The 10 Second Text That Will Make Him Smile For Hours

The 10 Second Text That Will Make Him Smile For Hours

 

Whether you’ve got your eye on a man you still need to get to know better or you’re looking for ways to really spice things up with your boyfriend or husband today, texting is the way to a man’s heart. Yeah, seriously.

 

How do we know this?

 

Direct from men themselves! Well, one man in particular and not just any man: Michael Fiore.

 

Michael Fiore is a texting and relationship expert who has been head-hunted by some of the biggest names in television and media. Most recently, Michael was on the Rachel Ray Show, talking about a program he’s created to help any woman get any man she wants. But more on that later.

 

For now, we’re talking about one text, that will literally make your guy have a perma-grin on his face for hours and be unable to hold himself back from you when he finally gets to see you.

 

It may sound too good to be true, but seriously, it’s not. This thing works, and it’s worked for hundreds of women and their partners (or now partners because they were able to snag the guy of their dreams with this one text!).

 

So without further ado, we give you the ultimate guide for making any man become instantaneously obsessed with you and only you … (oh, and exactly what you need to say will be near the end).

 

Guide to Writing the Hottest “C&A” Text

 

“C&A”?

 

According to Michael Fiore, C and A stands for Curiosity and Attention. These are the two most vital things you need to have in order to capture the twinkle in your man’s eye. Oh and a cell phone. Michael is quick to tell you not to forget that for this to work, your man needs to have a cell that they text with all the time. These days, that’s probably easy. Men are addicted to their phones, and if you send him a text, no matter where he is, he’s going to see it.

 

In this way, texting is the perfect medium for connecting with your guy. It’s the best way to both get his attention and capture his curiosity … his imagination. Because ultimately, you want to get in his head.

 

The Irresistible Whisper …

 

You’ll love this. Michael Fiore’s first piece of advice when creating the Curiosity and Attention text for your man is to not grab his attention with a ridiculous SHOUT as so many women foolishly do (and this usually ends terribly) but to use an irresistible whisper.

 

Be gentle, calm and seductive instead of loud, abrasive and needy.

 

Next, Michael says to bait the hook with curiosity. Make him feel that he can’t NOT respond to your text in order to learn more about the intriguing things you’re talking about. He says that by creating an “Alternate World” for you and your guy, you’re going to allow for bigger and more intimate feelings to bubble up. You’ll be able to feel connected and close with one another. Passion will erupt in this world … Even when you’re at home taking care of the kids or driving to work and even when he’s stuck at the office or in a business meeting … you’ll both be able to be connected to this world.

 

As a man, creating this world and leaving this blinking cursor space for him to fill will also make him feel more confident, more powerful and appreciated. This is what every man wants to feel. They don’t want ego killers.

 

What’s an “ego killer? It’s like a distraction, says Michael. For example, it might be a reminder of a heavy day of work at his job or traffic on the way home. You want to get him on Cloud 9 and keep him there.

 

Alright. Want to know the first thing you should send?

 

“I can’t stop thinking about …”

 

It’s super easy, but this phrase (trust in Michael here) is powerful. Why? First of all, it makes you seem like you’re almost in pain about something … that has to do with him. Here, we meet the curiosity factor: He will not be able to last the day let alone a few hours before texting back: “About what?”

 

He’s got to know.

 

Now keep in mind that Michael Fiore recommends not to text anything in between. Have faith that he is going to respond. Just send that first text … and you should definitely get a response.

 

Now, if he does text back “About what?” or something like that, you’ve got to know what to do. And you don’t get a response at all … you’ve got to know what to do too.

 

No worries. Michael has you covered with his program, Text the Romance Back. In this program, you’ll be able to secretly access the most intensely emotional part of your man’s brain. You’ll be able to unleash his romantic side and bate him into hunting you and pursuing you just like you want to be. After all, to men and women, romance is different. For men, it’s like a game. And for them, if you play the game wrong as a woman … you could lose.

 

Men want to chase you and give you all the romance you deserve and want. So why not let them? Let them make you swoon.

 

But you’ve got to attract him and make him insanely curious first. And to do that you need the text above as well as the others that Michael Fiore will show you in his program.

 

Set loose the romantic beast in your man … check out Text the Romance Back right now.

 

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When Long Term Relationships Get Stale: How to Relight the Fire Tonight

Couple in long term relationship

When you’re young, you dream about the perfect LTR or long term relationship.

 

When you’re single, you dream about basically any LTR.

 

When you’re in a terrible relationship, you dream about a better LTR.

 

And then you get into a long term relationship.

 

And it’s great. He makes you breakfast in bed. You cuddle. He texts you a little smiley face with heart eyes. You go out to dinner together. You mend clothes for him (Right?) Ok, maybe not.

 

But the point is it’s good.

 

Yada yada yada.

 

And most of all … You have sex all the time.

 

… for …

 

… a while.

 

Because …

 

oh wait…

 

A year has gone by.

 

Now 2, 3, 4 … and more …

 

And all of a sudden … You look at your sex life and you realize it’s basically (gasp!) non-existent.

 

What on earth happened!

 

We’ll tell ya! : You’re in the LTR Rut. The dry spell. The stale phase. The do-not-pass-go-do-not-collect-100-dollars-era.

 

And if you want this thing—this relationship—to last (and if you want to keep your sanity), you’ve got to find a way to relight that fire tonight. So, here’s how:

 

Relighting the Fire in Your Long Term Relationship in 10 Easy Steps

 

Step 1: Pick a time.

 

Ok so you don’t actually have to do this tonight, but the sooner the better. And because you have been a naughty couple and haven’t been scheduling sex like you kinda have to when you get in an LTR, you’ll need to go to the calendar and pick your date and time now.

 

Make sure you’re both free and nothing stressful is happening. For example, maybe don’t pick the day before his big morning presentation to spice things up.

 

Step 2: Start the ball rolling now.

 

A great way to get things going is with texting. The key is to build up the buildup. In other words: foreplay. So send your partner a sexy text. Tell him you’ve “been thinking about him” or that you “can’t wait to give him something special when he gets home tonight.”

 

Step 3: Psych yourself up.

 

Ok let’s get real. You’ve decided to relight the fire, but consider why it’s faded in the first place. You haven’t been digging sex for a while now. Well, don’t think about that now! In other words, don’t think, just do. Get ready to rekindle the fire.

 

Forget about how he sometimes does that weird thing with his nose and it turns you off or how you want to lose 15 pounds. Nu-uh. You need this. Sometimes you need to act before realizing how good someone is for you. The realization doesn’t always come first.

 

Step 4: Ok, do do a little problem solving.

 

Alright, but for real, why haven’t you wanted to have sex recently? If it is something you can control, do it!

 

In other words, if you usually feel self-conscious about hairy legs, get a nice wax or just shave. If you’re stressed about work all the time, make a point to set aside this time or try a guided meditation that day to calm your nerves. If you can’t have sex in a dirty bedroom, have sex in the den! Or clean.

 

Step 5: Brush up on some moves and dirty talk.

 

Do you have a few fun moves up your sleeve? Make sure you’re prepared just like studying for a test! If there are positions you especially favor, know how to work them in (or discuss it in your foreplay). You should also think about some dirty talk if you’re not good on the fly. Preparing a few key phrases isn’t weird at all—it’s preparation!

 

Step 6: Set the scene for love.

 

Again, clean up your room and put fresh sheets on the bed (if that’s where you’re gonna be). Light a candle, put on some mood music. Wear perfume, get fancy. Setting the mood is a great way to build anticipation for him and you.

 

Step 7: Build up the angst.

 

Ok remember those texts? Make sure you’re keeping them up throughout the day. And keep building the tension. Ask questions, form some intrigue in his mind. Maybe even a sneak peak of your lingerie or something similar.

 

Step 8: And … Action!

 

Get to it girl 😉

 

Step 9: Talk about it after sex.

 

Now that you’ve done it, woohoo! But don’t pass out or part ways too soon. Now, you need to cinch the deal. In other words, talk about how good it was or what moves you want to try next time, anything to keep the conversation moving. And of course, cuddle.

 

Step 10: Make a plan.

 

This is the final step and the most crucial. You can’t let this rut happen again, so you need to plan for the future.

 

For many couples, this means organizing or scheduling sex or if you just can’t stand the idea of seeing “SEX” on your calendar, you should organize date nights (or days).

 

The point is, you need to set aside time to get together. Even if it’s just going for a walk or sitting alone together and chatting about your week, this is the time that keeps you intimate, and frequent intimacy is the key to staying sexually active in your relationship.

 

Follow these steps and see what they can do for your sex life. Soon, you won’t have to put “SEX” on your calendar because you’ll be having it way more than you ever expected. And that’s the best outcome.

Should You Still Go After “The One That Got Away”?

It doesn’t matter how old you are. If you’ve been in the dating game for at least a few years, everyone has: The One That Got Away.

 

the one that got away

 

Was it a relationship that ended because you were just too young, too career-oriented, or didn’t realize what you had? Or perhaps distance kept you apart, or you met this person while you were still dating someone else. Maybe you only met once and had a sole night of sparks and passion and perfect chemistry … but then you never saw them again.

 

No matter what exactly happened, it’s a classic case of lost romance, and it can keep you lying awake in bed at night … trying to figure out if this person was a figment of your imagination … or the person you were truly meant to be with.

 

If you are actually considering this move—to go after him or her, track them down, and inevitably confess your love—you’ve got some things to consider before you make the leap. These tips will help you make this big decision … or decide not to.

 

First, What Do You Know?

 

Before you head out to get this guy: what are the facts? How did you meet? How long did you know him? What is he really like? Does he have a sordid past, a solid job, a home? Is he dating someone else? Do you still talk?

 

It’s important to sit down and assess the answers to these questions, because if you don’t, you could be heading into something you’re not prepared for. We often have a fantasy in our minds about “the one who got away.” Deciding to go after this person is a huge decision, and if it’s going to be just chasing a fantasy, you might want to take a step back and realize you’re better off moving on.

 

On the other hand, if you come to the same longing conclusion … that this person is The One … doing something about it may be the riskiest and most rewarding thing you’ll ever do.

 

Don’t Do Your (Current) Partner Wrong

 

Another important tip to remember is not to do your current partner wrong. If you are single, don’t worry about this piece of advice, but if you are seeing someone right now (even if it’s not extremely serious), you need to keep their feelings in mind.

 

Just the fact that you are thinking about this person who got away in your past should be a red flag that maybe the relationship you’re in right now is not the right one for you. So you might want to part ways regardless of what you do. That isn’t to say that our minds won’t just wander sometimes and later, we can realize we need to come back to the present and be thankful and grateful for what we have right in front of us. As the song says, “love the one you’re with.”

 

Butagain, if you know that this person from your past is truly the one for you, you need to make a move with a good conscience. And that will mean breaking it off with your current partner. You should not go after someone else while you’re still in your relationship. Going after this other person and thinking “oh, if it doesn’t actually work out with them, I still have my current partner” is not a kind thing to do.

 

If You’re Going to Do This … Prepare Yourself

 

Ok. If you’re still with us and you do indeed want to find this person from your past and confront them with either a testing of the waters for their mutual affection or an upfront revelation of your own love for them, you need to prepare and protect yourself before you make the move.

 

First, if you haven’t talked to this person in a long time, it could be revealed to you that they are in a relationship or even in a relationship with a family.

 

Similarly, they may have completely changed! When you get your hopes up a lot before endeavoring to do something huge like this, you need to prepare yourself for a possible letdown. You need to be ready for what may come.

 

Make Your Move the Right Way

 

You don’t want to be the crazy ex who shows up out of nowhere and blurts their love out in front of a church or an entire room of people.

 

Not cool.

 

The way to get this guy or girl back is … with texting.

 

Texting!?

 

You read that right.

 

Knowing what to say in the perfect texts to him or her can unlock their heart in ways you never knew possible.

 

For instance, did you know that men need visual cues in order to truly fall in love with someone? On the other hand, women unconsciously desire imaginative ideas of their future. Give them these and they’ll be putty in your hands.

 

To get you started, try the Text Your Ex Back program. It’s quick and easy and extremely informative about exactly what you need to say to your ex. You are only a few texts away from seeing if this person from your past is really meant for you. Don’t let this opportunity pass you by. True love could be just around the corner.