What Men Want in Bed but Would Never Tell You

What do men truly want in bed?

By: Faye Roberts


What men want

Have you ever had a fantasy? Something you thought about all the time, that you really wanted to come true?


Maybe it was a dream you had for your career, a fantasy about being a pop star or an amazing actress. Maybe it was a dream about the kind of guy you wanted to meet… Mr. Darcy anyone?


Ok. Now was this fantasy something you felt comfortable talking to everyone about… ?


Probably not, right?


There are some things that we think about but that we’re not ready to share.


In a nutshell, this is what we’re dealing with when it comes to men… all the time. About everything.




Because men are seriously shy.


Did you know that?


Oh sure, you probably knew that men don’t really like to readily share their feelings. They tend to be a little bit “silent” when it comes to discussing “emotions” in a “relationship” or “where things are going.”


But we’re not sure you’re getting the seriousness of it. Let’s say it again:


Men are shy.


They don’t want to share … well … pretty much anything.


So when it comes to you knowing what men really want in bed…


You don’t know as much as you think, hon.


You’ve “been around the block,” but are you sure you’ve learned everything about what a man wants?


We don’t mean to burst your bubble. Granted, you’ve probably found out some key things based on how he reacts when you’re in bed together (basically every man loves blow jobs, we all know that).


But we’re here to tell you that there is a lot you don’t know. It’s something that you won’t hear often because A) Men won’t be the ones to tell you. And B) Women’s magazines and resources have little way of finding out (they most often derive their information from women, not directly from men, where the information should be coming from!).


Ok. So there’s a lot you don’t know. Where do we go from here?


Well, we’ve got good news.


Someone has asked the men. Finally, someone’s done it.


His name is Michael Fiore. He’s a relationship professional and has been in the relationship field for decades, looking to find the things that men truly want out of relationships—because it is a major mystery to most analysts. In fact, it’s such a mystery that it took scientific data to get to the bottom of it.


And Michael Fiore has gotten to the bottom of it.


He did so by interviewing and surveying 30,000 individual men. He asked what they were looking for in the best sexual partner they could imagine.


The men ranged in age, income level, and race so that Michael was able to get a smattering of honest answers from men of all walks of life.


All of the survey information was kept confidential. And this was the key to enabling men to feel completely comfortable answering the questions 100 percent honestly. The answers Michael received were all raw, truthful responses.


You are unlikely to know this, but most surveys given to men include names and personal information for record. Of course, it makes sense that this causes men to fudge their answers. Naturally, they’re afraid of people (mostly women) finding out what it is they really want during sex. Remember, men are shy. They’re afraid of being vulnerable, and they don’t want to be embarrassed.


So after everything, what do men truly want in bed?

These were the top three answers:


  1. More Blow Jobs


You already knew blow jobs were popular, but did you know just how popular they were? Far and away, blow jobs were the most talked about thing that men wanted in bed.


  1. More Dirty Talk


You may have thought to yourself, “Ok, men like a little dirty talk during sex.” You’re thinking little phrases here and there to spice things up. But the truth is it’s more than that. Men want intense sexy talk and lots more of it.


  1. Threesomes


No, it’s not just a trope in porn that men want threesomes. They seriously want them. And it doesn’t mean that they want them so they can start actual relationships with the “third woman.” It means that you plus another female is what really turns them on. Like a lot.


Why Do Men Want These Things?


This is important!


You thought that the main part of this article would be what men want in bed, and yes, this is important. But what is truly important is why.


Why do men want these things?


This is what you need to know.


Most of it has to do with feeling powerful.


Men want to feel like they are the “alpha male,” like they are in control and feeling respected is paramount. This goes way back to our earliest ancestors: the men were in control. They got the job done. It’s in their DNA.


But of course, we don’t live in the times of cavemen. We live in a modern time where men might be judged for these desires. There is so much that women don’t know about men.


But there are ways to find out.


The best way is to use the findings of Michael Fiore. Everything he has learned has been thankfully compiled into one excellent resource that has been especially adapted for women. It’s called The Secret Survey.


It’s just like the title implies. It’s all of the results of the secret survey that Michael Fiore gave to 30,000 men.


If you have been struggling with confronting your man about what he really wants in bed, The Secret Survey could be your new best friend. It has even more, even deeper secret details on everything we’ve spoken of in this article.


Check out The Secret Survey here. Knowing your man and unlocking the deep, dark desires that he is too shy or too embarrassed to tell you is the key to connecting with him on the deepest level. It’s the key to making him see you as the only woman he can ever imagine being with.

NSFW-7 Amazing Oral Tips He Wishes You Knew

7 Amazing Oral Tips He Wishes You Knew



It’s happened to all of us. You’re in bed with your man, and things are heatin’ up. Maybe he’s your boyfriend, maybe your husband … or it could be the first time with a guy you’ve been dating for a while. Doesn’t matter—you know the signs.


The slight raise of the eyebrows.


The gentle push downward.


He lifts the covers for you and smirks.


It’s obvious what he wants. But do you know what you’re doing down there?


Working magic with your mouth can be daunting to some women. What feels good? Do I use tongue? My hands? Does he even like this? We’ve got no idea! We don’t have one of those things.


But don’t panic. Fortunately for the women of today, I’ve got a canon of tips, tricks and advice for you so that you can give your guy the time of his life tonight.


But first, let’s get one thing straight. This isn’t advice for women to be at the beck and call of men’s sexual desires. This is advice for women who have an important man in their life that they would like to make happy in bed. After all, it goes both ways.


Remember, oral is a healthy part of intimacy. Men love it (we all know that), and women love it to, but right now … we’re up, ladies!


Okay, let’s get started!


1. Start Slow

Wrapping your lips around his shaft from the get-go will definitely get a reaction from him, but remember, you’re taking this thing to the end, so start slow.

Give kisses down his chest until you arrive at your destination. Graze your mouth on key areas. Use soft fingers. Then, when you go for it, take things one inch at a time.


2. Use Those Hands

The hands add more warmth and stimulation to the experience, so use them! Circle the thumb and fingers around the shaft right against where your lips are, and put the other hand on the shaft as well, or use it to touch and massage other places.


3. Then Take Them Away

Oral is about sensation, but it’s also about what he’s seeing. If you’re on your knees in front of him, for example, try dropping your hands for a while so he can see just your mouth around him. The key is to switch things up.


4. The Wetter the Better

We know your mouth is already wet, but we’re talking really slippery. Try gathering some moisture in your mouth and depositing it as you take him in. Do this a few times, and use your hands to massage the wetness down his shaft.


5. Show Him You’re Into It

Show your guy you’re into what you’re doing. He’ll love it, and it’ll get you more into it for real as well. For example, he’ll love to hear you moan, plus the vibrations will feel good to him as well.

You can also look up at him every once in a while, or take a break with your mouth and use your hands while you whisper a phrase or two of dirty talk.


6. Switch Positions

If oral is a common part of your routine, don’t always just sneak under the covers to do it.

Try throwing off those covers to let him watch. You could also get on your knees in front of him while he sits on the couch (if no one else is home!), or try laying on your back with your head at the edge of the bed. Have him stand at the side and take him in that way.


7. Don’t Forget the Boys

As you build a rhythm and take him to the brink, try expanding your territory. There’s more than just his penis down there, and those other two are definitely part of the pleasure center for men. Try massaging his boys with one hand while you use the other on his shaft, for instance.


These are just a few tips to get you started, but there are many more where that came from right here.


On his site, Michael Webb, The Oprah Winfrey Show’s relationship and sex expert gives up everything guys are dying for you to know about giving him THE BEST oral of his life in his amazing lessons series.


Check it out—and your man will love you for it!






Revealed: The Top Two Hottest Things To Say In Bed

Revealed: The Top Two Hottest Things To Say In Bed

By Nick Bastion


top two hottest things to say in bed


When trying to up the spice in their love life and the pleasure in their lovemaking, most women focus on trying different physical things in the bedroom. They change how they touch their man, or how their man touches them, which positions they try, even what parts of the body they touch.
What most women are missing is a huge component for wildly pleasurable sex – the mind. More specifically, how to stimulate the mind in order to up the heat in the bedroom and turn on your man (and yourself) to new erotic heights.
One of the best ways to stimulate your mind in the bedroom is through dirty talk, both for him and for you. Saying the right thing in bed can drive him wild with passion, and can up the pleasure you feel enormously.
That’s why I polled my 100,000 member strong reading list on what their favorite thing for a woman to say in bed is, and then separated out the answers for men and women. I picked out the two answers that got the most responses, and here they are:
To Get Him Off:
“I’m coming”
That’s it. Those two little words are the most popular pick for what guys love to hear in bed. Men absolutely love when they hear those two little words in the bedroom. Not only is it a huge ego boost when they hear it, it also amplifies his pleasure, because it lets him know you’re getting off. It tells him that you’re so turned on you have no control over yourself anymore, that even if you wanted to, you couldn’t stop yourself from having an orgasm. That’s a very powerfully erotic thing to men, and it enhances his pleasure as well as yours.

To Get Yourself Off:
This one is a little less basic: for many women, giving their man a compliment on specifically what he’s doing helps them to focus on the sensation and up their pleasure.

“It feels so good when you [verb] my [body part]” came in at number one in my poll for women. When you specifically call attention to what he’s doing in a positive way, it makes him feel really good – it strokes his ego and makes the act that much more erotic to him.

Also, when you bring your own attention to it and say the words out loud, it actually makes the act more pleasurable for you. Plus, he’s more likely to keep doing the thing you like, which means you get off more.


Here’s a question for you:  Are you sick of not getting your “Big O” as much as you want when you’re in bed with your man?
Or worse, never getting one at all and worrying that you’re doing something wrong, or that some part of you is broken?
Well, what if I told you that you can have the best sex of your life and have incredible vaginal orgasms every time you have sex… with no shame, no effort, and no embarrassment?
Just a simple, natural method that very few women know about…
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When you know this method, you can have orgasms every time you have sex – even if you’ve never had one before in your life and are worried you can’t.
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