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~Leo Christopher

Men Say 97% of Partners Incompetent When It Comes to “Handy Work”

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An employee at Digital Romance, Inc. recently conducted a survey of a large number of men. The topic concerned was something that every woman has experience with.

 

Hand jobs.

 

As a woman, you’ve done these too many times to count. Right?

 

And you know how to get it done.

 

Start with some light fingertip play. Move on to full hands. Go slow at first. Then faster and faster … Pretty soon … Success! Your man is as satisfied as he can be.

 

Well …

 

The information gleaned from this new survey may change your mind on that.

 

Actually, it will almost certainly change your mind.

 

TWO new shocking statistics were found.

 

First, there’s this: When asked, an amazing 89% of men said that they would rather masturbate than get a hand job from their significant other.

 

Next, when men did end up getting a hand job from their girlfriends or wives they said that 97% of their partners were incompetent.

 

Men are sexual beings.

 

We know this.

 

And as such, women as their partners need to be aware of the sexuality that they possess. Women need to understand men and understand their needs … just as women ask men to understand their own needs—their own desires to be loved and cared for.

 

But what these new shocking statistics reveal is that in actuality, women know pretty much close to nothing about what it means to be a loving, attentive, intuitive sex partner to their husbands and boyfriends.

 

Instead, women have been going along for decades thinking that they’ve been giving their men what they want … but have they? Have you?

 

Hand jobs are a huge part of sex.

 

Yes, really.

 

Obviously, there are more intense ways to get intimate, and maybe those parts of your love life are fine. But think about this:

 

How do you and your man start sex just about every time? You don’t just dive in. You start with the hands right?

 

And sometimes, finishing him with a hand job can be super sexy and intensely erotic.

 

But you have to do it right. The truth of the matter is that you likely haven’t been doing it right.

 

And if you’re saying: “No, I have! He loves it when I give him a hand job and he always says how amazing it makes him feel!” … Well, listen to this:

 

According to the survey, men also said that they would NEVER tell their wives and girlfriends that they were unsatisfied with the hand jobs they were getting.

 

Instead, they said that they just tolerated these awful hand jobs to be nice. And later … they would masturbate to porn.

 

This is a nice gesture on the part of men … but seriously, do you want to be getting pity sex for him?

 

Probably not. Instead, make him love the hand jobs that you give. Make him beg for them. Make him never want to watch another porn again.

 

If you want to give better hand jobs, you can.

 

Here are some tips to get you started, and we’ll tell you exactly what you need to do at the end.

 

  1. Don’t Be Rough.

 

Men might be a little more rough with their own … parts. But that’s not your prerogative. As his woman, your man wants you to be soft and gentle. And only a little extra excited at specific times.

 

  1. Always Use Two Hands.

 

Simple: Why use one when you have two? More is better when it comes to hands.

 

  1. Vary Your Speed

 

Not varying speed is something that drives men nuts. Yes, they want it to build up from slow to faster … and faster. But in between there, add variation. Otherwise, it’s just a boring ride where everyone already knows what’s going to happen before it does.

 

  1. Use Stroke of Genius Techniques.

 

The above list contains some of the basics for giving decent hand jobs. But who wants to give just a “decent” hand job? Don’t you want to be the best?

 

If so … Stroke of Genius is the video that you absolutely must watch. This video is insane in the information that it gives. More than just telling you every point that you are doing wrong and why he is hating the techniques that you probably think are your best work … Stroke of Genius tells you how to fix these problems.

 

And the information comes straight from men. So, you know you’re getting information that is accurate and honest. These men didn’t know who they were telling when they elaborated every detail about how they feel about women’s hand jobs.

 

They were just being honest.

 

And as a woman, this information is gold.

 

Go to the video now and watch it. Then try just a fraction of what you’ve learned the next time you two get frisky.

 

Trust us, he’ll be on his knees begging you to give him more. He’ll even be telling his friends about your amazing-ness.

 

And the next time you do give him more, you can show him even more of what you’ve learned: Perhaps “The Tip Swirl” or “The Kiss of the Fingernails.” Men love these. And that’s just the beginning …

 

Hey, why wait? Check it out now and use these amazing tips tonight. Your man doesn’t know what’s waiting for him!

 

What Is the Kama Sutra and Why Should You Be Using It?

What Is the Kama Sutra and Why Should You Be Using It?

 

Everyone’s heard of the Kama Sutra. But just what is this sexual handbook? And more importantly, can we use it today to make our own sex lives more healthy and enjoyable?

 

Well, yes and no. First, let’s start with the basics.

 

The Kama Sutra or just Kamasutra is likely the most famous manual for sex in the world. The document was written approximately 2400 years ago in India by a scholar named Vatsyayana.

 

You’ll see a number of various translations on the exact meaning of the title, but in general, this is what it means:

 

Kama = Pleasure or Desire

Sutra ­= Statement, Rule or Formula (Literally: A thread that holds something together)

 

So together, that’s basically “The Rules on Pleasure.”

 

Many people think that the Kama Sutra is simply an old, dusty sex manual, but it’s actually quite an important document that has a lot of historical importance. There are sections on how to find love, how to keep love and how to live a happy life in general. In fact, the entire text contains seven books. Just one of these books is about lovemaking in a physical sense, and in this book, there are ten individual chapters, only one of which is entitled “Love Positions.”

 

It’s also important to note that people have been writing manuals, books and various texts on sex for thousands of years and all around the world. Rome’s famous poet Ovid loved writing about sex and courting women, Philaenis of Samos had his own book on the topics of seduction and aphrodisiacs, and various other authors and poets have tried their hand at the topic as well.

 

Why Was the Kama Sutra Written in the First Place?

 

In India, the primary religion has been Hinduism for thousands of years, and within Hinduism, there are three important goals for living:

 

Darma: Moral duties and general ethics in life.

Artha: The importance of work and prosperity in life.

Kama: Enjoyment of life’s pleasures or the senses.

 

Vatsyayana, the author of the Kama Sutra, had the goal of writing simply about the last of the three goals for living: Life’s pleasures.

 

Notice that this goal is put last in the list of three for a reason. First, good Hindus should focus on cultivating a virtuous life. Next, they must make their way by working and creating wealth for themselves and their family, and finally, lastly, they must enjoy the pleasures of life—with just one of those earthly pleasures being sex.

 

Now, with this in mind, our writer Vatsyayana took readers down a rather amoral path. After all, with the first two parts of living well (moral duty and the importance of hard work and making a living) ostensibly “covered,” why not move on to the fun stuff … right!?

 

In this way, the Kama Sutra, to be sure, is not necessarily an extremely sacred text as many people think that it is. In fact, it’s quite common for people to assume that Indian people in general all know and use the tenets of the Kama Sutra because it’s “part of their religion.” Not so.

 

Actually, the Kama Sutra should be seen as more of the opposite of the moral structure that Hinduism aims to display. Within the texts of this document, you will find information that is quite bad and absolutely not moral in the least. See: Raping young girls, seducing other men’s wives and lots of selfish behavior.

 

Now, it’s a given that this was another time. Women were treated differently as were men in society.

 

But still. Please don’t go living your life by the Kama Sutra. We’re pretty sure even Vatsyayana would look down upon that.

 

How the Kama Sutra Can Help Your Sex Life

 

So with the above information about the history and depth of this book, hopefully we haven’t completely scared you away.

 

In fact, there are many great parts of this text, and one of the great parts is the chapter on sexual pleasure.

 

The Kama Sutra is very cool in that it is completely open and honest about how wonderful sex can be. One of life’s great pleasures is sex! And why shouldn’t we all embrace and indulge (in healthy, moral ways) in this fact!?

 

We think it’s a great idea.

 

So how can this specific chapter on sexual pleasure help a healthy, happy couple?

 

One answer: Awesome sex positions. Here are a few that you absolutely must try the next time you’re in the boudoir with your sweetheart.

 

  1. The Hero

 

She lays on her back but pulls her legs up in the air (really, as far back toward the ears as you can or want to go). He sits on his knees and takes her while holding her legs and enjoying the view.

 

  1. The Plough

 

She lays on the bed on her stomach with her bottom half (legs) off the bed and top half on the bed. He then takes her from behind while holding up her thighs.

 

  1. The Amazon

 

He lies on the bed on his back with her on top as if to do Cowgirl. Instead, he should bend his knees and pull them toward his chest and around her body. Have her scooch up toward him as far as she can go. Both should grab onto each other to maximize rhythm and pleasure.

 

  1. The Frog

 

This is basically doggy but much more pleasurable for the woman as she is able to lay down flat on her stomach keeping her booty up slightly. Or lay down entirely if it’s more pleasurable.

 

These are just four of the many positions that the Kama Sutra offers. So why not give these a try tonight? If you like how they work, there are plenty more where they came from…!

 

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