The 7 Lies You Can Be Sure He’s Been Telling You

The 7 Lies You Can Be Sure He’s Been Telling You


Sadly, all men do lie. Hey, women do too sometimes … but right now, we’re talking about men.


The key is to know exactly where men are typically deceitful. Because oh yes: Men tend to have a trend when it comes to their falsehoods …


The White Lies He Tells


  1. “I love what you have on. You look great!”


Ok this one’s not always a lie, but sometimes: Yeah. Usually it’s when you “dress for women” instead of for men.


For example, when you wear those gaucho pants with the flouncy top and statement necklace.


Women? Think the outfit’s super fly. Men? Think it’s … sorta funny-lookin. That’s because they would prefer you in a slinky little black dress with stilettos every day. But how boring, right?


  1. “I never masturbate because I have you, sweetheart.”


Well, probably not true. Almost all men masturbate from time to time. And with the libido that some men have, you should be glad that they do unless you’re into having sex all the time.


  1. Ew, porn is terrible. I don’t know why any man would watch that.”


Most men watch porn, and that’s just a fact. Similar to masturbating, it’s just a part of how they’re wired. To be sure, many women watch porn as well. Generally speaking, as long as the porn doesn’t cross any serious, legal or completely amoral boundaries, porn can just be a fun thing to get the motor running.


  1. “I never think about my ex.”


He does. Now, this doesn’t mean that he’s pining over her, but come on. You think about your ex, right? From time to time, he probably does too.


The More Dangerous Lies He Could Be Telling You


  1. “Oh her? Ha! She’s just a friend. I could never imagine being interested in her.”


The fact that he is even saying that is cause for alarm. The fact that you are even thinking about this or having to ask him about another woman is cause for alarm.


  1. “I haven’t had sex with that many women, honestly.”


Well, he probably actually has had his share of rolls in the sack.


Now, if he’s just trying to be more gentlemanly by not “naming names,” then that’s one thing. But do keep in mind that those who have a lot of multiple partners in their past (generally more than you can count on two hands) do have a higher risk for STDs (even if they’re committed to one person now). So that’s something to actually be serious and learn the truth about if you’re engaging in sexual activity.


  1. “I’m definitely serious about us. But I just have a lot going on, and I’m not ready to commit.”


If he’s saying this while simultaneously wanting to get in your pants, run for the hills. This guy is lying through his teeth. If he was really serious about you, he would figure out a way to drop everything and commit to you.


Tips and Tricks for Knowing When He’s Lying About Other Things


If the FBI can use little signs and cues to know when someone’s fibbin, why can’t you?


Sure signs he’s a big fibber:


  • You’re getting TMI (too much information). For example: “Yeah, last night, me and my buddies got beers, everyone got two beers each, and we went out to the beach. You know the one by the gas station. And we stayed there for about an hour and fifteen minutes. Then we had to stop at John’s house and we were there for about 15 minutes and then …”


  • You’re getting TLI (too little information). For example:


You: “What’d you do last night?”

Him: “Just hung out with friends?”

You: “Where?”

Him: “Around.”

You: “With who?”

Him: “Just some people.”


  • He blows up when you act skeptical in the least and acts like you’re crazy. This is also known as “gaslighting.” You ask a single question about the validity of what he’s saying, and he freaks out and turns it around on you, like you’re the untrustworthy one.


  • Other signs that he’s not being truthful:


  • He can’t look you in the eye.
  • He skirts around answering by kissing or hugging you.
  • He changes the subject.
  • You’re gut just tells you that something is wrong.



So You’re Fairly Certain He’s Lying: What Now?


When you’re fairly sure he’s lying about something important between the two of you, this is an extremely difficult thing to take. So many questions will be running through your head at this point, but likely, two questions will be at the forefront:


  1. Why did you do this?
  2. What can I do to get him back?


But if you’re asking these questions, it does mean that you’re ready to hear the real, albeit often hard-to-take truth about men in general. This is something that thousands of women never hear in their lifetimes.


And if you want this information (as well as how to use it to get him back and save your relationship), you have to go to the source. And that’s men themselves.


But knowing what your man—or any man for that matter—thinks and feels about you, your relationship or anything at all can be truly difficult because, well, men aren’t the type to expose their feelings. Like, ever.


Fortunately, however, we have a man named Michael Fiore, who is willing to give us this very information. How did he get it?


One, Fiore’s a relationship coach and an author who has been featured on CBS Radio, Fox News, Rachel Ray and many other popular shows and platforms for his amazing techniques to help both men and women improve their romantic lives.


Two, he interviewed and surveyed a large number of men and got their real, actual answers to the questions all women have.


Three, he’s a man himself.


Which leads us to The Secret Survey. This is the program that Michael Fiore created from all the knowledge he has gleaned over his years as a leading relationship expert. This program will tell you all the things that men desperately want you to know about them … but will never tell you.


If you’ve been hit hard by a man who has lied, cheated or just grown completely distanced from you … remember that there is hope. Try The Secret Survey to see how you can turn it all around. Because Fiore doesn’t just leave you hanging. He gives you the information … AND tells you how to use it to make your man fall even more in love with you than you ever thought possible.


Why Do Men Dump Women? It’s Not What You Think



Many women who have been dumped will tell you: It came out of nowhere.


One day, everything’s fine! You’re cuddling on the couch, and he says something like, “When we have kids …” Your heart goes aflutter. Later, he blows you a kiss on his way out the door and texts you he loves you from work.


Then Bam. Like a bolt of lightning from nowhere, he says something like:


“I don’t think we should see each other anymore.”


“I just need to focus on myself right now.”


Or the classic (and yes, guys actually still say this): “It’s not you, it’s me.


So why do men really dump women?


Well … it’s not what you think.


Ask any woman who’s been dumped and they’ll probably say that he wanted someone skinnier, or he thought he could do better, or he was afraid of commitment.


In actuality, men are much less obsessed with the way you look or your status than you think. And often, you are the one who is afraid of commitment … true commitment. Sure, maybe you’re gung ho about getting married, buying a house, starting a family … but are you actually committed to him? Or do you just want to add some milestones to your Facebook timeline? Guys can tell, and they don’t want to be a pawn. They want to be listened to and loved like a man.


So here are the real reasons why men dump women, straight from them to you


  1. You’ve become the clichéd “nag” without even realizing it.


Men know they screw up sometimes. They forget that you have a “certain way” of stacking the dishes in the cupboards. They sometimes leave their shoes on in the house. They snore.


But you need to lay off sometimes. It gets to them.


  1. You don’t trust your man, and they get sick of explaining.


The worrier in you is there to protect you, but sometimes it can be your enemy. For instance, it can be your enemy when you turn every glance at a woman, every late night out, and every missed phone call into a potential cheating episode.


When he tells you something, you need to have trust.


  1. You dredge up the past at every opportunity, and it gets to be too much.


Again, he has made mistakes. But who hasn’t? And no one wants to relive their mistakes again and again. Especially if he has already apologized many times, you need to learn how to leave the past behind.


  1. You try to change them, whether you realize it or not.


They may never be that man who wears those shirts you love. He may never love wine tasting. You need to accept that and love him for who he is instead of who you want him to be.


  1. You don’t listen.


Finally, men are sensitive. You may not think they are or that they just want to avoid talk of emotions, but they want you to listen. They want to have their feelings heard too.


Getting to the Bottom of Why You Were Dumped And Can You Get Him Back?

 Psst: In many cases, Yes.


The reasons listed above are why most men truly end up dumping their partners. But if you were recently dumped, your specific situation may be different from other women’s. So you’ll need to examine what happened before and after the breakup to actually see what went wrong.


Doing this will involve getting in contact with him again. You may be angry, hurting and sensitive right now. But if you actually want to know what went wrong (and if you’re reading this right now, then we can only assume you do), then you need to connect with him again.


Moreover, if you want him back, this step of course needs to take place.


How you connect will be of vital importance.


You cannot simply approach your ex and demand an explanation. If you truly think things can work between you two, it’s definitely possible, but you need to find out if he really loves you first. Try these tips to help you.


  1. Don’t treat him like a woman.


This seems obvious, but as women, we just naturally want to relate to anyone as if they were a woman. Don’t do this. You need to know how men operate.


  1. Open up. Don’t accuse.


You’ll be mad. That’s obvious. But making accusations and yelling at a man is just shutting him down more. You need to know how to communicate.


  1. Look for key clues that he really loves you.


Did you know that if a man fidgets when he’s near you, it often means he is really attracted to you but unconsciously is acting like he doesn’t want you to know? Know what to look for.


  1. Ask the right questions.


Finally, if you can learn how to talk to him like a man, open up and be gentle, and see those secret clues that tell you he cares for you, you’ll then need to help him open up by asking the right questions.


This is the hard part. You need to know the correct things to ask. Now, every man is different, but starting with a set of questions that has worked for every woman that has tried them is the very best plan of action. These are the very questions in Michael Fiore’s Why He Lies. This program was made by a man—a nationally renowned relationship expert—and made with surveys taken from 1000s of other men.


The 7 questions presented in this program can finally reveal to you why this man broke up with you … and whether he actually still loves you right this very second.


The thing is … that love might be fading as we speak! There is only a small window where these approaches will work for your relationship, so act soon.


Remember, sometimes we all make mistakes in our relationships. But when you realize that the love of your life is walking away from you … it can snap you back into the realization of your mistakes. If you truly love him, realize your mistakes and take action. You can get him back.

Are You Being Ghosted?

Ghosting: THIS Is Why It’s Happening to You

By: Faye Roberts



Think back 10 or more years. Do you remember sitting by your home phone and waiting for that special someone to call? Quite the nail biting experience, right?


And if they didn’t call, if hours went by or even days or entire weekends … no need to worry! There were many ways to justify their absence. Like perhaps they …


  • Were out of town.
  • Got sick.
  • Were just totally bogged down with work.
  • Were trying to play hard to get with you …
  • Were having trouble with their phone lines?
  • Oh! They were in a serious accident!
  • Kidnapped … ?
  • Suddenly had to go into witness protection … Maybe?


Ok, so some of these could have been true, but of course some of them were never true and never would be. Sometimes, that guy or girl just didn’t like you back, and it was a relatively easy letdown once you understood. In most cases, they’d tell you.


Today, things are different. The fact that there are so many ways we can contact each other (call, text, email, Facebook …) means that there are also so many ways we can be, well, ignored.


In fact, because most people in this day and age are with a phone, computer, or tablet almost 24/7, it’s made the ignoring glaringly obvious.


And the phenomenon has been given a name: Ghosting.


What Is Ghosting?


Ghosting occurs when someone you’ve been dating or would like to start dating suddenly stops replying to your calls, texts and emails. It happens one day seemingly out of the blue, or you may notice a slow trail of less and less contact.


The common denominator in all ghosting situations is that you don’t get an explanation. You don’t get a straightforward “I don’t want to date you anymore” or anything similar. As such, you’re left with a lot of questions.


Why Do People Think It’s Okay to Ghost Someone?


If you’re wondering about the answer to this question, then you’re probably not the kind of person who would ghost someone else, and that’s a good thing.


At its core, ghosting is a rather cowardly, rude act that almost always ends up hurting the other person. Even if you’ve only been on a few dates, even if you haven’t even gone out yet! Being rejected hurts.


And having no idea why you’ve been rejected? Hurts even more.


Every ghosting situation is naturally different. But most of the time, you can attribute ghosting to the dating climate in this day and age. Things are different! People are literally swiping through pictures of people to see “who looks good.” In other words, people are more expendable.


Some people are going on multiple dates in one night, courting several people simultaneously. So someone you met online and made plans with may have tried making plans with 4 other people too. If one of those people strikes their fancy first—you’re out. No fair, right? We don’t think so either, but it’s what’s happening to a lot of people.


What to Do if You’ve Been Ghosted


It can feel really bad to be ghosted. If it’s a longer term relationship, it’s of course going to be especially crushing. Here are 3 ways to help yourself deal with it.


  1. Accept It and Realize the Dating World Has Changed


The realization that you’ve been ghosted hurts. But you have to notice it, see it for what it is, and accept it so that you can avoid any embarrassment and move on. How to see it? Well, if you haven’t gotten a response from them after 3 attempts on your part, don’t assume they’re trapped under something heavy. You’ve probably been ghosted.


You will know when someone is into you. You’ll feel it because they’ll lay it on thick, and you’ll be able to tell even if they’re trying to play hard to get.


If you’ve been ghosted, remember, it’s not about you. Accept it, and talk to friends about it. Almost everyone has been ghosted.


  1. Cut Contact on Your End


Now, it’s your responsibility to stop contacting them. Don’t text to say “I know what you’re doing! You %#@$!” Don’t leave a message saying “I miss you, call me!” And do not go to their house, try to find out information from your mutual friends, or “accidentally run into them” at their favorite bar. As soon as you realize what’s going on, cut the contact.


  1. Get the Answers You Deserve


This pertains to longer term relationships. If you’ve only texted or talked on the phone or perhaps been out once or twice, don’t dig yourself into a bigger hole—cut the line and move on.


But if you’ve been dating for a while, and all of the sudden, your calls and texts aren’t being answered, you go to their house and knock on the door, and nothing, then you see they’ve just posted a picture of themselves with someone else on the Internet … you know what’s going on. And that’s very unkind. You deserve to know why it’s happening.


Women tend to be more compassionate to men in these situations. If you’re a guy in a ghosting situation, try respectfully asking the woman what’s going on, and they’ll hopefully explain. But remember, if you’re angry and aggressive, you can almost guarantee they’ll keep ignoring you.


For women who want to know why they’ve been ghosted by men, it’s a whole different story. Why men lie is one of the great questions of our time. Why don’t they feel like they can tell the truth? What’s going on in their minds? Why are they closing us out?


Fortunately, one man is giving up the answers.


Famed relationship expert Michael Fiore has decided to tell the dirty truth about why men lie in his amazing guide especially for women called The Secret Survey.


The Secret Survey explains in detail what men are dying for women to know. They lie for a reason—you know that, right? And as a woman, you hold a lot of the power here.


For example, did you know that men feel extremely vulnerable around women? And that because this feeling of vulnerability goes directly against the expectation that men always be tough and masculine, this scares men and makes them cut contact out of fear of being too emotional?


This is only one element of The Secret Survey. The guide is a must for every woman, but especially for women who are being ghosted.


The feeling of being ghosted hurts badly, but the situation may not be what you think it is. Look into The Secret Survey to see if what you’ve been suspecting may be true …  and don’t lose hope.


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