10 Things Every Guy Wants to Hear in Bed

10 Things Every Guy Wants to Hear in Bed

(How to Keep Him Sexually Obsessed With You)

By: Faye Roberts

 

10 things every guy wants to hear in bed

Let’s get one thing straight:

 

Guys love being in bed with you … period.

 

This is a widely understood fact among men. But sigh … women continue to worry and fret over the pooch in their tummy, the shape of their nipples and that mole on their back.

 

Just cool it darlings: He’s really happy to be there.

 

Ok, now that we’ve got that set, we can talk about making his (and your) experience even better.

 

Yep, dirty talk.

 

But not just any dirty talk. You want to know the things he dreams about you saying when you’re not there. The things that will drive him wild and keep him fantasizing about you when you’re not there.

 

The things that will make him sexually obsessed with you for days, weeks, months to come …

 

For some women, dirty talk is a breeze. Others of us need a little nudge in the right direction!

 

So here we go:

The Top 10 Things All Men Would Die to Hear in Bed

 

  1. “You’re sooo big”

 

Bingo. Guys like compliments, it’s true. And this is just about the best one they can get when you’re rollin’ around with each other. Be enthusiastic about it, and make sure to use your hands (or otherwise) to show him just how impressed you are. Trust us, he’ll go crazy for you.

 

  1. “Shall we change positions?”

 

This one’s great because it lets him know you’re into being creative, and you’re excited about sex! (Some women aren’t as many men will sadly tell you.) It’s also good for when you’re just not digging the current position.

 

One note: Make sure to say it in your sexiest voice, maybe even whisper it in his ear. Otherwise it might come across that you don’t like the current position (and even if that’s true, it can be a buzz kill if you know what we mean).

 

  1. “I want ______ so bad.”

 

This is a primal statement that can work for a number of positions and moves. When you put “so bad” on the end of any phrase, it just makes it that much more exciting for both him and you. The urgency in the utterance tells him you need him, and that alone may push him over the edge!

 

  1. His name

 

Saying his name in the midst of a passionate romp helps him know that it’s him and only him that’s making you feel this way. You’re not with just any guy—you’re with him and you know it. Don’t belabor this, but sprinkle it in amongst some of your dirty talk to make your session in the sheets more passionate and personal.

 

  1. Exactly, particularly … whatever it is you want from him

 

Men want to please. When they know they’re making you feel good, it turns them on even more. So it makes sense that they’ll most definitely be into whatever it is that gets you off. Tell him, and not only will he go wild … he’ll do it!

 

  1. “Your ____ is/are so sexy…”

 

Another good compliment line here, but you can use it for anything: muscles, arms, chest, back, stomach …

 

Now one point here: Be specific. Don’t just throw these lines out like you’re reading a script. Really think about what it is that truly turns you on—even if it’s something a little different, like his hands, legs, chest hair or voice. Chances are he’ll be very interested in hearing about it …

 

  1. “I love when you tell me what you like …”

 

This can be a helpful phrase for when you feel a guy might be clamming up a bit. After all, sex can be stressful on men, especially if it’s one of the first times you two are in bed together.

 

When you tell him that you love to hear what he likes and wants in bed, it might help him open up and get a little more chatty. It lets him know you’re interested … very interested … to know how to please him.

 

  1. “Right there.”

 

Use this when he really is doing a great job at … whatever it is. This encourages him to keep doing it! And it will probably arouse him to no end. Again, he loves making you feel good.

 

  1. “Do whatever you want.”

 

Get ready for this one … he may take you up on it right away. Of course, remember to use this with a guy who will take things only as far as you want to go. In other words, you probably won’t want to try this line with someone the first time you’re having sex.

 

  1. Moans and “oh!’s”

 

Finally, do not underestimate the power of a good moan or sigh or … “oohhaahhh!” They want to know you’re into it! Little sounds and “oohs” and “aahs” tell them they’re doing a good job, and this makes them feel awesome. Hey, those little noises can also help get you in the mood too!

 

Interested in more?

Click HERE for an entire arsenal of key phrases to use in every situation you can think of with a man. You’ll also learn about the science of how men react to certain things women say so you can understand the way that these phrases actually work.
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Are You Two Compatible? 3 Vital Questions You Should Ask Yourself

Are You Two Compatible?

 3 Vital Questions You Should Ask Yourself

by Michael Fiore

Are you two really compatible

How do you know if you should even BE in a relationship with somebody in the first place?

You can’t really trust your heart because (as we know) that crazy addicted feeling of love you get when you first meet someone, smell someone and fall deeply into their eyes is largely a biological trick with your body telling you “Hey, this guy has genes that go well with yours. Make a baby!”

And you can’t REALLY trust your brain because, well, that wouldn’t be very romantic, would it?

So instead when it comes to wondering if you’re “Compatible” with your mate,  you should ask yourself 3 simple questions and see what your gut has to tell you:

 

Question 1: Do you have comfortable silences with them?

I first discovered comfortable silences with my best friend in High School.

She (it was a she, but there was never anything even vaguely romantic between us) and I would hang out for hours and would have big chunks of that time NOT paying attention to each other, reading books, watching movies, etc.

And the wonderful thing is, it wasn’t awkward at all.

You’re having a COMFORTABLE silence with someone when you can hang out in the same place, not say a damned word and not feel any NEED to “impress them” or “engage them” at all.

A good relationship is a marathon, not a sprint. And a marathon means pacing yourself. If you feel like you have to be “on” all the time (or if you demand that your partner use every moment they have with you INTENSELY paying attention to you) it just ain’t gonna work.

 

Question 2: Do you have the same idea of “Fun?”

This is actually a bigger problem than you think.

On a recent podcast  we got a question from a guy who just moved to NYC with her girlfriend.

And while he wants to go out partying every single night until 3 in the morning (only to go to work bleary-eyed and hung over) she’s much happier just hanging out in at a coffee place with a book.

And it’s killing them.

I know that sounds dramatic. And I’m not saying you have to have all the same interests as your partner in order to be compatible with them (successful relationships happen when two people have separate lives and decide to create another one together.)

But I am saying you fundamentally have to live in the same “universe” of interests.

If you’re a thrill seeker who likes jumping out of airplanes . . .

And if their idea of having a good time is “Sitting on the dock of the bay,” you’re both going to end up unsatisfied and victims of toxic compromise where NEITHER of you gets to do what you want.

 

Question 3: Do you dream of the same future?

OK, not the EXACT same future (it’s ok if the china patterns he wants are different than yours) but does his idea of a “Happy life” jive with yours?

Does your significant other want kids?
Do they want to get hitched?
Do they want to live in the country or deep in the heart of the city?

This stuff sounds SO basic, I know, but like I always say having a successful relationship takes MORE than love.

Actually, love is NEVER enough for a really great relationship that makes you both happy.

You can’t just LOVE somebody, you have to LIKE them too.

And liking them means you have to have absolute and total respect for what they like to do with their time and what they see their life turning into.

About Michael Fiore:

Blunt, funny and always honest, Michael Fiore is an internationally known expert on how to have great relationships in the modern world. In 2011, Michael appeared on “The Rachael Ray” show with his popular Text The Romance Back Program (Rachael said he gave her “chills”).

Since then Michael has given women X-Ray vision into men’s minds with his The Secret Survey: What Men Desperately Want You To Know But Will Never Tell You program, and taught thousands how to get their ex’s back with Text Your Ex Back.

Michael lives in Seattle, WA with his (amazing) wife and is currently hard at work on his next shocking, straightforward and really, really useful program.

Source: Digital Romance Inc.