else’s job but yours. Both of you! So it’s important to consider implementing some alluring and fun sex games—as long as you’re both comfortable with them and they’re tasteful.

 

These games will seriously intensify the length and quality of your orgasms. One of the best things about sex games is that it automatically makes foreplay longer. Think about it: As you talk about which game to play, decide on “rules” and discuss how you’re going to go about things … you naturally start getting turned on.

 

Sex games are also awesome because they help you get out of your comfort zone. If you are usually just trying to think of new positions and games by yourself … you might feel intimidated or nervous about trying something new. With a game that has rules, you can rest assured you’ll feel comfortable because you’ll just be doing what the game tells you to.

 

Some games may use a pair of dice, a deck of cards, or even some props (your bodies can also be the props…!). And all and all, it’s just a great way to get the juices flowing and prolong the great big O.

 

So. Are you ready? If you feel prepared to plunge in head first and begin making that foreplay longer and more intense … you’re already well on your way to some amazing O sensations. Trust us.

 

But, there’s something else you need to know.

 

Playing games, using creative locations and techniques, and stretching out the foreplay can help make your big O great … That’s for sure. But there’s another thing you need to know: It’s a natural method that can also do wonders for you.  And when we say wonders we mean wonders …

 

We’re talking vaginal orgasms.

 

If you use this unique program called Unlock Your Orgasms, you’ll realize just what an amazing, never-felt-before-orgasm actually feels like. Because this program will allow you to have incredible vaginal orgasms every time you have sex.

 

You’re wondering if it’s possible. And we’re here to tell you that It. Definitely. Is. Possible.

 

And it feels amazing.

 

So sign up today and see how it can change your sex life. If you’ve been down in the dumps because of a lackluster sex life … We get it. But this is exactly what you need.

 

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In Love? You’ll Never Be His Best Ever Until You Know This

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When you’re in love, everything is coming up roses. Spending time with him is all you think about. Everything seems to lead up to that. Other parts of your life that you used to be frustrated about—work, family problems, the state of the world … those things seem to just float away a whole lot easier now that love is in your life.

 

Even if your love is not reciprocated, you’re probably still going to be happy. He may never even look your way, but knowing that he’s there … knowing that he could be the one, it makes you a little crazy.

 

You know the feeling …

 

In the mean time, you find yourself taking more time with your appearance. Hair, makeup, better clothes. And of course, as you two (hopefully) continue to get closer and closer, as the love continues to get stronger … you think about …

 

Sex … and how to please him in his favorite possible ways.

 

Because let’s face it: You want to be the best he’s ever had. Love’ll do that to ya.

 

Which leads us to our main point: What you must know if you want to be his best ever … if you want to further foster feelings of intense love with your man. And make him love you even more.

 

Mind-blowing sex is on the menu.

 

Intimacy Needs to Be Both Emotional and Physical

 

Let’s start at the beginning with a simple lesson in love that every woman should know. Namely, that true love cannot come about from only physical intimacy and can’t come about from only emotional intimacy either. You must have a combination of the two.

 

Here’s how you do it.

 

Fostering Emotional Intimacy

 

Let’s start with the emotional aspect of things. In order to tap into any man’s psyche and find that heart of gold you know is there … that strength and yearning that you know he has … the thing you’ve been looking for desperately in your love life, you need to act like a gardener.

 

Sound sort of odd? It’s not. Think about it. A gardener does several key things to make their plants and crops grow: Water, sun, soil. You need certain ingredients to make your love grow.

 

The love you feel for him? It’s already there. But men are stubborn. The way to the hearts of men is a winding and twisty labyrinth that is hard for women to find their way in. It’s certainly possible, though, to navigate the emotions and feelings of a man if you only know what you’re doing. You need to be able to tap into him where no other woman has been able to. And sorry to say, it won’t exactly be easy.

 

A lot of it has to do with asking the right questions. We’ll talk about strategies later, but know this: One question or inquiry that he doesn’t like, and he could shut down forever. It’s important to know how to talk to a man who is emotionally closed off.

 

Fostering Physical Intimacy

 

Now we’ve arrived at the physical stuff. To men? Equally important.

 

Men are visual and need sex almost daily. They think about it constantly. But their likes and dislikes vary. It depends on their personality, but it also depends on how you present yourself.

 

Men want to be with strong women. They want a woman who can take care of him, who is intelligent and knows she is beautiful and capable. But at the same time, he wants to be a caregiver. Trying to figure out how to make both of these things happen in the bedroom is a challenge.

 

For example, dirty talk: Being too forceful—even saying things he might seemingly lust after in a porn he watches—is going to turn him off. In contrast, not saying anything or being too shy with your sexy talk is going to be turn him off for him as well. He’s going to become shy and feel awkward if he wants to talk dirty to you. He’ll feel like he can’t be himself around you, and that just everything else inside him completely down.

 

Knowing just what to say, and employing techniques that are tried and true with emotionally cut off men is exactly what you need to learn how to do.

 

Bringing Everything Together

 

What you have here are two strategies for reinforcing desire and love within the man you love—whether he is currently your partner right now or not. Have a partner who seems distant? Broken up with a boyfriend who you want back? These are the strategies that can help you fix things.

 

To actually bring everything together, though, you need one secret. And it lies within the Language of Desire.

 

This program is like the perfect teacher for any woman who wants to cultivate an indescribably heightened, intense love while also giving her man the best sex ever.

 

Felicity Keith, aka “the man whisperer” created The Language of Desire to help you unlock the desire in any man you want. Once you find this key that Felicity will give you, you’ll understand just how much you didn’t know about your guy. Without even touching him, you can create an intense lust between you so that he is constantly thinking about you, can’t wait to have you …

 

And just imagine what you can do when you get to the “touching” part of the program.

 

Try it and see if it works for you the way it has worked for countess other woman. We think you’ll love the results you get … and your man will too.

 

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Couples Who Have Sex All the Time Do These 10 Things

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Are you always wanting to have sex more often than your partner?

 

Or maybe you’re the one who tends to put off hanky panky?

 

First of all, just because you two aren’t having sex every day … or week … or even every few weeks … this doesn’t mean that there’s inherently trouble in the relationship.

 

You might just be in a slump.

 

Hey, life gets in the way sometimes. You’re both busy. It’s understandable.

 

With that being said, study after study suggests that more sex means a more meaningful union between two people.

 

When you have sex more often, it ties you together in an intimate way that then extends to other parts of your life. In the relationship, we’re talking:

 

  • Less fighting
  • Less cold shoulder and passive aggressiveness
  • More kind words and doing nice things for each other
  • And more support

 

Individually, having more sex means:

 

  • Better mental health
  • Less depression
  • Lower BMI
  • A more radiant appearance (yes!)

 

After all, having a partner in life should be adding positivity to your life not making it more stressful.

 

So! In order to get you more in the mood, let’s turn to the experts in this field—AKA, couples who have sex all the time.

 

10 Things Couples Who Have Sex Often Do That You Should Too

By: Faye Roberts

 

  1. They flirt.

 

These couples don’t expect to jump in the sack with no setup. Flirting heats things up. They tell each other how fine they look in that [dress, button-down, t-shirt]. Or give a little passing butt squeeze.

 

  1. They go on dates.

 

Again, it’s all about the setup. Dates involve:

 

  • Alone time (no kids, no bills, no TV)
  • Flattering clothes / getting gussied up
  • Staring into each other’s eyes

 

And this makes all the difference.

 

  1. They put it on the calendar (and never miss an appointment).

 

When life gets busy, sexually successful couples set aside scheduled time for love making. This is not cold and calculated like many people assume. It’s smart. As with anything in life, you need to prioritize important items that you want to accomplish … or they’ll never be accomplished. Sex is important.

 

  1. They start slow.

 

These couples don’t jump to the main deed when they have sex. Whether it’s a slow massage or some dirty talk, they know they’re always time for foreplay.

 

  1. … or they just do it.

 

On the other hand, if these couples aren’t exactly in the mood when the scheduled time arrives, they don’t just forget the whole thing. Instead, they go to town. Sometimes, just “getting in position” is all you need to get revved up.

 

  1. They act like 20-somethings.

 

Let’s look at a relationship between two people in their early 20s. They probably want sex all the time, and they usually have it all the time.

 

This often means doing some “unconventional things” like having a quickie against the hallway wall, doing it on the floor, or trying crazy positions in the shower.

 

Do this.

 

  1. They take turns initiating.

 

Just like taking turns with cooking, cleaning or taking out the trash, you can take turns initiating sex.

 

  1. They know how to get in the mood.

 

When they know sex will feel good but are tempted to just each tacos in front of the TV until bedtime, sexually active couples pull out their secret weapons.

 

These are different for every couple, but they might include: Reading from a dirty novel, giving each other massages, or setting up a nice two-person bubble bath.

 

  1. They know each other’s turn-ons.

 

Smart couples keep mental logs of their partner’s turn-ons. Maybe your wife goes crazy when you give her that once-over “you’re so sexy” look or when you put a suit and tie on. Maybe your guy loses it when you wear that red dress or lightly scratch his scalp.

 

Use these cues to start something up.

 

  1. They talk about it.

 

Finally, couples who have sex on a regular basis talk about sex. They’re not afraid to mention it—yes—even when they’re not in the middle of it.

 

They bring it up at dinner, when they’re driving in the car, over text message.

 

And if one of them feels like they’d like to have more sex, they sure as hell aren’t going to just be silently grumpy about it. They’ll pipe up.

 

So our suggestion is to start here if you’re really lost about how to have more regular sex. Certainly incorporate some of the other tips above to get the ball rolling, but also have a decent discussion on the topic.

 

Here’s an example:

 

Start by sending a sweet text to your partner asking to go on a date.

 

Put it on the calendar and make your reservation for early enough that when you get home you won’t be so tired that you immediately crash in bed. In other words, leave time for scheduled sex after the date.

 

Then, on the date, flirt. Compliment your partner, butter them up and get a little dirty talk going (when no one’s listening). Talk about having more sex—staying in flirtation mode. Say you have been thinking about it all day and you’d love to do it that evening.

 

Now, if you’ve found yourself thinking “I can’t flirt!” or “I have no idea how to use dirty talk …”, don’t worry. You’re not alone. Lots of women struggle with this, and to be sure, it’s not really something you can learn over night.

 

One tip we recommend is to ask questions. This gives you some verbal cues, then puts the ball in his court. Try these:

 

  • “Would you like it if I … [sat on your lap, touched you here, etc.]?”
  • “How do you want me to touch you?”
  • “Tell me what you like …”

 

Questions will get you started, but later, you’ll need to pipe up again (it’s all about keeping the dirty talk going!), so that means you may need a little more advice.

 

The Language of Desire can make any woman an expert dirty talker. It’s already helped an enormous amount of gals overcome their dirty talk fears and other sexual hurdles that keep them from letting out their true inner sex goddesses.

 

To get at all the goodies The Language of Desire has to offer, just sign up here. Using the program creator’s key insights and wisdom in conjunction with these tips and tricks from sexy couples will transform your life in the bedroom in ways you never thought possible.

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