Switch On, Switch Off: Solutions for Becoming an Irresistible Bombshell Overnight

In order to become a man’s obsession, his addiction, you’ve got to know what makes him operate.

 

Every woman has that one special man she can’t stop thinking about.

For you, this guy might be your current boyfriend or husband.

Or perhaps it’s a guy you just started seeing … or one who has no idea you’re even into him at all!

Regardless of what your status is, we all have that one object of desire. We think about him all the time. We’re probably even a little obsessed.

 

And in return … we want him to be obsessed with us.

 

Come on, you know it’s true! You don’t want to be “just some woman” to him. You don’t want to be “a good woman” in his eyes.

 

You want to be the best woman! You want to be adored by him. Even more than that, you want to be the one he can’t live without.

 

Every day, you should be the first thing he thinks about when he wakes up in the morning. Last thing he thinks of when he goes to bed. He’s thinking about you all the time. Everything reminds him of you.

 

If he’s not with you, he’s wondering what you’re doing. He’s desperate to know what you’re doing, in fact.

 

In short, we want to be his addiction.

 

Okay, do you have this man in mind?

 

And … how are things between the two of you?

Does he adore you?

Are you his obsession?

Is he completely and utterly addicted to you?

 

If not … well, this is for you, doll.

 

Because what you need to know is … you can make him become addicted to you.

 

Just gotta know one essential thing about how men operate.

 

The Secret to Man’s True Desire

 

In order to become a man’s obsession … his addiction … you’ve got to know what makes him operate.

 

And this leads us to one crucial feeling that men are constantly seeking.

 

No. Seriously. I’m not sure this is fully sinking in.

 

This One. Feeling. is what Makes. Men. Tick.

 

Okay, here goes.

 

Let’s start with a question: Have you ever heard the expression “The thrill of the chase”?

 

It’s a fairly common one—used to denote the excitement one feels when trying to accomplish something difficult. Notice, however, that the expression doesn’t say “The thrill of the accomplishment.” Rather, the emphasis is on the … well, the hard part: the chase.

 

This is noteworthy for us why, you ask?

 

Because it’s exactly the sentiment that applies to men when they’re courting or trying to impress a woman.

 

It isn’t the success part of the work that gets their motors runnin’. Okay, maybe for a slight moment after a woman finally, finally says that “Yes, I will go on a date with you” or “Yes, I love you too,” the man will feel a warm sense of triumph over his accomplishment.

 

But it doesn’t last.

 

And for the most part, it’s still that thrill of the chase, the hunt, the work if you will, that keeps him going, striving, and super interested in whatever woman he’s attempting to, ahem, conquer.

 

And this can all be narrowed down to one word:

 

Challenge.

 

Men want a challenge. Whatever it is, they want to work for it.

 

Give a man a cushy, respected, well-paying job that he didn’t earn, and he’ll quit.

 

Give a man an amazing body that is always perfectly toned no matter how much he eats or how much he works out, and he won’t appreciate it. In fact, he’ll probably be annoyed by it.

 

Give a man a beautiful, slender, hard-working, funny, doting woman who adores him (the “perfect” woman), and he’ll break it off.

 

So … huh!?

 

Yes, it’s a little confusing. Let’s explain further.

 

 

No Challenge … No Desire

 

We all know that men want to be protectors. They want to be hunters. They want to be protagonists in the narrative of the world. But what do all of these “roles” have in common?

 

They’re challenging. And they give him an adrenaline rush.

 

What’s adrenaline?

 

It’s a hormone that comes about in times of high stress, strain or pressure. For example, when you’re up for a big job promotion that you’re *worried* you won’t get … adrenaline hits.

 

Or when you’re getting ready to go on a date with someone, but you’re *worried* they won’t like you … adrenaline hits again.

 

Notice the word “worried”?

 

Yeah, you’re gonna have to make him a little worried. More on that later.

 

Back to the point. If a man isn’t challenged in some way … if he doesn’t have to work hard to achieve something … he could care less.

 

Get it now?

 

If your man doesn’t have to work for you … fill in the blank … he could care less.

 

This is not a position you want to be in.

 

So, what does this mean?

 

It means that even if you already adore him and feel a strong pull to dote on him and make courting you suuuper easy on him … STOP. NOW.

 

Because you’re going to need to keep him “on his toes” in order to keep him addicted to you. Keep him worried. You see, there’s a lightning-fast adrenal buildup that happens every single time a man is doing or thinking / imagining anything that is a super big, stereotypically masculine obsession.

 

And “getting” a “difficult-to-get” woman … is definitely a masculine obsession.

 

Don’t worry, this isn’t difficult if you know what to do, and it’s also not a trick. This is actually a mating tradition that’s common in numerous types of animals. Just so happens it’s also a human thing.

 

 

So … How Do Women Tap Into This?

 

We’re already over the first hurdle. You now know that throwing yourself at him and being at his every beck and call is not the way to get him addicted to you.

 

Now the issue is that many women simply don’t know how to go about harnessing this challenge and adrenaline rush in their men.

 

It might be easy to assume that all it takes to stimulate a man is to appear sexually attractive, but the truth of the matter is … it takes something much more complicated and thought-out to tap into this reservoir of endless attention that a man gives to his most cherished hobbies (women).

 

Well … to put it simply, you must learn the little-known ability of keeping a man constantly emotionally wound up.

 

So now the question is how do you do it?

 

 

How to Make Any Man Feel “Challenged”

(and Therefore Obsessed With You)

 

  1. Show you’re in demand.

 

Don’t lie, but don’t make obviously evident your dearth of date and outing options either.

 

Instead, make sure you refuse / reschedule his first few ideas for getting together. Or if your boyfriend / husband wants to see a movie this weekend? You can’t, you’re busy. Yes, maybe you’re “busy” cleaning out your closet or going to the mall … but he doesn’t have to know that. You’re just … busy. You have other options; that’s key.

 

  1. Be self-sufficient.

 

Women understand that men want to feel needed, but keep this in mind: you need to be choosy with how often you need him. Don’t need him for every little thing, or again, it will be too easy for him.

 

Ask him to reach a box that’s up high every once in a while, but then change your own tire and tell him the story a few days later. He’ll freak and wonder: “Wait a minute, how’d she do that herself? She’s comfortable without me …?”

 

  1. Have your own hobbies and interests.

 

You love him. Or at least you’re super into him. So naturally, you think loving everything that he does is a good idea.

 

Not so, darling. In fact, it’s more about having your own hobbies and interests. Again, he’ll be miffed (aka stressed) that you’re so interested in things that have nothing to do with him. This will stress him out … and he’ll feel challenged. See what we’re doing here?

 

  1. Use the right words.

 

Language is everything. In all of the above tips, you need to use the right language or they won’t work. For example, if you want to reschedule his invitation for a date so that you’re more of a challenge … you can’t just say “Heck no, I’ve got plans! Haha SORRY!”

 

Nuh-uh.

 

You need to say something like “Oh shoot, I’d love to, but I have friends from out-of-town coming in. Maybe next week?” It’s short, it reveals that you’re in demand, but it’s friendly too. It shows that you’re still interested in doing something later.

 

But what is the right language in other situations? Well, remember that the goal is to get him wound up. So, you’ll need some very special phrases. This can be hard. Lots of women have had easy and quick success using Love Commands. These are little, easy-to-remember phrases that you can use with any man, and they seriously work like a charm. Really, no thinking and worrying whether they’ll work or not on your part. Try them!

 

So if you do all of these things? You’ll start to notice some things …

 

When he’s around you, his breathing will get a bit faster … you might even see him start to sweat a bit … he’ll begin looking at you more … you’ll actually catch him staring …

 

And if you keep it up (remember, “the thrill of the chase!” … keep him on his toes!), if you keep it up … I guarantee he’ll be yours forever.

How To Make Him Choose You Over Other Women (Even If They’re Prettier)

How To Make Him Choose You Over Other Women

(Even If They’re Prettier)

by Simone Myers

how to make him choose you

Are you stuck with a guy who has the ‘shifty eye syndrome’? Or maybe you’re in a relationship with a man whose neck would break to get a peek at anything with legs; meanwhile you feel like you’re collecting dust over in the corner, wondering if he’ll ever see you that way again.

You might not realize it just yet, but when it comes to love, men are actually pretty straight forward.

Heck! I’m sure by now you’ve found that men can be pretty darn predictable, especially when it comes to intimacy. It’s this predictability, actually, that I’m going to show you how to use and harness today to have him going almost wacko just to get a peek at you, and to be near you.

It might sound impossible right now, but there’s only one thing you need to remember when it comes to men and love:

Simplify, simplify, simplify.

It’s often when a woman tries to make things too complicated, or when she tries too hard that men lose interest or become too confused to know how to react or respond. It’s this reality, actually, that has many marriages ending in divorce, and many more women unable to find a man or even get a date.

At the end of the day, when asked, many men admit that their ideal relationship is one that involves simplicity. No crazy desperation, or intense mind games, or never-ending arguments. Just the basics….with a little bit of edge to keep things interesting.

So how do you add that fine line of edginess into a relationship, without overcomplicating things?

Well, it’s simple.

You use the Mouse Trap Method.

I bet by now you’re sitting here going “huh….what the heck is that?”, but I’m glad you’re asking, because this technique is about to completely revolutionize and simplify your love life.

The Mouse Trap method is simple, because it can be applied to any stage of a relationship, and it does one thing, and one thing only: it makes a guy go completely ‘ga-ga’ for you.

I’ve literally seen guys turning down supermodel type women, just to rush home to a woman who has used this technique on him.

I’ve even seen extremely dry relationships go from dead, to bursting with intense passion within the span of just a few short weeks, under the same premise.

So to say that this technique will help you, is putting it lightly. It will SAVE you.

So I bet you’re wondering how it works?

Well, when a guy is checking out other women, or when your man loses interest in you, like most women, you probably thrust yourselves toward him, practically begging for attention…right?

Like most women, you likely don’t realize when you’re doing that either, or to what extent, but I can guarantee you’ve done this numerous times, if you’re dealing with a man who has the Shifty Eye Syndrome.

In cases like these, where a man’s attention is not solely on you, or where he has withdrawn from you emotionally (he’s become an emotional ghost), it actually can completely ruin your chances of ever having a man love you like you desire if you push yourself toward him.

Men, simply put, don’t want that.

That’s the ‘over complication’ I was talking about earlier. A man wants to feel free to make his own choices about how he feels, and when he is feeling how he feels.

Men absolutely HATE it when a woman tries to take control of his emotions and of his attention forcefully, especially if he’s already communicated that he wants his distance.

In that moment, he’s simply not hungry. Like a little toddler who refuses to eat even just one smaller mouthful, much to a parent’s frustration, a grown men works similarly when it comes to love.

If he doesn’t want it, he’s not going to take it.

The key, therefore, is to make him hungry for it. Wait it out, much like you would with a mouse trap and a piece of cheese.

If you try to bring the cheese to the mouse, he’ll run away.

But if you leave it for him, when he’s ready, and hungry enough….he’ll come get it.

He’ll even come get it from dangerous locations, if the hunger is strong enough.

And that, ladies, is the key to the Mouse Trap technique.

Leave the bait, allow him to become hungry for it, and let him take it.

It doesn’t have to be extremely complicated or confusing. It’s as simple as that, because men want to be in control and want to be the deciders, especially in a relationship or when attraction is involved.

Their natural instincts make them desire the chase, and the hunt; which men ultimately find rewarding. Remember if you are trying to push or force his attention on you, he’ll have nothing to chase, because the reality is you are the one chasing him.

It’s as ironic as trying to catch a mouse by running around with 100 chunks of cheese and throwing them at the mouse.

So, I bet by now you’re wondering how this whole Mouse Trap technique works?

The process is simple.

Here is how the Mouse Trap process works:

Step #1: Wait.

When he becomes an emotional ghost, or withdraws from you (even if you’ve just met recently, or have known him for a long time), WAIT. Don’t hurdle your cheese at him, hoping he’ll come around just because you’ve got a treat.

Be patient. This quality is actually one of your biggest allies when it comes to winning in a relationship, because a man cannot block or run from a patient woman. When a woman doesn’t fight what he’s doing, there’s nothing for him to force back in retaliation, so he gives in.

This is true especially if you’re dealing with a man who has shifty eyes, or who often appears to long for other women whether outwardly or in secret. If you’re not forcing yourself, there’s nothing for him to fight…there’s no reason for him to find now to ignore you.

Step #2: Set up the cheese.

The cheese, obviously, is you. You’re the bait. But you’re not going to throw yourself at him. You’re not going to break into little pieces to try and see if this or that would get his attention. No.

You simplify it. You wait, then you bait.

How do you bait?

That’s simple too, and I’ll talk about that in just a little bit, but for now understand just this one simple thing: your job is to wait for him to become hungry…which he will…if you allow him the opportunity.

Step #3: Let him take a bite- but make that bite so deliciously tempting that he’ll want to come back again and again.

This is where you show him what he was missing, which sounds complicated as well, but I promise you it’s actually pretty simple. Now that he’s told you he’s hungry for you, it’s actually very easy to tempt him and keep him hooked.

The key, is to use an open loop of attraction to do that.

What’s an open loop?

Well it’s essentially a never-ending wave of emotional buildup, wherein a man continuously builds up emotional excitement toward you, until he feels he can’t take it anymore, and explodes that excitement unto you. This loop then repeats again, just like a wave coming back and forth to the shore.

So now you must be wondering how to set up the cheese, and make him take the bait?

Earlier I mentioned that I was going to show you how to bait him, and I bet you’re also probably wondering how to open a loop that’ll keep him hooked.

The ‘how’ is actually very simple.  You do it by using secret little love spells.

No, these aren’t those corny ‘voo-doo’ spells you’re probably thinking of; but rather these are carefully crafted hypnotic lines. Follow this link right now to see what I’m talking about- => CLICK HERE. 

Wishing you a lifetime of love and passion!

Simone xo