The Language of Desire and The Secrets To Men’s Sexual Psychology Webinar

The Language of Desire and The Secrets To Men’s Sexual Psychology Webinar

Well, I promised that our “Secrets of Men’s Sexual Psychology” Webinar was going to be full of amazing info and I’m happy to say that we delivered on that promise! We got a lot of fantastic feedback from those who attended so we wanted to make the video replay available to everyone just in case you couldn’t make it live.

Here is what Genessa said about the webinar:

Thank you for doing the webinar. My husband and I both sat here and enjoyed it and related to many things. We have been married for 26 years. We have a good marriage and a good sex life as well but at times that time goes up and down.. all good marriages can use a boost every now and then. ~ Genessa

Here is a brief outline of what we talked about and what you can expect when you watch the video:

  • How men are wired differently than women when it comes to their sex drives (biological programming vs. romantic love), and how this creates obstacles in our sex lives.
  • How to eliminate any “guess work” when it comes to his (and your!) needs and desires.
  • What men are REALLY attracted to in a woman (you’ve largely been lied to and we tell you why)
  • What he needs to get his emotional needs met and how that translates into not only heightening his attraction to you but also makes him want to please you even more.
  • Debunking myths about cultural archetypes which define what we think sexy is.
  • Triggering his #1 erogenous zone (it’s not what you might think – and no, it has nothing to do with how you look!) which in turn, triggers his sex drive.
  • How to effectively communicate your needs and desires in your relationship so that you are both satisfied.
  • Sexual play and techniques so that you can create the sex life that you want, within your own boundaries.
  • Lots and lots of naughty talk techniques.  These are gooood!
  • How to jump start the romance in your relationship.  Ladies, it’s not ALL up to him to bring the romance!

We hope you enjoy this wonderful webinar.  If you’d like to check out Felicity Keith’s AMAZING (I literally can’t stop gushing about it, it’s that good!) program The Language of Desire, click here for the letter version (without sound) and here for the video version (with sound).  Please be aware that these are NOT safe for work.

By the way, if you want to make sure you are informed of fantastic upcoming LSI events like this in the future, please join our Newsletter email group by clicking here. Just be aware that if you have registered here on the website to get post updates, you will NOT automatically receive our Newsletter email.  You will have to sign up for the Newsletter email group separately by clicking the previously mentioned link.  We look forward to you joining us!

Gia xo

 

Should You Be Waiting For Him?

Should You Be Waiting For Him?

by Claire Casey

Yes, most of the online advice says NEVER wait on a man. But have you ever felt such a simple answer is a bit too dismissive?

Have you wondered if there wasn’t some more information that might be helpful to you, hidden away inside the question…

“How do I know how long to wait?”

should you be waiting for him?

Life often isn’t black and white. Sometimes there are gray areas when it comes to knowing whether or not – or exactly how long – to wait for a man.

Because sometimes he’s got stuff going on, right? Maybe some very difficult stuff. The death of a family member, a critical illness, a major move or job change. That sort of thing can wreak havok with your relationships, not to mention your state of mind and emotional health.

So it’s a legitimate question, and you need to know how to answer it. How long should you wait?

Fortunately, there’s a simple and quick way to get at the answer – and no, it’s not a “one size/answer fits all” thing; it’s a way to find the answer that’s right for YOU, in whatever situation you might find yourself in…

Hi Claire,

My boyfriend of almost a year recently lost his father and step-father within a month of each other. It’s been very hard for him and he has been very distant. I have been very supportive and have been giving him space to deal with things.

He sent me a text this morning and said that he’s really sorry but he needs to be alone and can’t go out anymore. He would still like to be friends. I told him all of that was fine and thanked him for the text, etc.

Do you think we might get back together after all this? I’m guessing the answer is no because maybe this is was a good opportunity for him to realize that we weren’t compatible as a couple but I don’t know.

To be honest I was waiting for him to dump me a couple months ago ( I was very insecure about myself for a little bit) but then things seemed good again until all the funerals started.

How do you know if you should be waiting around and for how long?

~ Karen

Hi, Karen – thank you for writing. Several things about your letter jump out at me, but I want to begin by answering the biggest question first, because it’s such a powerful one. Far too many advice-givers online (and offline) dismiss this kind of question out of hand, and just say “never wait on a man.”

While that’s kind of an easy answer, there’s also another way to get at it that may be more helpful, especially given your particular circumstances and what’s going on with your guy.

The #1 Surefire Way to Know How Long to Wait on a Man

How Long Should You Wait for a Guy?So many women are looking very intently at the men they are dating – watching what HE’s doing, wondering what HE’s thinking, considering what HE wants, feels, and needs. That’s legit. But it’s also only half of the equation.

Karen, I do NOT want to trivialize the very important and life-changing troubles your boyfriend is going through, but here’s a little story that will remind you of something you aren’t thinking about right now…

Sarah was enjoying dinner at a lovely restaurant, and at the end of the meal, she ordered her very favorite end-of-meal treat: an Irish Coffee.

The waiter brought her a thick white mug, steaming and filled to the brim. She breathed in the aroma and sighed happily. Then she took a sip. It was a delicious, fine roast of coffee, thick with real cream and even a hint of brown sugar.

What was missing was the whiskey!

Sarah quickly caught the eye of the waiter and explained the oversight. He apologized profusely, retrieved the mug, and quickly brought her back the drink she had ordered, this time with all the ingredients she loved so much.

Happy ending, right?

Now every time you order an Irish Coffee, I hope you’ll think of this:

The way to answer the question “How do I know when and how long to wait on a man?” is to clearly know what YOU want.

I’ll say that again, in case you were distracted by the Irish Coffee… 🙂

The way to know when and how long to wait on a man – no matter what is going on in HIS life – is to know what YOU want, and (this is important, too) how long you’re willing to wait to get it.

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