Top 8 Things Quality Men Are Looking For In Their ‘Soul Mate’

Top 8 Things Quality Men Are Looking For

In Their ‘Soul Mate’

by Adam Gilad

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Confused about what men are looking for in their ‘soul mate’. In women in general?

 

Not surprising!

 

I get that it can seem like men want everything – or that different men want enough different things that it FEELS like men want everything.

 

But I’ve got good news for you.

 

There’s no woman who truly ‘has it all’ – and you don’t have to figure out how to be everything he wants to become his soul mate.

 

There’s a much easier way – but more on that later.

 

The truth is – if you want to find the man of your dreams, you have to know what kind of man you’re looking for first. What qualities make him unique. What qualities you’re looking to have in your life and by your side forever.

 

And that’s what real men are doing too. They’re figuring out what qualities they want in a woman – qualities that will support them through good times and bad and make a true and lasting difference in their lives.

 

So now the question becomes: What qualities are the “quality” men looking for?

 

That’s a MUCH simpler question. Don’t you agree?

 

Here’s a list of the top 10 qualities that men are looking for in a woman they want to be with forever…

 

Supportive

Men are looking to be supported by the women by their sides, just the same as women want their partners to be supportive of them.  It might sound old fashioned, but it’s still a strong idea that’s VERY relevant in this day and age.

Men want women who support their dreams. Who support their choices. Who support their work, and their passions, and goals. Men want women who care, who are in their corner all the way, and who want to help improve their lives together.

 

Trustworty

Men are looking for a woman they can trust. This is something that goes both ways, and is just as important to both parties.

He needs to know that you’ll follow through on your promises, that you won’t break your word. There are too many flaky people out there today – and a man looking for a life partner doesn’t want any part of them. A true soul mate knows how valuable real trust is.

 

Compatibility Between the Sheets

Every man wants a woman who he’s sexually compatible with. A woman who can surprise him in the bedroom, can sometimes take the lead in the bedroom, and most importantly – makes him feel like a man.

Successful men are most often turned off by women who carry sexual shame – and when it comes to sex, men are looking for women who are generous and up for trying new things – as long as they’re not totally offensive or dangerous.

 

Playfulness

Who doesn’t want to laugh and have fun with their mate?

Men are looking for women who can be playful with them. Without playfulness, neither men nor women can relax and loosen up – which is hard to come by out in public or at work. When a man is with a woman who can delight him with her silliness or spontaneity, that’s a woman he wants to keep.

 

Ability to Forgive

Men are looking for a woman who can forgive… because a man knows that he’s GOING to mess up – and he wants to be forgiven.

Any long-term relationship needs the ability of both partners to forgive and understand each other, even when they mess up. Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect – so a relationship that doesn’t include forgiveness can never last.

Note that this doesn’t mean that you should forgive the unforgivable.  If your partner hurts or harms you or your relationship in a way that you feel is a deal breaker, it is time to walk away.

 

Having Self-Confidence

Confidence is sexy and attractive to both genders.  Men desire confident women. Innumerable relationships have been destroyed because of self-doubt, insecurity, and lack of confidence.

When a woman shows a man that she has no confidence in herself – what she’s really telling him is that she’s not going to carry herself in this world – and that he’s going to have to carry her.

And that’s the last thing men want. Men feel burdened by expectations all around them in the world – and they’re NOT looking to add another burden to their lives at home. If he sees you as a woman who can carry him sometimes – just like he carries you sometimes – he will see you as his soul mate.

 

Intelligence is Sexy

Men are attracted to women of intelligence. After all – if you’re going to spend every day together for the rest of your lives, you’d better be able to talk to each other!

Men truly value women who can help them navigate through life together and make the right decisions in difficult spots. No longer are men looking for women who pretend to be incompetent so that he can “save” them… men are looking for a woman who can hold her own and help brighten each other’s lives for years to come.

 

Capacity to Love Deeply

At the end of the day, men are really looking for women who can love deeply, wholly, and truly, with their entire hearts.  For a woman who can give him affection and support when he’s feeling down, who can go out of her way to brighten his day and make him smile, who can go the extra mile to make him feel loved.

When a man finds a woman like that, he will be inspired to do all that and more to see her smile – and to give her love.

Those are the 8 biggest qualities that men are looking for in the women they love. Chances are, a man is going to want to see at least 5 or 6 of those qualities in his soul mate.

But even if you know exactly what qualities he’s looking for – if you don’t have all of them, you’re not going to be able to cultivate them in yourself overnight.

 

That’s why I think you’d be interested in something I recently discovered. Have you ever heard of “Love Words?”

 

Well, there are very specific secret words that ignite a whirlwind of mind, body, and soul consuming love deep inside any man.

 

What are they? Find out by clicking right here: Love Words

 

The unusual thing is, these are the SPECIFIC words every man needs to hear from you.

 

And to demonstrate the amazing and shocking power of this, go to this page and discover these “Love Words” for yourself right now: Click here to access Love Words

 

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The #1 DIRTY SECRET That Men are Keeping from You

The #1 DIRTY SECRET That Men are Keeping from You

by Rick Wall

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There is no shortage of conversations in which women attempt to determine what it takes to win the heart of a man. There are numerous postulations that suggest that outer beauty is the key, and of course, there is the old adage: A way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.

 

While women, and experts alike, weigh in on the topic, it would do well to understand that dealing with men is much different than dealing with your girlfriend. Women are more complex and multilayered than men. At the end of the day, men are immensely simple, and easy to understand. There is one little dirty secret that men hide well, and that is the fact that more than anything, they want a woman who understands them — a woman that has the ability to communicate at the highest level with them.

 

At the core of what a man seeks from a woman is affirmation. A woman affirms her man in her speech, her response to his touch, and her ability to relate to who he is. In essence, in every form of communication, she is a constant reminder of who he is — one of the greatest sources of his confidence.

 

It is important to understand that communication is key here. While it is true that men are visual, far too much emphasis and gravity is placed on the visual components of a relationship. Yes, in the short-term, aesthetics have a place; however, aesthetics are not static, meaning that looks change with age.

 

This means that you cannot build a long-term relationship on something that is consistently changing. While your looks may capture his attention, it will be your ability to communicate with him in a manner that ensures him that you understand him, and that you will always have his back that will hold him.

 

According to relationship expert, Bree Maresca-Kramer, clear and open communication from a woman is immensely important to a man when he is determining the potential for a long-term relationship. As a general rule, men are not great communicators, especially when being compared to women. This means that a woman who is not concise and direct in her communication can confuse and frustrate her man to no end. Say what you mean and mean what you say, while leaving out all of the extras. Save the esoteric and convoluted conversation for the girls.

 

A man does not want to have to guess where he fits into the equation. He does not want to have to guess what it is that you expect from him. He wants a clear and concise message, and he will respond to that concise message promptly.

 

It is important to understand that a man’s need for direct communication is not indicative of any type of intellectual challenge, he is simply wired differently, so he responds to a certain type of communication.  This is vital because if direct communication from you is accompanied by a condescending tone, it will definitely not produce the results you are looking for. There is absolutely nothing a man hates more than being disrespected, and a condescending attitude will be perceived as disrespect.

 

Women are very intuitive — possessing an extraordinary sense of discernment. This is why women have no problem attempting to read situations and decipher codes; however, men don’t want to decipher anything. They want explicit details that are clear and concise. The extras are not necessary.

 

If a man loves you, he instinctively wants to make you happy, and when he fails in this category, it is not due to a lack of desire and effort, but most likely a failure in communication. When he knows specifically what is expected, he will deliver, or go to the end of the world in his attempts to do so.

 

Here’s what you can do to help facilitate the process:  To help him open up to you, so that he feels an overwhelming desire to be 100% open and honest with you, you need to communicate with him effectively.  Not just today, or for the next month, but ALWAYS.

 

Let me share with you the “magic words” that make it easy for you to get even the most “closed-off” guy to want to share his deepest desires, thoughts, and his life with you… You can get them by clicking HERE.

 

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3 Ways To Get His Full Attention

3 Ways to Create the Love, Attention and Affection You Deserve and Want with a Man

by Nadine Piat

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Perhaps you’ve been dating someone for a while, maybe you’re married or possibly single and looking for love…

 

No matter what stage of finding love or a relationship you’re in, it can feel terribly empty and lonely when your deepest longings and desires are not matched and reciprocated by the very man you desire or care deeply for.

 

I wonder how much time you spend worrying and stressing trying to work out how to get the man you want to care for you and love you in a way that feels heart connected and intimate?

 

Without realizing it, there could be a few things you’re doing that are standing in your way that can create an instant disconnection with a man…

 

We went to school to learn to read, write, to do math, science, art, etc., though most of us were never taught about communication, love, intimacy and relationships, which collectively happens to be the most important part of life, because everything we do is about relating to others and ourselves.

 

So, if you’re troubled in the area of love and intimacy, then know you’re not alone, and there are things you can do to quickly change your love success.

 

Here are three things you can do today that will create the love, attention and affection you deserve and want with a man:

 

1. Stop “trying” to be sexy!

Women can spend so much money, time and effort trying to make themselves more sexy for a man.  A woman who’s overly done up and looks as though she spends hours trying to look sexy and beautiful creates the opposite effect to what she was intending.  Sure, men like a woman that looks good and smells good, though many women take it too far and instead of attracting quality men, most men will think that you’re too much work or that you’re high maintenance.

 

A really short dress and lots of cleavage doesn’t make you sexier, nor does lots of make-up, pouting and hair flicking.  Trying to be sexy can come across as weird and off-putting.

 

A confident, self-loving woman who’s at peace with herself radiates true authentic sexiness.  This woman attracts the best men, the men who want real love and are ready for love.

 

2. Stop acting like you don’t care.

You’d be surprised how many women don’t encourage a man they like.  Many women worry about appearing too eager for fear of coming across as needy – and instead of this making him keener, she discourages him.  This is confusing to men.  Sure, the players might like the confusion, though relationship ready men will tend to lose interest in the ‘Miss Hot and Cold’ charade.

 

Don’t do it!  Be authentic.

 

Let him know you like him without being a doormat. And if it’s the early stages of dating, the truth is; you don’t know who the man really is, if you’re compatible and if he’s a man of character yet.  So be encouraging without putting the cart before the horse.

 

If you’re in relationship, then perhaps it’s time to show more appreciation and do some nice things for each other (more than you already do).

 

3. Overcome feeling nervous and anxious around men.

One of the quickest and most powerful things you can do to connect to a man’s heart is to shift your energy.  When a woman feels insecure and uncertain about a guy her energy screams it.  Nervousness can be cute in the early stages of dating, though not all nervousness comes from the same root source.

 

If you’re stressed about a guy, you might think that you’re acting cool and relaxed, though there’s a pretty good chance he can feel something’s going on.  People can normally tell when someone’s feeling edgy, anxious or dis-empowered.  When someone senses a level of insecurity, unspoken dissatisfaction or neediness most people will pull away.

 

Try this out:  When you’re speaking with a guy, or spending time with him face to face.  I encourage you to lighten your energy and connect with your own heart.  Breathe into your heart space and allow yourself to smile a little – not like a clown, a gentle loving smile, like the Mona Lisa, this will help you to instantly relax and feel peaceful. 

 

It doesn’t matter if you have things to work out with him, or if you’re feeling hurt and angry. That’s irrelevant.  Drop the ‘school teacher’, little girl having a ‘tantrum’, or ‘mummies upset’ with you vibe… men detest that and will shut down.  Communicate from the heart, not from a place of fear.

 

Try this heart energy and he’ll instantly feel more at ease with you. He will also feel safe around you and that’s something that men desire and need in order to open up to you.

 

So there you have it!  You now have a taste of three things you can do to bring a man closer that you can start doing right now.

Don’t give up!  Keep loving you and being a woman who draws in the best men.

Loving and connecting with a man is simple when you know how!

 

Ready for More? 

I’ve got A LOT more powerful insights and exclusive secrets for you that will not only connect you with the heart of your man, but will absolutely make him melt.  So if you’re looking for his full attention, here’s how to get it:  

Click here for the full scoop!

 

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