The One Secret Text Message That He’s Dying to Hear

The Secret Text Message That He’s Dying to Hear

 

Do you want to learn the one secret text message that almost every man needs to hear? Once you send a text like this, don’t be surprised if he comes crawling back to you for more and more…

 

It’s something that a man desires more than anything else in the world and almost no women really know about it. Do you know what kind of text message it is?

 

I call it the “Respect” text message.

 

So, here’s the deal. The misconception is this: most women think that the only thing men want is sex. While this is true to a certain extent, that’s not exactly what he CRAVES in the long term. Sex is a transient experience…

 

But respect? It has the ability to last forever in a relationship or marriage.

 

So, before you text your man something… consider texting him something that shows you give him the kind of respect he deserves.

 

Here are a few examples…

 

You could say something like… “I appreciate how hard you work – you’re such a hard worker and I find that extremely sexy…”

Or you could text him something like, “I know I don’t say this enough to you, I appreciate how sexy you are… please don’t stop!”

 

These two examples sound pretty tame and innocuous to women, but in a man’s world, this is EXACTLY the type of thing he craves… more than anything else! And think to yourself – when was the last time you sent your man this kind of text message? I bet it’s been awhile… if at all!

 

Here are a few other text messages that you ABSOLUTELY must try with the man that you’re with (or trying to be with). I call this text the “Imagine Text”

 

You could try and say something like, “I always used to imagine what kind of ideal man I’d want to be with… and you have so many of those qualities!”

 

Or you could say something like…

 

“I’ve always fantasized about the type of man that I’d be with when I was a little girl… and definitely, you share a ton of the qualities I’ve thought about!”

 

If you send this to a man at the right time, don’t be surprised if he begins chasing after you harder than before. Don’t be shocked if he begins calling you, texting you, and wanting to be with you more and more.

 

Why?

 

Because you’ve given him something that the vast majority of women don’t give him. And it’s this respect dynamic that he’ll become psychologically addicted to you… and once he becomes addicted to you, you’ll be the only woman in the world that he becomes drawn to. This is how you fuel his desire to be committed and devoted to you like no other. Don’t believe me? Then you obviously haven’t tried sending a man these kinds of text messages.

 

At the end of the day, this idea that respect is the most important part of a relationship is absolutely one of the most crucial ideas in a relationship. Whether you’re in a marriage or you’ve just started dating, respecting your spouse is one of the keys to a longer lasting and happy relationship… and science has totally backed up that claim!

 

And the thing is… texting is one of the most powerful ways you can convey your man that you respect him. It’s simple, easy, and it barely takes any time to do. So, if you want to learn MORE ways you can make a man feel an undying love and devotion for you… then I encourage you to watch this free ‘how to’ guide on text messaging by my friend Amy North.

 

Click Here to Watch This Video

 

 

In it, you will learn the secret text message that makes a man feel a level of commitment to you like no other. Again, click here to watch this video – I promise that you won’t regret it!

 

In case you don’t know, Amy North is one of YouTube’s top relationship experts. Her channel has now over 400,000 subscribers and she releases some of the most ground-breaking relationship advice content on the internet.

 

And she’s been doing this for about 8 years… so she knows her stuff!

 

So do yourself a huge favor and watch that short video RIGHT NOW and really pump up your texting game. You and your man will be better off for it!

5 Texts You Should Never Send Her

5 Texts You Should Never Send Her

 

5 texts you should never send her

 

Penis pics may make women cringe, but there are other, less obvious texts she also hates—and chances are, you’re guilty of sending them. “The biggest problem is that you can’t interpret emotion over a text message,” says Carrie McDermott, co-founder of HeTexted.com, a site where women can post confusing texts from men. In other words, you might be thinking, “Totally nailed that convo!” while she’s feverishly forwarding your message to her gal pals. Here’s how to avoid ending up on McDermott’s website—or worse, in the doghouse.

 

Text from Hell #1: “Hey …”

You think you’re being flirty and suggestive, but this screams “lazy” to her. “You should never send a ‘nothing’ text—which is really just a text that demands the person receiving it does all the work,” says Michael Fiore, founder of textyourexback.com. Checking in via text is fine—as long as you make your intentions clear. Your line: “Hey there! Work is crazy today, but I just wanted to say hi!” or “Was just thinking about our ski trip last month. You’re one hell of a snow bunny :)” No extended conversation necessary.

 

Text from Hell #2: “?”

We get it: Emoticons are fun and a little bit ironic. But if a woman takes a risk and says, “I had a great time tonight,” a smiley face is just going to shut her down—not confirm that you agree, says McDermott. Same goes for “K”, “Haha, nice!” or “LOL!”—which really don’t count as responses at all. “We’re not asking for a novel here,” McDermott says. “Just give us a full sentence.” If she says she had fun, simply reply, “I had a really great time, too. Thanks for coming out with me.” Or if she forwards you a funny link, fire off a text that shows you actually read it, like, “That’s hilarious! Totally on point.”

 

Text from Hell #3: “What do you wanna do tonight?”

This is fine if you’re 5 years into a relationship. But in the early stages, you need to take charge—or at least offer a suggestion or two. “Women want a guy who will invite them on an adventure, not a guy who’s waiting around for them to make a decision,” says Fiore. Even a simple “Italian or Mexican?” will suffice.

 

Text from Hell #4: “I was pretty drunk last night …”

Sending this gem the morning after a hookup is the fastest way to mortify a woman. “No girl wants to see the words, ‘I don’t remember much,’ ” says McDermott. “It usually means the guy remembers everything and he’s embarrassed about it. And no woman is going to say, ‘Oh, let me give you an update. You said you liked me.’ ” If you truly regret what happened, that’s a conversation best had face-to-face—or at the very least, over the phone.

 

Text from Hell #5: “Going out with the guys. See you tomorrow.”

This should score you points—you are, after all, communicating your plans. But unfortunately, the tone of this text does you in. “This says, ‘The guys are more important to me than you are, and you won’t be hearing from me tonight,’ ” says Fiore. The key: Make her feel special when clueing her in. For example, you might say, “Hey, I’m going out with the guys tonight, but I’ll be thinking about you the whole time. Can’t wait to see you tomorrow.” “That way, she knows you’re thinking about her, and also has something to look forward to,” says Fiore.

Now that you’ve discovered 5 types of texts that will get you nowhere, do you want to learn more about how to do texting totally RIGHT?  Click here for the ultimate texting guide for men and women that has sold thousands of copies by best selling author and relationship expert, Michael Fiore.

Article originally posted by Laura Tedesco on menshealth.com